Author Archive: Virginia L. Allen
Virginia L. Allen
October 27, 2015
Skin and Body
Baking soda isn’t just for the kitchen anymore. In addition to being a great baking, cooking and cleaning product, baking soda offers a wide range of health and beauty uses. The book, ‘Arm and Hammer Baking Soda: Over 100 Helpful…
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Virginia L. Allen
October 17, 2015
Dating
“It takes both rain and sunshine to make a rainbow” – so stated an unknown author. What is more romantic then, than spending time with your significant other in rainy weather? Rain to me, embodies fluidness and sensuality – desired…
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Virginia L. Allen
October 12, 2015
Communication
“Words have power”- so states the old adage. Never has such a simple statement, produced such a powerful meaning. Yet, in a world governed by freeness of speech, where one’s right to express his own opinions and feelings (regardless of…
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Virginia L. Allen
September 29, 2015
Crisis Support
“If there’s anything I can do, just let me know.” “I’m so sorry for your loss.” “Please accept my deepest condolences.” No matter how genuine our feelings are concerning our fellow-mans grief, more often than not, we wish our condolences…
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Virginia L. Allen
July 28, 2015
Friends and Peers
At least the majority of us can agree; through experience; that not all friend’s bring out the best in us. Sad to say, just as counterfeit money exist, so exists counterfeit friends. We’ve all been tricked at least once in…
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Virginia L. Allen
July 14, 2015
Crisis Support
It’s a subject few of us want to dwell on – the subject of sexual abuse of children. However, considering the prevalence of such “crimes against innocence”, the physical, mental, and emotional well-being of our children, necessitates that we find…
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Virginia L. Allen
July 10, 2015
Skin and Body
With the use of clamshells, shark’s teeth, and sharp slivers of flint, humans have been shaving since ancient Egypt. It has been estimated that “if a man spends five minutes a day shaving, and consistently every day for 50 years,…
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Virginia L. Allen
June 28, 2015
Skin and Body
A bane of parents and children alike, Dermatitis (also known as Eczema) is a general term used to describe different skin conditions. Dermatitis falls under two categories: Atopic Dermatitis and Contact Dermatitis. * Atopic Dermatitis. Atopic Dermatitis effects those who…
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Virginia L. Allen
June 24, 2015
Family
As of the early 90’s, the fastest growing age group in the U.S. was said to be the 75-plus category. Fast forward a decade, and there is no doubt that number has significantly increased. With the advancements of medical technology,…
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Virginia L. Allen
June 5, 2015
Dating
Unfortunate as it may be, when two individuals have been together for some time, the romance in the relationship tends to fizzle. Gone are the days where you used to sit and talk for hours about absolutely nothing, spontaneous surprises,…
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Virginia L. Allen
May 30, 2015
Communication
Due to the absence of sight, describing anything visual to a person who is blind can be quite a challenge. Add to that challenge, the fact that the thing described cannot be touched, heard, or smelled, really ups the ante….
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Virginia L. Allen
May 30, 2015
Communication
In biblical terms, the power of the tongue is so eloquently described, when it is said to be a little member that possesses the power to start a large forest fire. Add to that the tendency to speak before we…
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Virginia L. Allen
May 16, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
I’m a simple girl, with simple aspirations. As long as my family is happy, and we have the necessities of life, then I’m happy. Even in matters of love, does this philosophy ring true for me. Not one for public…
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Virginia L. Allen
April 28, 2015
Communication
Effective communication is the key to any successful relationship. So much more so is this true for couples. However, for one reason or another, many couples have run into communication barriers, that have presented major problems and concerns for them….
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Virginia L. Allen
April 17, 2015
Skin and Body
After two and half excruciating months, my 17 month old daughter was finally diagnosed with the irritating, and often painful skin condition known as eczema. For anyone who has personally experienced this skin disorder, or have children who’ve suffered with…
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Virginia L. Allen
March 30, 2015
Friends and Peers
It’s only natural to want to be accepted by others. Peer pressure tends to play on that desire. Many of your peers no doubt, urge you to join them in unhealthy activities. Many of them have yielded to the same…
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Virginia L. Allen
March 6, 2015
Shoes
Contrary to the “Carrie Bradshaws” of the world, shoe lovers come in different sizes, shapes, and colors. Not limited to high-end brands, many of these shoe connoisseurs, crave the shoe stylings of the more budget friendly shoe establishments. Therefore, when…
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Virginia L. Allen
February 5, 2015
Family
“Studies have shown that (elderly) folks stay younger and more truly alive in their own homes than elsewhere”- so stated the book “You and Your Aging Parents”. However, due to unique circumstances, what if it has been established that the…
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Virginia L. Allen
January 29, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Let’s face it, in addition to being both a blessing and a joy, having children changes everything. From the amount of sleep you get on a daily basis, to the degree of romance experienced in a once childless marriage. Once…
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Virginia L. Allen
December 16, 2014
Crisis Support
Sexual harassment used to mainly effect women in the work place. Now a days, global statistics show that men, as well as school-age youths, have also been affected. The book “Coping With Sexual Harassment and Gender Bias”-by Dr. Victoria Shaw,…
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Virginia L. Allen
December 8, 2014
Dating
In the book, “The Chemistry of Love” by Dr. Michael Liebowitz – the onset of love is likened to the rush of a powerful drug. Much like the drug, love can trigger withdrawal symptoms if left unrequited. In addition to…
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Virginia L. Allen
December 3, 2014
Communication
Often thought of as a condition that only young people and children suffer from, a good percentage of adults suffer from extreme shyness as well. Such shyness, as one newspaper article cited, “prevents (the individual) from leading full lives”. Dr….
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Virginia L. Allen
November 18, 2014
Family
We all strive to be in control of every aspect of our lives. Such control provides us with a sense of security and accomplishment. This is why we make plans and save for unforeseen occurrences. Realistically though, we live in…
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Virginia L. Allen
October 30, 2014
Dating
The Merriam – Webster’s on-line dictionary, defines sexy as – 1.) Sexually suggestive or stimulating: Erotic. 2.) Generally attractive or interesting: Appealing. Although the general definition of the word sexy is commonly agreed upon by many, what people consider as…
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Virginia L. Allen
October 6, 2014
Family
Among the list of fears and concerns regarding the welfare of family members, a member turning up missing easily tops the list as a family’s worst nightmare. To say dealing with such a situation is extremely scary and trying is…
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Virginia L. Allen
September 21, 2014
Family
As a sibling to three younger brothers and one older sister, being raised by my single mother truly presented unique challenges for us five. Although my mother did an excellent job providing for our emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual wellbeing,…
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Virginia L. Allen
July 15, 2014
Communication
Without a doubt, the mass majority of men today will agree with the french historian Jules Michelet, (1798-1874) who stated: “Woman is a miracle of divine contradictions”. In keeping with this thought process, Irish poet, novelist, dramatist and critic Oscar…
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Virginia L. Allen
July 15, 2014
Communication
Realistically, rejecting someone is far from easy. More often than not, fear of hurt feelings or repercussions as a result of, is the underlying reason it’s so hard to do. It stands to reason therefore, that such a situation should…
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Virginia L. Allen
May 3, 2014
Family
It’s a age old conundrum; how to deal graciously with your mother in-law. Contrary to popular beliefs, not all mother in-laws are hard to deal with. Many are very obliging, and know when to give their relatives the proper respect…
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Virginia L. Allen
April 9, 2014
Communication
Listening carefully is a valuable asset in the true art of conversation. It’s no wonder that renowned Greek author Diogenes wrote: “We have two ears and one tongue so that we would listen more and talk less”. Ironically, although hearing…
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