Dating

You have lost that sparkle in ye eye for the one you have been dating. You never had meant for this to happen, but now you have to let your formerly beloved loose to run free. No reason for sadness…
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What if I’m letting go of “the one”? What if I end up alone for the rest of my life? What if I’m ruining my only chance at true love? Anyone who has been in a relationship knows, that letting…
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Make sure you do really want your girlfriend back. When couples split up then there is a tendency to view the relationship in a nostalgic manner. Obviously your relationship can’t have been that perfect or you would still be together….
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Relationships are hard work. Getting out of a relationship successfully can be even harder. Depending on the length you have been together, breaking up can be as simple as giving back a ring or dividing up all the furniture and…
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Getting out of a relationship can be tough. Maybe you never really liked the person all that much and what started as a “pity date” turned into some sad kind of romance that you’re regretting every day. Sometimes, we just…
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How to get your boyfriend back You have decided that you really want your boyfriend back. Whether this is a sensible choice or not, will remain to be seen. Some say that going back after a break-up is not a…
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We have all been there haven’t we? Stuck with someone who we shouldn’t really be with and yet we haven’t got the heart to say anything about it. After all we ARE good hearted… right? Some people can stay trapped…
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The way or method, one selects for getting out of a relationship reflects a lot about the person’s confidence and self-belief. A relationship is never started with a negative idea nor anybody ever thinks upon “how to get out of…
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“How could I have been so stupid?” You wring your hands and bemoan the loss of the person you once believed to be your true soul-mate. Whether the break-up was initiated by you or by the other party, the emptiness…
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Ever felt like it was time to move on? Used up all the money on his credit account? Got her pregnant? Well, then you be may thinking that it is time that you get out of that relationship. Yet, getting…
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We all know there is a “right” way of ending a relationship. But knowing what is “right” and dignified may depend on your age and level of maturity, the circumstances of your relationship and whether children are involved. It also…
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When a person is in an abusive relationship, the signs are not immediately there. For a person who does not suffer from low self esteem or who has never been abused growing up being in an abusive relationship would not…
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“Just hop on the bus Gus, make a new plan Stan, don’t need to be coy Roy… there must be 50 ways to leave your lover.” Your lover snores. His feet smell. He is obsessed with football. That first rush…
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So you want to get out of that relationship? Getting out of a relationship is not the easiest thing in the world because it doesn’t just involve you alone; it does involve someone else. However, you really will have to…
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Recognizing the signs that a relationship is ending, is easy.Accepting them is never easy. Everyone knows how to spot the little signs that a relationship is in danger, but choose to ignore them. Avoidance, is always the first sign, whether…
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Love is supposed to be the most cherished emotion in the world. When your boyfriend nudges you because he’s a tad jealous of your best guy friend, you feel good. Don’t you? You smile to yourself when he berates the…
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There really is no great way to get out of a relationship, especially if you have a history together. This often complicates things. Of course, there are many things that you can do to get out of a relationship that…
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You may wonder if there are feelings that continue between the two of them, but how will you know if you are afraid to come right out and ask those questions? As the relationship, progresses you will see those answers…
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Relationships end for all sorts of reasons after different lengths of time. Depending on the circumstances, there are different ways to help us through. The first thing, no matter what, is the period of grief. Although no one may actually…
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Many women have admitted that they would prefer their man to have a one night stand with a woman, than actually have feelings for her. This is understandable for many reasons: firstly, if a man has sex with another woman,…
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How much, if at all, should the other woman be held responsible for her role in an extra-marital affair?  Is she as much at fault as her married lover?  And what, if anything, does she owe the wife who’s now…
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Many of us are convinced that, at one time or another, we have dated a sociopath.  Unfortunately, we usually don’t arrive at this conclusion until the warning signs are obvious and we find ourselves in an uncomfortable, as well as…
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Unless a male can restrain himself, the cycle of being single and desperately wanting to shed that single status can create a vicious cycle whereby the single status will linger. Why? Because not many potential mates, men or women, like…
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A quality man is determined by you personally and if you find a man whom you would consider quality, it would still be wise to obtain a few opinions from people who know that man to confirm that he is…
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A nice guy is a man who knows how to be nice, even if he isn’t always so. A nice guy is one who is polite when it suits him and who knows that being nice to people gets him…
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Why is it that the majority of men always looks for the Barbie doll type and ignores the nice girls?  This may not be in every case, but this is often the case.  The Barbie doll type may be considered…
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When your girlfriend is feeling unattractive, there’s really not much you can say that will instantly cause her to change her mind; that’s more of a long term project. To help your girlfriend feel attractive is something that happens over…
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That nice guys finish last, it would seem should be “Old World” wisdom by now. We are all familiar regrettably so in many circumstances with a stone-hearted jerk sweeping some ones “True Love” off her feet and then abusing her….
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This is one where I could do a short novel on. All I have to do is use my own life as a nice guy to prove this question can only be answered with a yes. I honestly don’t know…
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 There has been much debate as to the success of arranged marriages compared to that of marriages that result from the largely western practice of dating. I would like to propose a third alternative: getting to know someone via the…
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