Author Archive: W. Diane Van Zwol
W. Diane Van Zwol
November 13, 2013
Communication
Communication is always changing With the introduction of the Apple, smart phone with Internet and multimedia capabilities, the iPhone and its innovative technology, appears to be on the verge of phasing out other, relatively recent modes of communication, like the…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
November 2, 2013
Crisis Support
Sexual Harassment as a Global Concern Sexual harassment on the internet is a growing concern for people, all around the globe. This is particularly true with regard to the younger generation, who may not be aware of the extent, or…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
October 24, 2013
Relationships and Family - Other
If someone is in love with you, you will know, as the signs are all there. Maybe you know how to ‘read’ the signs, but maybe not, depending upon how aware and astute you are. It is usually self-evident. The…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
October 24, 2013
Relationships and Family - Other
There are many different kinds of love and love is a good thing. On the other hand, love addiction has its own distinct pros and cons. Love addiction in a positive, constructive light can be a good thing. When love…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
October 24, 2013
Communication
There is tremendous power in what you say and how you say it, whether you are aware that you have this kind of power or not. ‘Saying’ can make or break the lives of others. There are many different ways…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
October 17, 2013
Family
With more and more single parent families, the face of empty nest blues is changing too. Are you a mother or father who is experiencing grief, loss and even remorse associated with empty nest syndrome? Most parents know that at…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
October 2, 2013
Crisis Support
Have you ever been in the midst of a family crisis, wishing that you could buy some time? A family crisis can happen at any time and in any place. Time is of the essence when that happens and the…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
October 1, 2013
Crisis Support
Dealing with the pending death of a family member or friend is seldom easy. In fact, when the death of a family member or friend is imminent, it can be devastating for everyone. With a pending death on the horizon,…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
October 1, 2013
Crisis Support
Someone you love is going through a crisis. No one is ever really prepared to deal with a crisis, but you can be there for a person you love during this difficult and trying time. Somehow, any crisis always seems…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
September 24, 2013
Communication
Going off to college can be the most exciting, challenging and happiest time in the life of students, but sometimes it entails long distance relationships which can have pros and cons. The global phenomenon of a long distance relationships may…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
September 23, 2013
Crisis Support
It is always difficult to lose a loved one, especially a grandparent. The death of a grandparent can be devastating, particularly for someone who has had a good relationship with him or her. Many grandparents grow very close to their…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
September 15, 2013
Family
Creating strong family ties is not always easy, but it is vital, particularly in the current era where families can and do drift apart, for many different reasons. It often takes time and effort on everyone’s part to restore familial…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
September 12, 2013
Friends and Peers
Every work environment has professional coworkers, as well as those who are unprofessional in their speech, demeanor, comportment, attire etc. Frustrations arise when professional and unprofessional coworkers have to work together. It is not easy for either one of them….
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W. Diane Van Zwol
September 11, 2013
Friends and Peers
Do you have a friend who is now unemployed? How to offer support to your unemployed friend without interfering in his or her life, may appear problematic for many different reasons. Unemployment can be a frightening scenario for anyone who…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
September 11, 2013
Relationships and Family - Other
Current trends in teenage behavior often cause consternation to parents, grandparents and teachers. This is not something new or different, as teenage behavior has always tended to be unique, unlike adult behavior in the same generation. Perhaps one might suggest…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
August 28, 2013
Relationships and Family - Other
Parents and teachers often have to contend with unanticipated behavior problems, or outbursts of anger resulting from adolescent frustrations, one of which is parental expectations related to boundaries. Adolescence is not an easy time for teenagers, or for those who…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
August 27, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Interpretation of the concept “married for life” may vary considerably depending upon your personal belief system, upbringing and culture. Because of the wide range of possible interpretation, ‘married for life’ can prove to be problematic for young people who are…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
August 26, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Some husbands are very sensitive to the needs and desires of their wives, while there may be little or no demonstrable sensitivity shown by others. Husbands are unique individuals. How they interact with, and in response to their wives in…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
August 20, 2013
Dating
There are many ways that self-esteem issues can be psychologically damaging to a relationship. When not recognized early enough, damage to the psyche or self may seem to be irreparable, but educators in every realm are aware of this reality…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
August 19, 2013
Communication
A teen is not always aware that teens need to control their spending. Of course, there are exceptions. For example, a teen with parents who actively practice financial planning is likely to be more money conscious. A teen with personal…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
August 15, 2013
Communication
Trying to communicate with shy teenagers often presents a challenge for parents, family members and friends, as well as teachers. Being shy teenagers is never easy for them either, as there can be trying, frustrating and embarrassing situations. Effective communication…
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W. Diane Van Zwol
August 3, 2013
Family
You are in a state of despair when as a new bride you suddenly realize that you unknowingly married into a dysfunctional family. For example, you have a rude awakening when your mother-in-law takes you aside and says to you,…
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