Author Archive: Wendy S. Melton
Wendy S. Melton
November 17, 2014
Family
There are several benefits to developing “green” habits as a family. One of the most important is that it is something the family does together. Recycling and gardening with compost are two ways that encourage family members to work together….
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Wendy S. Melton
October 5, 2014
Family
Establishing a family fitness regimen is an excellent way for a family to grow together and stay fit together. Children learn eating, exercise and fitness habits from their parents. Other role models that influence kids are teachers, coaches and the…
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Wendy S. Melton
June 3, 2014
Skin and Body
Being a full time massage therapist or someone who just works on friends and family, having the right massage oil will make a world of difference. Massage lotions and oils should be light and slightly aromatic. Some prefer little or…
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Wendy S. Melton
April 29, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Keeping a woman happy is a lot easier than most men think. We have a few simple rules that can help husbands remain in a loving and mostly stress free marriage. Remember though, that every women is different. These rules…
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Wendy S. Melton
March 8, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Marriage is a shared commitment not to be entered into lightly. It won’t work if either of the partners feels there is little need to contribute. Happiness and sorrow are equally divided between all members involved, including the children. Many…
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Wendy S. Melton
March 3, 2014
Crisis Support
Abuse of any kind is still abuse. Physical and sexual abuse leave visible scars that, over time, may heal without leaving noticeable scars. Verbal abuse on the other hand, can be replayed over and over again in the mind of…
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Wendy S. Melton
January 14, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
A marriage is a partnership. It takes two to make it work. Odds are if one of the partners knows there is something wrong with the marriage, the other partner knows as well. Broaching the subject of marriage counseling can…
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Wendy S. Melton
January 11, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Signing your name to the dotted line on a marriage license, doesn’t mean you are in for a boring life. It’s up to both partners to keep the fire going. Over time, couples learn what makes one another tick. Some…
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Wendy S. Melton
January 10, 2014
Dating
Blind dating is like playing Russian Roulette with a fully loaded gun. Something is bound to go wrong. I had been working at a retail department store for about six months when one of my new found friends/co-workers approached me…
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Wendy S. Melton
January 10, 2014
Crisis Support
Breaking the cycle of abuse is not an easy task. To have a “cycle” so to speak, this means that the violence recurs on a regular basis. Knowing the triggers of the abuse may help to eliminate some aspects of…
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Wendy S. Melton
December 9, 2013
Family
Tracing a family’s heritage can be an interesting but difficult journey. With today’s technology, the degree of difficulty has been reduced several times over. In the past, a person had to travel to different counties and sometimes, even different states…
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Wendy S. Melton
December 9, 2013
Family
Creativity is the key to finding unique ways to display a person’s family history and cultural traditions. Depending on their heritage, a person can design something that is unique to their family’s personal history. With today’s technology, photographs can be…
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Wendy S. Melton
December 8, 2013
Family
Tracing a family’s heritage can be a very enlightening and fun experience. To start the journey, it’s easiest to begin with what is already known. Looking for clues in family photos, family bibles and any other documents can raise a…
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Wendy S. Melton
December 8, 2013
Family
Learning about your family’s ethnic background is important for a variety of reasons. To some, it may just be the curiosity of wondering why your family has certain traditions. Family traditions often stem from a practice or celebration native to…
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Wendy S. Melton
December 7, 2013
Family
Making sure an elderly relative is getting the proper nutrients and eating right can be a challenge, especially if they live on their own. There are many factors that will affect how a senior eats. Knowing and understanding how these…
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Wendy S. Melton
October 25, 2013
Crisis Support
Physical abuse is devastating to experience. It plays with your mind and damages the body. Many times the wounds heal, but the scars, both seen and unseen are permanent. The person being abused struggles with the paradox that love must…
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Wendy S. Melton
September 24, 2013
Family
Having several generations under one roof can offer both blessings and challenges. Many cultures believe that it is the family’s responsibility to care for the elders who have been there for them throughout their lives. They do not believe in…
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Wendy S. Melton
August 9, 2013
Family
Being a caregiveris very rewarding, but it is also very draining. An elderly family member can require constant care as their condition progresses. It can almost be like babysitting a small child, at times. With today’s rising cost of healthcare, many…
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