Communication connects as well as it heals. Sometimes the more that we try to communicate, the less that we really are effectively communicating. Good communication is achieved by a combination of listening and speaking, and of knowing when to do…
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Improving communication skills is a constant in our lives. We are human, and we need effective and efficient communication on a daily basis. From confirmation and affirmation to answers and insight, we rely on words. We also rely on understanding…
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Are you often at a loss for words when you talk with your friends and relatives? Are you under pressure to say something just to keep a conversation going, especially over the telephone? Although it might seem daunting, you can…
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Older people, in general, have a sense of timing. Part of engaging in conversation and developing a friendship would be to adjust to their rhythm. ~Slow down Older people know how to sit down, relax, and have a meaningful conversation….
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It is impossible to have a solid relationship without proper communication. Part of the communication process is the use of small talk. Small talk enables the couple to find out about the emotions of their partner before starting serious conversations….
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In today’s exceedingly trying economic times, just about everyone is worried about finances. In fact, it’s safe to say that financial problems are a leading source of stress in American families today. And, of course, if you add the normal…
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The quickest way to form a suggestion, where thoughts commence with the word “shouldn’t”, is to ruminate about things you don’t want or things you don’t like. One thought concerning what you don’t want leads to corresponding thoughts. One thought…
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The equation that is associated with people who assume has been handed down from generations. Those who assume will make an ‘ass’ out of ‘u’ and ‘me’. Despite having this information, people continue to assume. It happens everyday because it’s…
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The definition of flirting is to play at love, or act amorously without serious intentions. Before the internet was invented, most flirting was done in person, over the telephone or through traditional letter writing correspondence. Nowadays, with the popularity of…
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Words have a particular power to them, and many people do not know how words said unconsciously actually affect their life. If the whole world learnt to speak kind, gentle and loving words then the world will quite a peaceful…
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Revealing our very own personal experiences in life can let other people know that problems, difficulties, and certain situations can happen to anyone at any time. It will help other people know that they are not the only ones carrying around pain…
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If one of your relatives is overweight, it is sometimes hard to figure out the right thing to do when it comes to telling them. For one, you want them to be healthy and you know they can have all…
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A friend who is a good listener is worth their weight in gold. But how do you recognise these qualities in someone? A good listener often has lots of friends already, but they won’t be the centre of attention. The…
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When I was small, my Mom used to always say that listening is more important than talking otherwise you’d have two mouths and one ear. As I get older, I realize how right she was. Too many folks have a…
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The question of whether or not to tell a relative they are too fat depends on the circumstance. Most of the time people know when they are gaining weight, not only in appearances, but also in their clothes. Most of…
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Anyone who has regularly used chat rooms will know that chat room rage exists. It is very easy to use a computer anonymously, hiding behind the fact that others do not know which country you live in, let alone your…
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One can instinctively recognize a good listener. He is a person who instantaneously communicates genuine interest, understanding and respect to the speaker. By listening intently, he makes a positive connection with the speaker. It is primarily by active listening that…
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A good listener is a treasure in a sea of people. There are many ways you can identify a good listener. Here are a few. A good listener will always make eye contact. They understand that looking into another person’s…
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There are many tricks and tips for appearing to be a good listener. Nodding, making eye contact, and paraphrasing what the other person just said are all easy ways to feign interest. Sometimes, and with some people, they may even…
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If you want to stop cursing, you’re going to have to retrain your brain. At first, it will probably be a large struggle but after awhile you’ll look back and remember how you used to use foul language and wonder…
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“Mom, Dad, I have something to tell you.” Now in my world, that statement usually comes right before the revelation, “I’m gay.” But, even after that’s been dealt with, the fact remains that all of us have secrets. Sooner or…
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How many times have you rudely interrupted someone, and then beaten yourself up over it – wishing you had not done that? It happens, but you can reduce this occurrence in your life. If you are committed to strengthening your…
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The development of cyber communication – email, text messaging, and the proliferation of social networking sites such as Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, Digg, and CampusFace have produced both positive and negative consequences. On one hand, the ability to communicate anything, to…
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Aren’t people who interrupt annoying? I thought so until I realized, to my deep embarrassment, that I interrupt conversations quite often. I discovered this when, in the quest to become a better listener, I caught myself interrupting a lot. Why…
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Is anybody there? The blank stare from the person you have asked this question reveals that, although they are physically present in your company, they are certainly not listening. Whether you are in a social gathering or an intimate one-to-one…
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How to stop cursing The slip of the lip saying a curse word while you’re talking to your buddy in an elevator in front of a group of nuns can make you feel like the scum of the earth when…
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There is nothing more uncomfortable than six people on an elevator. It’s too many not to be in each others Personal Space and too few to have a really good colloquium. If the elevator stops and doesn’t start again, that…
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The power of words is in their intent, because words can be used for both good and evil and they can be both strong or weak, innocent or powerful. Words, whether written or spoken are the means by which people…
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The wisdom of our grandparents is one of our most valuable national treasures. Sadly, as much as we love and cherish our grandparents, very few of us ever take the time to tap into that reserve of wisdom and experience….
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It can be a simple phrase or a simple word, if somebody tells you something meaningful, it may affect your life. It may even effect your life without you knowing it. Sometimes it can be something that you did…
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