You worry about her looking at other guys. You worry about other guys looking at her. Jealousy is a powerful force, with the ability to destroy otherwise healthy relationships. This is often a spiral and can happen in different ways….
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What are the signs of someone falling in love? Maybe your son or daughter has been acting a bit strange lately and you are wondering if love may be the culprit. Or, perhaps, you have met someone who elicits some…
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We can all agree that dating whether traditional or through the Internet is very challenging. I do consider myself contemporary, however, I can’t help reflecting on the “old way” of meeting a great looking person (well, in my case a…
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Easy, if you take the time to get your shy and/or lazy butt out into the city as often as possible. The bar scene is maybe the most popular, but also where you’ll have to sort out the baddies from…
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Exactly what are the challenges of dating a married man? It is the type of question that you have to seriously ask yourself exactly why you are even taking into consideration, answering such a question, to begin with. It is…
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The bitter single girl usually is not aware of her part in any relationship problems. She is bitter because she thinks that all of the problems in her relationships are the fault of the men involved. She is always the…
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Although there are many Black women searching for a good black man, I must preface any type of suggestions by saying if you are looking for a specific color, you are limiting yourself. A good man can come in any…
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There are two schools of thought on dating after a breakup or a divorce. One is the “get-back-on-the-horse-right-away” method and the other is the “take-some-time-to-heal-and-get-yourself-together” approach. The approach you choose will have a lot to do with whether you are…
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Sick of all the lies and games from your spouse and want to know how to find out, once and for all, if they are cheating or not? Perhaps you just want to keep track of your spouse to know…
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There are many tips to stop being single, here are a few: 1) Enjoy being single! This might sound odd but unless you are happy being single you are unlikely to be happy in a relationship. Find what it is…
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There was a time, long ago, when sex prior to marriage was left to the “painted ladies” and their callers. It certainly wasn’t an activity that the respected members of society took part in as a norm. Today, however, the…
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As a long time waiter, I have waited on several lone diners. Dining alone seems to be taboo with some people, especially those in the younger generations. I never quite understood this taboo, but I have deduced that it stems…
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All romantic relationships are hard. Many people read romance novels or watch romantic movies and mistakenly believe that a relationship should be that simple. That’s why so many relationships fail: couples aren’t willing to do the work. Getting involved in…
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When two young people begin to date, most of the time, the young man is dating the parents as well. In almost every situation, the parents must approve the relationship before it goes too far. In some cases, a young…
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I have faced many trials as a mother of three beautiful children.Being a mother with the father in the home was truly easier in some ways than being a single mother. Having a father there provided financial as well as…
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Will a relationship endure if one or both of the partners has cheated on the other? The answer to this question is usually no, but in some cases, it can be quite the opposite. The question of this subject matter;…
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Why would our partners get involved in an affair with our best friends? Unfortunately this is not all that uncommon. You find out that your mate has been cheating and then learn it was with your best friend. Why do…
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You don’t have to change your reticent nature to be a success at dating. You can be shy and still enjoy the dating scene. The best thing to do, to get started, is to know your strengths and weaknesses. If…
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The answer is definitely no and you might ask why?well we all have precious things in life which are so dear to us. Those precious things whether materialistic or not we would like to keep them in mint condition or…
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Before even considering entering this morally complicated and most difficult of dating arenas, you must first at least try to be comfortable with the complexities that will likely loom. Married men rarely reveal their affairs to their significant others so you…
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Could fear be keeping you single? Most certainly. Fear is probably one of the major reasons some people stay single. Below are the different types of fears that might be leaving you at home, watching bad sitcoms and eating Swanson’s…
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Can you ever trust anyone 100%? You can trust someone 100%, if you know them well, and believe in their ability to do the right thing. Saying that I must also say, that you can also trust someone 100%, to…
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We trust someone everyday 100% without ever giving it a second thought. Want to give it a try to see where the point is? Being a person who, weird as it may sound, is a people and situation watcher, I…
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Why are so many women surprised to discover their spouse or mate has decided to have an affair, and the person they chose is their best friend. How many friendships and marriages are devastated by philandering that occurs in the…
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No one goes into a marriage expecting that their husband or wife is going to be unfaithful to them, but it happens more often than many people realize. It doesn’t always mean that the marriage is over, either. There are…
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Emotional cheating is as real as cheating of any other type. If someone has a closer emotional relationship with someone’s mate than the other partner does, then both are being cheated out of the emotional aspects of the partnership that truly belong to them. It…
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Different people date for different reasons; some date for fun and to conquer boredom on a Saturday night, there are some who date for sexual gratification and don’t want anything serious to become of it and then there are the…
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Large differences in age can cause a lot of strain on a relationship. The younger woman or man is often seen to be a “Gold-digger” and only out for the older persons wealth of influence. The older partner is often…
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Single parents face insurmountable challenges that are quite different from two parent families. One of the key challenges that seem to dictate and create more challenges for single parents is money. Now granted, all parents are feeling the financial crunch…
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I do not believe that a relationship with a cheater can work out for most people. Some people can stay with a cheater, but many cannot handle the betrayal. That old saying “Once a cheater, always a cheater!” rings true…
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