Love From Afar: You Can Make It Can long distance relationships really work out? OF COURSE THEY CAN! I want to share with you my knowledge and experience with loving someone whom is miles away. Many people, in my experience,…
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The amazingly decadent 2002 surprising hit film The Secretary gave the general public a look at the BDSM lifestyle. A glamorized look but a look none the less. This did two things; it made kink a little more socially acceptable…
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THE FIRST KEY STEPS: In trying to find that elusive ideal soulmate, the first step is to work out what you want. What are you looking for, in general? You cannot be too prescriptive, otherwise good people will be ruled…
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I don’t know anything about souls, but I know this much. There are people whose presence touches your heart, and there are others who don’t mean a thing. With some people, you don’t need to say anything, they understand what…
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If you don’t like the person you are, chances are high that any relationship you are in or get into will fail. In order for a relationship to flourish and to grow, a person needs not not only like themselves…
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There are three C’s that I follow to keep my healthy, happy 15 year marriage looking forward to the future, and not a fear of it becoming a past issue.The first is for women, shut up. Communication is very important.Men,…
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Compromise. It’s a common word when it comes to dating. Most people think compromise is overrated or, and this is far worse, that it’s simply something the other person in the relationship should be doing. A person’s stubborn nature can…
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I’ve broken a lot of rules in the past, but one thing that I never did was choose friendship over a guy. And as much as I pride myself on being open minded, I still fail to accept excuses from…
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I remember one cold evening I went out to meet up with some musician’s in town for a jazz gig at a club, I had just recently joined the band and was preparing myself for my very first gig with…
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Well, coming from a divorced, single-mom, dating tips may not be well received; however, this is an open forum, so I can put it out there anyway! I have often found that things have a way of showing up when…
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Deciding to get back into the dating pool after the death of your partner or after a divorce can be a very intimidating prospect. Wondering if you have waited long enough, are emotionally ready to date someone new, and how…
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The “first love” experience leaves behind many memories that will last a lifetime. First loves can never be forgotten, no matter how hard you try. First loves are just that…the first. This is the first time we experience feelings so…
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The likeness and love are totally opposite thing in fact.Likeness arises in mind but love is by your heart. As mind and heart are two different things, similarly likeness and love differ from each other. Some people think logically and…
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As I watch many of my friends get married or get into long-lasting relationships, I ask myself “what exactly goes wrong with each of my relationships that causes the guy to hate me and me to suffer cruelty, worthlessness, and…
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“Relationship is understanding. It is a process of self-revelation. Relationship is the mirror in which you discover yourself-To be is to be related. To know oneself is to study oneself in action with another person” We must form relationships in…
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As Jeremy Piven’s character once said to John Cusack’s character, Jonathan in the movie Serendipity, “You are a JACKASS! You are! You’re my HERO!” This statement in itself is a contradiction in terms for how can a JACKASS be a…
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There’s no time like the present! So, you probably work with this guy. You see him every day. He says hello to you in the mornings; always very casually as he pours his cup of coffee. He looks over his…
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The question is, has love finally left the building? When men who you know to be married with children proposition you with offers of sex or “fun” as they put it, and everyone else seems to be cheating or involved…
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Soul mates: Do they really exist? Soul mate, a wonderful term that instantly makes a person think of two people that are completely as one, that were born for each other. A lovely thought and one I believed in until…
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It’s a fact of life that sooner or later, we are going to have our hearts broken by someone that we love. When a relationship ends, we are left with an emptiness, a void, where there was once a person…
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Love and fear. Fear and love. Which comes first? Do we love first, or fear first? Do we love first, and then fear this very loving? Or do we fear first, and then miss out on some of this love?…
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Love is a many splendor thing or should we say things? You hear people saying I love that dress, love that car, I love this house, I love that table set you bought, I love the cologne he has on,…
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OK – here I go again. A topic we can’t escape no matter where we go, no matter what we do, no matter if we’re alone or with friends it’s always part of a conversation somewhere at some time; Love…
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Everyone knows dating can be brutal. Minutes can seem like hours as conversations run dry or someone gabs the night away about topics you don’t care about. There are a couple of good ways to test drive a date before…
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Is Love Enough When asking is love is enough, we immediately equate the word love to mean romantic love. Yet there are so many other kinds of love. There is the love of a family, the love of friends, and…
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“How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.”-Elizabeth Barrett BrowningA great love can not be measured. It is a constant state of being and growing. A person knows their great love by not counting the ways, but realizing…
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One of the main quests in life for a woman is to find the right man that she can not only love but be happy and content with, and actually like. Fishing for a man can bring in a lot…
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RELATIONSHIPS Relationships are on of life’s most difficult tasks to succeed in. No matter how good of a relationship one may think he or she has, nobody ever gets it right the first time, and some never get it right…
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I saw it on TV, heard rumors of it and hear the conspiracy theories but never actually saw it with my own heart .True love, yes indeed! I never believed in it. I always was in love with the idea…
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This thing we call love, which is often misunderstood, is most likely to emerge from a common connection between two strangers. It then blossoms out of mutual interest, mutual respect, mutual aims and a close friendship. An intentional strategy for…
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