Elements of co-dependency exist in all relationships but co-dependence, in psychological terms, is usually defined as one partner having an unhealthy dependency on the other. There are those who give up on relationships at the first mention of commitment, saying…
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I often find myself confused by women. I’ve repeatedly seen wonderful women who consistently enter woeful relationships with the wrong men. I know that it’s not always easy for women to weed through the muck and mire of men to…
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This question has everything to do with morality. Society has slacken the rules for all behaviors. Everyone wants to do what makes them comfortable, no matter the consequences or who gets hurt in the process. Usually the most innocent members…
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When most mothers raise their sons, many of them hope that they will grow up to be kind, courteous, brave, and loving. As a result, caring mothers often do whatever is in their power to ensure that their sons respect women…
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A player, how easy they are to spot. Next time you go clubbing or out on the town, look around. People watching can tell you a lot about others, and it’s a lot of fun. Players are not just men….
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Why shouldn’t boys look for physical beauty? On the other hand, is it boys we are talking about or men? Boys are only just beginning to explore what it is they will truly desire later in their lives. I want…
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Most people wonder why some people are too old or not old enough to do this or that. They make you wonder why some people are not worthy of doing something or are not suppose to be in that situation….
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To be happy in love, you first need to be happy with yourself and who you are. You cannot be happy by chance; you would need to create it yourself. You can be happy in love when you find the…
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Codependent relationships are relationships structured around excessive need. Unlike more balanced relationships where couples want each other for companionship and mutual support, each person in a codependent relationship has a very specific role and function. The typical codependent relationship is…
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An addiction is often defined as the condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing, or activity. Most of the time, we read or hear about people who are addicted to drugs and alcohol, but there are many other…
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You’re looking for Mr. Right but all you are coming up with is Mr. Wrong, Mr. Really Wrong, and Mr. “I must have been out of my mind when I even considered him” Wrong. There are some top mistakes that…
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From my experience dating and the reasons for it differ depending on what part of the world you are in. Let me explain myself further. In England people generally date because they really like the other person. They meet, and…
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That’s just the way he is. I don’t know how many times I have allowed myself to say that over the years. I have finally learned, and accepted that I can not change a person, but does this mean I…
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The subject of why men like mean girls is often a broad but complicated one. The first thing to consider is that opinions vary. For starters, not all men do like mean girls. This is only a stereotype. Men do…
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How often do you hear the words falling from a man’s mouth “I don’t understand women!” The phrase “Women are from Venus, men are from Mars” indicates that there is a wide and almost impossible gulf between the psyche of…
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People standing on the outside are often better able to see an unhealthy relationship than the individuals who are in it. Why is this? When we are emotionally involved with someone we may not view them as critically as we…
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It is easy to know how to keep your guy happy, and it is often the goal of every woman. Happiness is what makes a relationship last, and keeps the love alive. Romance and passion, a feeling of content and…
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It took me years to get over the loss of my childhood best friend, Ross. What took him from our close core of lifelong friends was not death, but it had an almost equal potential for draining life – a…
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Sometimes it happens like that. You’re online just checking email or surfing the net when suddenly an angel out of the blue, an angel sends an instant message and whose to say whether or not he or she isn’t your…
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Someone (His name was John) once said, “Nice guys don’t finish last, but they definitely aren’t the first or second choice.” He was in his mid-thirties, married and really was a nice guy. There is not much deviation from reality…
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Being in a relationship can be a wonderful thing, it can leave you with a feeling of love, solidarity and contentment. But sometimes relationships can go drastically wrong and turn toxic, leaving one or both parties devastated in its wake….
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How do you know when you relationship has changed status from casual to serious? It doesn’t matter if you have been on two dates or have been dating for a year. Some relationships stay stagnant and never really become serious…
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Power and control characteristics occurring during dating gain momentum in the following categories: psychological and emotional abuse, verbal abuse; destruction of personal property, threats, jealousy, isolation and possessiveness and restriction of freedoms; abuse of male “privilege”, sexual abuse and physical…
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Dating can be a wonderful step in life if it is done right. There are many different styles of dating and many different aged groups that date. Some styles could be considered old fashioned, while others could be considered the…
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I am convinced that when we look deeply into the eyes of another person what we see is our own reflection staring back at us. In The Age of Self is this really such an absurd concept? The greatest thing…
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Knowing if someone likes you romantically is not always easy. Some people send mixed signals, while some others tend to easily misinterpret signals sent to the. That leads to several misunderstandings that can put you and others in a very…
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In today’s world when so many people are looking for jobs, buying homes and going on dates the first impression is solid. The reality is that even the least judgmental person sizes up others within the first fifteen minutes. How…
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Sure hes sweet and charismatic and maybe even REALLY handsome, but is your dream man really marriage material? If you happen to look at the marriage statistics you will notice that 50%, thats half of all marriages end up in…
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I have always felt that relationships would be better if they started off as friends first. It would be a good foundation to start with because they already like each other for who they are. They know each other’s likes…
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Of all the complexities in the world, the female psyche may well be the most difficult to understand. In fact I don’t think a complete understanding can ever be achieved. If you’re lucky, a basic idea is the best you…
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