The male species, enters this world with two heads, two brains and two hearts. We are very complex and it is no wonder that women cannot figure us out. Women find us very shallow and continue to label us wrongfully!…
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Like all relationships there has to be a balance. Too much complaining can hurt a relationship, but not being allowed to vent at all can be more damaging. How can a partner know if there is a problem if no…
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Lying can affect the intimacy of a relationship in different ways. While reason(s) for lying in a relationship can either be positive or negative. This does not however mean that lying in a relationship is good or should be encouraged….
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Does he emotionally abuse you? Chances are if you are researching this topic then yes, he is. Let me talk to you like a sister now. When he emotionally abuses you it is confusing to you. He uses mind tactics…
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In any relationship that is long-term, especially those of a romantic nature, there will be disagreements. This is completely normal, since there are no two people that are exactly the same. Because we are not the same, we have different…
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Finding love can be one of the most joyful experiences in life, but for most people it is only the beginning. Mature love naturally grows into psychic commitment. A committed couple is eager to begin to build a life together….
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Should a husband tell his wife about his romantic past? The answer to the question is absolutely not! Seriously, that idea is nothing but trouble. People that want to talk about their romantic past are really just boring. No one…
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Why would anyone openly talk about their romantic past with the one they are in love with?Unless your husband’s romantic past will have a direct affect on your healthful well being in regard to a past STD he may have…
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Hominophobia or Androphobia is best described as the fear of men or masculinity. While it is a relatively less thought of phobia it is one that may be held by far greater numbers of people than diagnosed. This is simply…
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Sometimes we all need some insider tips on how to communicate with the opposite sex. Recently, one of my friends has talked about his past woman problems, all of which were spurred by his confusion of how to talk to…
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When you say till death do you part does it mean you must part with being friends with the opposite sex? Unfortunate complications can arise when a married person becomes good friends with a member of the opposite sex especially…
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What have I learned from my previous relationship? When I met my partner I was so excited and intrigued by him, that I placed him on pedestal. Once I did that within my mind’s eye he could do nothing wrong….
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For many years I have considered women with husbands in the military to be the luckiest women in the world. I formed this opinion because military wives are usually stay-at-home moms. To me, the opportunity to stay home and raise…
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Non verbal communication between couples seems to be dictated heavily by gender. In relationships involving the young, it seems that it is the men who try to hold on to their partners. Young women, who mature earlier, tend to be…
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This is it. The day has come. The orders are cut and your spouse is deploying. Whether it is to another state or halfway around the world, the one sure thing you know is that you will be separated from…
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When it comes to dealing with a boyfriend with a bad temper, it helps to come from a place of understanding. Keep in mind, that your boyfriend is probably suffering from some unresolved issues and feels the need to take…
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I love you. Three simple words, one easily uttered phrase. Those words, which could have so much feeling and emotion behind it, or something that becomes part of a dry routine, said without even thinking about it anymore. Saying it…
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It is simple to apologize for being wrong, but when a person is in a relationship with someone who tends to dwell on the wrong done, it may be harder. They may feel constant pressure to be right all the…
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This title was a bit Gender biased. I have known many women who lose their temper, as well. Thus, for the sake of this article, I have attempted to be gender neutral when addressing the issue of uncontrollable anger. No…
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Using deception, whether it comes to light or not, creates distance instead of intimacy in a relationship. Lying to your partner can have damaging consequences for your relationship as it undermines trust and intimacy which are the basic building blocks…
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In 1974, Dr. Virginia Satir presented the concept of mirroring in her groundbreaking book, “Conjoint Family Therapy.” In 1975 Dr. Thomas Gordon wrote a best-selling book called “Parent Effectiveness Training.” In the book he taught parents to “active listen,” which…
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Without respect it’s almost impossible to build a relationship of any kind. Life is short enough as it is, and it’s not worth putting up with somebody who repeatedly disrespects you. Don’t let this individual drain your energy and confidence. You’ve got better…
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Having retired nearly 20 years ago at the age of 65, I may sometimes feel I was a veteran of World War I. Then, the only way for spouses to communicate with soldiers and sailors was through the U.S. mail….
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Venting Stress: Does Too Much Complaining Hurt Relationships Complaining, yes, does hurt relationships. Not just between husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend, but between friends and family. The more that we vent our stress on our relationships, then the possibility…
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There are people in our lives who we have all probably noticed drain our energy in some way or another. Sometimes this is quite obvious as we will feel it right away, and at other times it happens rather subtly…
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Relationships become fractured for many different reasons but at the heart of each difficulty is an unresolved issue that has led to inappropriate behavior, dissatisfaction and a lack of effective communication. A broken relationship can cause trauma and upset not…
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Politics mixed with family ties can confuse, abuse and blow your mind. You’ll fight every day with your own DNA and every day, they will drive you insane. This will be especially true for you if you live among a…
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You desire to live happily, and enjoy life to the full everyday. However, you do have friends or relatives who drain every sap of energy out of you. Life is no longer enjoyable, and the world is no longer beautiful….
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It is extremely antagonizing dealing with a partner who procrastinates. It can lead to very serious consequences especially if it is not dealt with in time and on a serious level. Procrastination can even lead to losing your home. Which…
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Losing a job is a tough thing on many levels. You are under new financial stress. Your future becomes uncertain. And you must deal with some emotional issues around being laid off, including anger, depression and confusion. Even when the…
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