Dating

If you’re in your fifties and find your self single again, take heart. There is a lighter side to the game. Yes, it is still a game, but with slightly different rules. For one thing it’s okay for the woman…
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The Internet: what a truly amazing place to meet people! With a single click of a button, one can find themselves in a virtual room with dozens of other people, most of whom would be forever out of one’s range…
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It’s a scary, wicked world we live in, and as a single woman, I never posted my picture on a dating website. I didn’t feel safe putting my face out in cyberspace and announcing to anyone and everyone what community…
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It started about 5 years ago. What brought it on? Was it some sort of mid-life crisis? I guess I just woke up one morning and decided that time was ticking away. After all, I was in my late 50’s…
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Ending an on-line romance is really much easier than ending a real-time romance, because you are not expected nor required to do it in person. Assuming that the romance has not moved beyond the on-line stage (since it would no…
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I was on a yahoo group and wrote an answer to a lady who was talking about people just wanting to have fun and it being hard to meet someone who was for real. She really put people down on…
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Rules to Internet dating and using sound judgement when agreeing to meeting someone online. Keep in mind that what is being said will also help you to avoid problems and issues and here are 6 simple rules to consider: 1.Keep…
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The answer is definitely “no!”  The problem with having too many pre-requisites for relationships is that no one can meet all the criteria for the perfect partner.  The problem with most relationships is that too many barriers have been created…
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                In recent correspondence, I wrote that I was in a de-facto relationship and was surprised that the recipient had not heard of the term. Surprised because I’m a bit of smart-ass and one of those know-it-all women that is…
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Anyone can attract a guy- seriously. The problem with a lot of women is the kind of guys they attract. The first question we need to ask about this topic is what kind of guy are you trying to attract?Predatory…
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Love: An Idealized Paradox “We all know that beautiful things are often unreal.” – Three Men and One Woman (Shen Ts’ung-wen) If only love were as simplistic and painless as we idealize it to be. Love gives us headaches, heartaches…
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Despite what the femme fatales in movies make it out to be, smoking is everything but attractive. While it may be nice to indulge in the occasional cigarette or cigar, the fact of the matter stands, smoking is one of…
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That all depends on how it was with those after the first. For myself I had a series of firsts in different things both physical and emotional, though I consider myself lucky to have had the first time I was…
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I don’t believe there is such a thing as a soul mate, just those people in life we get on better with than others. I may sound a little cynical, but I have to ask how, given the billions of…
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Relationships are complex things, especially for men who seldom ever are able to know what a girl is thinking. If you at some point in your life meet someone new who you think you may have a shot with, there…
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Just hearing those three words, “I Love You”, makes anyone feel special.  These days, most people are in such a rush with everything between work, kids and just life in general.  They are sometimes so busy and focused on other…
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Love is a very strong word that not many people know the true definition of. A person can say “love” and mean it in several different ways. Alot of people confuse love with lust. Love to me, is when you…
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As a believer in love and what it stands for. I just can’t allow you to believe that there is something as deep and significant to understand at the age of fifteen. There is only lust, or a strong admiration…
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Tall, Dark, and Handsome.  That is a very typical way to answer what physical traits women find irresistible in men, but does it really answer the question.  Below is a list of physical traits that will drive women wild. *DISCLAIMER…
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There are no one-size-fits-all answers as to what qualities make a relationship work. The needs for each relationship are as different as the individuals themselves. What works in one may not work in another. Generally, there are a handful of…
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How does one describe a successful relationship? Who or what determines what is a positive relationship.  Is Dr. Pill or Dr. Joan the one that writes the guidelines for a thriving liaison?  Before we set the qualifications we must first…
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If you are in a committed dating relationship or marriage, you may feel that you are a good boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband. You truly love your partner. You try to be nice and supportive. You are there for them….
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How women really feel about dating bald men? When you are in unconditional love and your spouse goes bald do you automatically fall out of love with them? Of course not, our love remains stronger than ever and we see…
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As a dater, don’t become overwhelmed with extreme nervousness and high expectations.  It may take awhile for it to develop into something more serious.  Even if the chemistry is good, suddenly kissing, touching, fondling or caressing the woman of your dreams…
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No true love is complete without some hardships. Every relationship, whether romantic, friendly, or familial, will go through some hard times. After all, there would be no good times without the bad ones. But, fear not when your relationship starts…
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Divorce can affect your mentality in so many ways that once it is all over, you have difficulties recognizing your own self. It can attack your self-confidence and perception. Divorce will often leave you sad, lonely and angry. How do…
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True love comes with its vicissitudes. There are some huge benefits to being in love. However, there are also hardships that come with it. You can either decide to live your life without love or learn to deal with these…
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A look at the current divorce statistics is all one needs to see in order to realize that there is a serious lack of relationship success today. Well over half of all couples that meet for a date at the…
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What individuals require from a relationship will depend a great deal on their own personalities. Some crave attention and fuss whilst others need space and would see anything other than this as being smothered. Whatever it is being sought there…
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I have already written a book on this very topic and let me tell you how vast this topic is. On a first look at the title, one would just say, ‘Who cares about the ways to approach a woman?…
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