Unless you think your boyfriend might become violent or break down in huge, wracking sobs that will cause stares from other diners, a good way to break up with him would be to invite him out to a nice restaurant where…
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Comparison versus competition! Pure and simple! He found something interesting about this woman and your curiosity about her is getting the best of you and driving you crazy. It’s only natural to try and compare yourself with this mysterious ex-girlfriend. “What does…
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My father knew all too well how to sweep a woman off her feet. To protect his four daughters from would-be cads and ruffians, he decided to test the mettle of each of our boyfriends before he’d let us go…
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The questions to ask on a first date are not the artificial ones that you rehearsed before going out. A ho-hum question will elicit a ho-hum answer that portends a really boring date. Questions should be spontaneous, and pertinent to…
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Sweaty palms? Heart palpitations? Blurred vision accompanied by general dizziness? You’re either stroking out or preparing for a first date. While first dates can be rather frightening, when done correctly they can be both entertaining and informative. And if you…
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How to handle the emotions of a break up There will be tough days ahead you’ll go through after a breakup. You will go through periods of sadness, anger and guilt. Missing your ex will be the hardest part. However,…
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First of all, realize that they will probably come back if you were not at fault. I have dated most men in my life at least twice each, some of them three times. I like to call myself a habitual…
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I have been in four long-term relationships in my life, three of which failed, so I know something of failure and success in the arena of love. Throughout these, the number one lesson I have learned is this: “great sex…
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Looking down the barrel of the shotgun, Jimmy decided, at that moment, it was in his best interest to fall in love with Kim, his girlfriend of the last year… Abusrd, huh? It’s just as absurd to honestly think you…
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Breaking up is never easy. You have developed a relationship with someone that you at least believed that you might have a future with and whom you cared for at some point, and then it’s over. Even if you know…
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The fairy tale fantasy changes with each passing day. My knight who once wore a shining suit of armor now dawns overalls and work boots. My horse drawn carriage is an older model jeep. My mansion is a three-bedroom house…
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How to make things work again with an ex Depending on the circumstances that a couple split up in the first place says a lot in them deciding on getting back together again. If there was cheating, there can be…
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How to be strong enough to let go of a relationship and move on After four years you and your boyfriend decided to go your separate ways. You used to think that marriage was inevitable for the two of you, but…
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Woo – a first date! How exciting! You want it all to go wonderfully. You want to look like a princess and feel like you’re in heaven. But there is some of the boring stuff to do while you’re out…
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Being friends with an ex boyfriend/girlfriend is never worth it. The risks of trying to be friends after a relationship are too high. After a relationship, both partners emotions are on the line. Especially if its soon after the breakup,…
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So you’ve been dumped? Or perhaps you dumped someone. Well, it doesn’t matter who dumped who; chances are that you are both bitter with yourselves. Unfortunately, bitterness will not produce any good result. Break ups can be very traumatic, and…
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We depend and thrive on other people’s views of us and being in a relationship with someone for a long time, can both raise your self esteem as well as discovering yourself through the other person’s eyes. Breaking off contact…
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“DEMYSTIFYING THE X-FACTOR: HOW MEN FALL IN LOVE WITH WOMEN” I find it hard to eat and can barely sleep. The time seems to go by so slowly. I feel feverish and not in control of my life anymore. Until…
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Do you still feel alone even when this person is near you? Do you fear for your safety in the presence of this individual? There can be many different reasons to decide when to end a relationship. Dealing with why a relationship has turned bitter…
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Jealousy, is a symptom that lurks deep in the recesses of emotional insecurity. I define jealousy as “an illusion, for what you want on the outside you can only get from the inside”.Starting a new relationship is making a conscious…
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Seduce – a verb meaning to lead astray; to entice; to persuade to engage in sexual relations. History is rife with tales of notorious seducers of women; Cassonova, Don Juan, Rhett Butler, Svengali dating all the way back to the…
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How can you find the right partner if you’re not sure what you’re looking for? The first step in your search must be to take a long, careful at yourself. Assess your personality, your likes and dislikes, your lifestyle and…
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Women around the world would be lining up to find out the secret of making a man fall in love. There are countless women across the globe who are absolutely dying to make the man of their dreams notice them,…
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The first bad break up I ever went through was last year. I met this guy by chance; I told him Cupid stuck him with one of his arrows, because three days after he met me he was saying “I…
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Crystal was my first love, she was the perfect blend of Halle Berry and girl next door. On our 6 month anniversary I wanted to do something special. I wanted to show her just how much I thought of her….
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A breakup is one of the most painful experiences. According to some scientists, the pain that comes with break up is actually slightly less than the pain that comes with death, and that is completely understandable. After all, a breakup…
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Most women’s magazines and primetime sitcoms would have you believe that men only need three things – food, sex and television. But to truly please your man, you need to address more than his primal and most basic needs. I…
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Some relationships are really hard to let go of. There are many reasons why we can’t let go but one of the largest is not having closure. To truly be able to let go you need to have this. Sometimes…
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Have you ever fantasized about doing a love spell to make someone who otherwise doesn’t even know you exist fall in love with you? Or to make an ex love you again? It really sounds great, doesn’t it? Do your…
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How does a man successfully flirt with women? It’s an art derived through the skills that come from the experience in failing, and sometimes again and again. There’s nothing like rejection to show you what not to do if you…
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