Dating

Try avoiding all the men I had experience dating in the past at all cost and you will be just fine. On the serious side, staying away from a man who shows you that he is running the show and…
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Why is a good black man so hard to find? Now this is a topic that almost every black woman in America would chime in on if given the chance. Unfortunately, the response is usually followed up with a “Because…
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Boston is a fantastic place to live whether you are single or not. What makes Boston particularly attractive for the single person is best summed up in one word, diversity! Boston is a melting pot of all things and people,…
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Sweet Things: Those Little Things Women Love, But Can’t Explain To Men WhyGuys: Do you want to do the things that remind her, and you, of how you felt about each other when things were new? Do you want to…
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Why do people cheat? Everyone who has been on the other side of this heartbreaking act has asked themselves this very same question over and over again. Over the years people have tried so hard to get in the heads…
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*Relationships can be of many natures but this article will focus on couples.* Being part of a long distance relationship is not all bad, even if you do go several days – even weeks – at a stretch without seeing…
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When dealing with relationships, men and women often play games of “emotional chess”. The goal isn’t to make some as happy as you can make them. The goal is to push their buttons as far as they let you push….
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Looking at my present state of being single and child-free, I have to say that was a huge blessing that was bestowed upon me. By being single and child free, I have seen all the burdens that I myself would…
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Insecurity creates animosity in a relationship and once accumulated it can lead to fights and conflicts that can eventually destroy the heart of a relationship.  Insecurity is a number one killer for your relationships.  Insecurity is detrimental for your relationships…
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Many people get married without ever really dating very many people.  As a result, they may wind up in unhappy marriages, or even going through messy divorces, sometimes more than one, in order to find the “right” person.  Instead of…
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There are many reasons why people stay in bad relationships. From what I have personally experienced, domestic violence can play a role. You feel worthless, like you don’t matter-and your opinion doesn’t matter. You really have no self confidence. You…
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Am I bipolar, do I have multiple personalities? It sure seems that way because one day I love him and the next day I could put sugar in his gas tank and hope it blows up! Well maybe I went…
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If you are a person prone to jealousy in relationships, it can be difficult, but entirely possible, to overcome this green-eyed monster. The difficulty comes because jealousy is typically rooted in something that has happened to you, possibly years before…
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Being single does not have to be a bad thing and it doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you. However, people (critics) may think that and the best thing to do is, tune them out. There is nothing wrong…
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The real question is why a person is not gone after being cheated on. We so many times forgive a person for there mistakes and say it’s because we love them. The truth is we do not leave when we…
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     We all miss friends, families in many ways than one; as some of us find it easy to pick up our phones to call our partners just to tell them how much it is they are missed, others…
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Men are not exempt from being high-maintenance. While that phrase is mostly used when talking about a woman there are many men out there who are just as high maintenance if not more so. How can we recognize them? What…
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Let’s face it! Morally and ethically there should definitely be more “Con’s” than there are “Pro’s” when contemplating having an affair. Having experienced an emotional affair I would be lying to all of the readers right now if I were…
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So far, I have been single.I still am a single person.Overall, I am extremely happy about it.To me, the freedom of being single is both liberating and euphoric. I would not give it up for a relationship. If you have…
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Whether you are parting because college is starting, a new job came up or leaving the country to explore the world, a long distance relationship is tough to keep alive.  The whole point of a relationship is for companionship and…
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Why people cheat? Good question. Here is how I see it… Cheating is the result of a : HEART SONG. A song that is so strong that it will make you lose your mind for a moment and lose touch…
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When I look at my friends in relationships and the marriages in my family, I have found a few hundred reasons to savor and relish the single life. But, I guess I will have to suffice with my top ten…
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Do nice guys finish last? It depends on the competition. In most business situations involving sales and marketing, it is usually advisable to be more aggressive than nice. It is so cut throat out there that if you lay back,…
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Yes, I’m single, but it hasn’t always been that way. My ex-wife and I divorced in 2002, and I have been in four relationships since. The truth of the matter is that I threw my hands in the air and…
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Like it or not, single parent dating as a very strong impact on the children. If you are the single parent, it is going to have a very strong effect on your children. If your date is the single parent,…
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The writing that follows is advise on forgiving the cheater and forgiving yourself. important thing is, if you do decide to forgive than do it and move on. If you don’t think you can, then walk away. Forgiveness Works Best…
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I, don’t want to by any means put single mother’s down, because I have nothing but great respect and admiration for any single mother out their trying to raise their chilren alone. As a single mom myself many years ago,…
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Any time you relate to another being, you are having a relationship. Relationships exist on a wide continuum from the most casual encounters (with a store clerk) to your blood relationships and your mate for life. Every kind of relationship…
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I have had problems with being lonely my whole life. As a child I often found it difficult to make friends, and as a result I was often isolated. i just never really knew what to say to anyone, so…
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The end of a relationship is never an easy thing. It doesn’t matter if it was the right thing to do or not. It still hurts tremendously. One mistake that many make is getting into another relationship right away. Now…
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