Author Archive: V.J. Lott
V.J. Lott
November 8, 2015
Dating
You’ve been through so many relationships. The ups the downs and then you meet who you think is Mr. Right. Then to your surprise he has a mean streak. Not just sporadically, but often. He not only says things that…
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V.J. Lott
October 14, 2015
Dating
Having a successful relationship is not a one sided ordeal. It takes two people to make a relationship healthy and successful. One of the things I have learned from experience that help a relationship flourish is Communication. Without it how…
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V.J. Lott
September 22, 2015
Dating
All guys are not the same. Things that make one smile might make another one grimace or uncomfortable. You know your guy, you know the things that he likes, use those things you know and incorporate a plan to keep…
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V.J. Lott
July 31, 2015
Dating
“Girl you must be tired, because you been running through my mind all day.” “Baby are you from Tennessee? because you’re the only ten I see.” Using elemntary school lines on a girl that looks like she just walked off…
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V.J. Lott
June 30, 2015
Friends and Peers
It is not at all unusual to have a friend of the opposite sex. These days it is not a rarity at all. The question is what do you do if your Guy pal all of a sudden wants to…
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V.J. Lott
February 1, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
You’re not as flirtatious as you were at 18, and if one more thing on you sags you’ll scream bloody murder. After having kids and being married for sometime it’s hard to take out time for you and your significant…
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V.J. Lott
September 3, 2014
Communication
I say this often, so many times that I’m thinking about getting it plastered on a t-shirt “Communication is the key.” Without it how will we really know which way to react, or act in a slick situation. A lot…
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V.J. Lott
July 13, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
In this day and age there’s no telling what new trends will plague society. It makes some of us wonder is marriage still a “sacred union?” In my opinion It’s not the way it was when Harry met Sally. Mail…
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V.J. Lott
June 11, 2014
Dating
First impressions are lasting ones, and the last thing that you want to do on a date is pass off a negative impression. Blind dates can be the worst experiences for some people. Because one, the date was either set…
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V.J. Lott
March 10, 2014
Dating
It doesn’t always set well with us to look into the mirror and say to ourselves, “I messed up.” Owning up and realizing that we as human beings will make mistakes, is just one skill that some of us have…
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V.J. Lott
January 25, 2014
Family
These days everyone is so busy, and with everything being turned into technology gone are the days when families sat down and played “Battleship.” There comes a time in the lives of children and teens, when they are most influential…
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