Dating

If you are a man, single, bitter, and looking for advice, perhaps you have come to the right person. The best piece of relationship advice for you if you meet most if not all of the criteria is this: stop…
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A major dilemma has erupted in my life. I have been in a very serious relationship since I was 17 years old. I am now 32 and I’m the proud father of a 20 month old son. My life has…
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Single, proud of it and ready to travel, but the problem is where. You want adventure and excitement, and chance to see somewhere new and maybe meet some other fellow adventurers. There are lots of adventure vacations for singles found…
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Let’s start by saying that I love the dating scene. The first dates can be so much fun. So in order to plan a first date is to follow some simple guidelines and you should have no problem getting a…
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Starting over after someone has broken your heart is hard at best. Many times, it seems impossible to think of having anyone in your life close enough that you are vulnerable to anyone ever again. Once you are a victim…
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Desperation is far from attractive. When someone appears desperate to have a mate this is the ultimate turn off. Men and women can be overly desperate. Back up the bus and take a look at what is going on. When…
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While being in a relationship is wonderful, there is something to be said for being single too. When you’re single you enjoy a kind of freedom you will never be able to have in a relationship, no matter how open…
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Springtime has always been Mother Nature’s way of encouraging the continuing of life. Way back in the mists of pre-history, males and females of every species evolved. It then became their biological function each spring to reproduce and perpetuate their…
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Man, why are all the singles in such a rush to get hooked up again? What’s the huge draw of ALWAYS having a partner? Sure, hooking up every now and then isn’t bad, but there are a lot of perks…
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When spring comes around the corner, among the pleasant warm breezes there is often love in the air. If you are a lonely soul looking for a mate, this may be the best season to make happy encounters. Courtesy of…
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First dates can be really fun or they can be really awkward. Here are some topics to avoid during a first date; 1. Your past relationships. This is not the time to tell him how many guys have broken your…
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There are many opportunities for men to meet women in the springtime. There are sports events, concerts, exhibits, dances and just being at the right place at the right time. Poet Alfred Lord Tennyson penned the immortal lines: In the…
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So you don’t want to be single anymore? That is perfectly understandable, and as there are many benefits to the single life, there is ultimately a time where you don’t want to be alone anymore. However, there are some things…
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Should you be friends with someone before you start dating? I think when it really comes down to it there is no right or wrong answer to this question. It doesn’t really matter as long as you found someone to…
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It almost seems that when you ask such a question that you divide people into two groups.  There are the hopeless romantics and the ones in successful relationships.   I firmly admit that the idea of a pre-destined partner for everyone…
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What Does True Love Mean? I can tell you from personal experience, that It does not mean what we think it means. It is not filled with dilutions of Romanticism, nor does it consist of whipping out your list of…
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The first date was a trial getting-to-know-you experiment.  Achieving the second date means there is a strong indicator that the two of you may have a future.  But, you don’t want to stop at the second date!  The goal should…
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How to stop being single? I have asked myself this question before. You are sick of being alone all the time, you want someone to laugh with and share stories with. But you can’t find that person. You tell yourself…
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Not only women lose their virginity but men also and after this has happened you are struck with an addiction to want more because it feels good. Yes that’s what you can expect, but after the initial experience of placing…
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Many people underestimate the role that jealousy can play in a relationship. Jealousy is often considered to be  an indication of love and that is why several people are flattered by it and instead of trying to take action against…
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I believe the state of mind has a lot to do with being in the category of alone. How do we process this singledom? If you let the outside world pen it’s phrase of doom and gloom to your oneness…
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Valentine’s Day is what you decide it is. IF, and I emphasize if, you decide to acknowledge it, it will become your day. You can choose to share the love that you have inside and for yourself, or you can…
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I think many of us have had feelings of loneliness at one time or another in our lives. It is a common ailment we all suffer with now and then and it can be brought on by many different situations…
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For many men, the idea of approaching a woman for a date can be a nerve wracking experience.  There is so much pressure.  Some men have expressed that It’s like undergoing a root canal procedure.  The fact is that many get…
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I know a lot of the time men and women wonder where they can find and meet a potential person to date.I do it a lot myself. I tried the bars and clubs. Granted I have fun, but I never…
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First of all, men are not “so” intimidated by ex-boyfriends. Let me explain. When men think about or encounter their current girlfriends ex they are not necessarily overcame with intimidation but with animosity. Men tend to think about what their…
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So, you’re in one of those dreaded relationships, the long distance type. A long distance is a rather relative term; for my brother and his girlfriend, it can be three hours. For me, it is 8 hours by plane, a…
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Dating is such a difficult thing. It should be fun and it does look like fun. But difficult is a much better word to describe it. My last date was over 25 years ago. When my husband died six years…
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So you broke up, perhaps he or she were cheating on you and you couldn’t cope with the betrayal, or maybe they treated you in a real bad way, stole from you or put you down at every opportunity, maybe…
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Being an only child and therefore left to entertain myself prepared me for enjoying evenings home alone; a single woman comfortable in her own skin. American society is almost doglike in that people tend to gravitate to “packs” of people…
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