Communication

The thoughts of my life have lead me to think of the world around me and the one I love.I know we have shared our hearts and time is the only factor that tells us all how to go, Many…
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As people leave their school days and move into adulthood, their relationships often undergo dramatic changes. They lose some of their spontaneity, the ability to do whatever they want at the drop of a hat, and they take on a new set of responsibilities….
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Our tongues hold so much power. The words that we speak can soothe a crying child, comfort a person in mourning, change public policy, or destroy the heart of someone that we actually love. The Bible tells us that “the…
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In Praise of Words Ladies and gentlemen, give it up for……Words!  Maybe the Bee Gees said it best, at least for me, “Words are all I have.”  Okay, disregard the disco era.  The Brothers Gibb had the tightest harmonies around;…
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Are you looking to start a relationship with a person of the opposite gender? If you are already hooked up, are things not as smooth as they could be as a result of the two of you not expressing your…
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When I was a young teen I wanted to fall in love in high school and marry my high school sweet heart. I am old romantic at heart. I thought when my high school sweet heart swept me off my…
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It is always better to remain neutral. Why do you wish to tell a secret?  If it was a confidence shared with you. That trust should never be betrayed and you should always keep that secret. Their is only one…
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So you are getting married. Wonderful. Love may be blind but marriage sure will reveal its lucidity.   A habit is defined as a recurrent, often unconscious pattern of behavior that is acquired through frequent repetition. Let me say that…
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Sometimes in a relationship it is necessary in a relationship to show some serious love to your mate. We get wrapped up in our day to day lives that we do not make time for each other. We might be…
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Each one of us desires to be loved deep within our soul.  The same holds true with your partner.  Longing for and receiving love is our basic human need desire.  However, it is not sufficient to love somebody, it is…
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For many people the world would not go on without them, or so they believe.  Some people have an undesirable need to have everything go their way oblivious to the wants or needs of the people around them!  Their behaviour…
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My Love, I’ve spent the last year searching within a pseudonym just to find you. My heart has chanced as close to the edge of emotion as is humanly possible just to dream of you. If my heart and hands…
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A happy and healthy marriage is a constant give and take relationship, where love is shared and expressed by both partners. It is important that the spouses feel loved by one another, so that they can experience that special security…
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A couple who never fights has lost all passion.  Lack of passion makes for a very boring life, and doesn’t do anyone any good.  Now this is not to say by any means that all fighting is good between couples,…
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One of the most important conversations that you can have with any long term partner is one about your join finances.  While this isn’t exactly the most exciting and sometime can be somewhat embarrassing, it is a conversation that is…
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In a couple’s relationship life together, there will tend to be fights along the way. These fights can be avoided if these steps are followed closely:- Never Rake Up The Past The past should remain in the past; it should…
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This writer was married to a serial liar for twenty years. When he was invariably caught out telling yet another lie, he’d wonder how he’d been rumbled. The answer was, ‘Because your lips are moving!’ However, it’s certainly no laughing matter…
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A healthy marriage or relationship involves honesty in a positive way, not in a negative way.   Weight is a very touchy subject in a relationship, but one that is crucial to discuss and in many ways can eventually end a…
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In any relationship there are small unspoken agreements made between the two parties that exist beneath the surface of their conversations. For example, parents agree to not talk about things that might embarrass their teenage son, or kids agree to…
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When you marry someone, you are promising to do your best to love them forever, to honor them, and above all to cherish them which means treating them with love and respect. The problem is, people have emotions, and when…
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 The couple should discuss many things before getting married. Communication is the foundation of any successful marriage. If both partners are not able to communicate their needs and desires, then a relationship will not last long term. Both members of…
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Arguments can blow out of proportion and become very serious if not handled carefully.  Typically one person is miffed about something and cannot let it go, they keep bringing it up and starting a conversation about it, but this conversation…
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Communicating with a negative person can affect you. Being around a negative person seems to throw your chi off balance. The rest of the day is spent trying to shake that persons negative thoughts out of your mind. negative thoughts…
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You can’t know with certainty if someone is lying, whether a man or woman, but there are some signs that people give, especially men that can help you decide for yourself if you think a man is lying to you….
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We’ve all heard the joke about “how can you tell when a man is lying? His lips are moving” But if only it were as simple as that. The fact is, some men are pretty good liars, in fact, some…
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It is not always easy for someone to treat others as they wish to be treated because they don’t necessarily know the person they’re dealing with.  If the other person reacts negatively to them, that person might have had a…
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One of the main issues we face as couples now-a-days is the fact that we do not communicate. With all the gadgets out there supposedly making for easy communications more relationships than ever fail due to the simple fact that…
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Living with a narcissistic person is at best, difficult, and at worst, impossible.  This is a person that literally does not have the capacity to care about others.  They may give it a lot of lip service, and it may…
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If your husband has children with his ex, it’s most likely that you are going to have to deal with her from time to time.  You have the choice of making the experience a pleasant, or at least tolerable experience,…
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Ways to Communicate with a Know-it-all. My mom always said, “Nobody likes a know-it-all”, and that statement holds more than just a small grain of truth. It’s frustrating and sometimes downright humiliating to deal with that person who knows everything…
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