There actually are quite a number of reasons why true love is hard to find and “the” main reason rests with who’s looking.Many people are so completely obsessed with the pursuit of false euphoria that they deny or try to…
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There are many things in life that we believe exist until the truth is revealed to us. Some of these things are good in nature and others are the demons of our dreams. The Easter Bunny, The Tooth Fairy and…
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There are many ways to avoid emotionally unavailable men. The most important, I believe, is to be emotionally available to yourself. A person should have a healthy sense of self. Being well grounded and having achieved ego identity is a…
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In this cynical world, how could someone believe in soul mates? Little girls spend time dreaming of the prince who will come and give them their dreams. Is this just a sad waste of time? Very few will find what…
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Soul mates…are they real? Is it truly, possible there’s a special person meant for each of us? Or, is it a myth, a fantasy- a delusion of the human mind, created to push us forward in false hope? To grasp…
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A faint breeze stirred the moist air as “John” and I strolled down the street. We’d originally met on an Internet dating site and become acquainted through chat, e-mails, and phone calls. We discovered we lived in the same town,…
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Is love really worth it? That depends. If we’re talking about the tea-rose scented, moon in June kind of feeling that leaves some of us weak in the knees and incapable of making a sound, self-serving decision, it’s not worth…
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What is polyamory’? Polyamory is the experience of love and intimacy amongst more than two people. Usually, this includes the sharing of sexual intimacy with more than one partner. However, love and sexual intimacy don’t always exist simultaneously, and the…
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You may think that if you are over 50 meeting someone is impossible. Not true! While it is not the same as meeting people when you are in your 20’s and 30’s there are plenty of singles over 50 just…
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Love cannot be defined, but must be experienced in able to be understood. A person can go on all day trying to explain to another person what love is, but unless that other person has or is experiencing it they…
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We’ve all heard it. “Shacking up.” “Living in Sin.” Whatever you want to call it, it’s a major issue in some relationships and a decision that weighs heavily on some of us. In our parents’ time, it was unheard of….
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Do soul mates exist? Of course they do. Everywhere in the world there is evidence of this. How many stories have been written about true love? We could no conceive of this if it were not a possibility. I grew…
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I had managed not to cry until the very end – until we sat, nude and cuddled together, playing on the internet and I realized how much I would miss something so simple. Then my tears drained out of me…
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Every person in this world has the hopes of finding true love one day. For some its seems like it is impossible for others like me a total hopeless romantic it is thoughts such as these that keep me going….
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GIRLS GET REAL Infatuation love, or what used to be known as “having a crush”, is often the first stage of any male/female relationship. You know what it is like in the beginning when you’re smitten”: He’s so cute, he’s…
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Why do most relationships not work? Well I’m not sure, there are lots of reasons out there but I can tell you what not to do. Let’s start with the pros and cons about men and women just so we…
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Why shouldn’t women enjoy sex as much as men do? Being male or female has nothing to do with how much sex a person wants. Libido is the key player to the desires of sex. If you have a high…
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How do you make a woman run? Just tell them you are a nice guy. I have found out lately that nice guys are considered to be undesirable. I don’t know how being a nice guy can be more effective…
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Women do not want sex as much as men do. This is because men are instinctively pre-programmed to spread their genes around as much as possible in order to pass them down to the next generation. Women have to be…
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I have lived for a few years (50) and I have witnessed what I believed to be the union of soul mates. Their closeness, their love for each other, their being as a couple radiated so much more than a…
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Imagine a boy at college has a huge crush on you. He catches up with you in the hallways and keeps talking to you. He also pretends he needs the homework so he could find an excuse to sit near…
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I feel deep in my spirit that soul mates do exist! So many people are filled with, anger, pride, mistrust, hate, and negativity and don ‘t take the time to find those soul mates who await them. Then there are…
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As is the case in every human relationship, communication is the key to success. This is not always verbal, it is also in your body language and facial expressions. The difficulty in long distance relationships is that in some cases,…
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One person for each person. One other soul to make another complete and better. Just one person that happiness and love depend on. What a romantic, tender thought! It conjures up images of castles, ocean kisses, and candle light. It…
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Soul mates, in the classical sense of the term, do not exist. The idea that there is one perfect mate for each person in the world is incredibly limiting and spuriously silly. Furthermore, the concept that one person is another’s…
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How to Talk To Girls How successful a man is with women largely depends on how well he gets his message through to them. That’s right … How to Talk To Girls Some would argue that looks carry the most…
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About a year ago, I went to a movie alone. I do this quite often. Especially when I want to see chick flicks. I don’t like subjecting my male friends to Hugh Grant. Two middle aged women sat behind me….
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God gave us the perfect example of TRUE love when He sent us His son, Jesus. That story is one of the ultimate expression of true love. Simply put, TRUE love is sacrifice! How do you recognize it? By the…
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It’s every little girls dream to find her prince charming, to live happily ever after in the castle on the hill. So is it impossible to find this one person, your soul-mate? The one dreams are made of? Some might…
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Dating in the 21st Century, ah the joys and tribulations, especially when being “older”. First a little background on myself; I have had several long term relationships, including co-habitation, I hear on a fairly regular basis that I am handsome…
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