January 9, 2014 Crisis Support
Grieving is very individual process. Not everyone grieves in the same way, but there are some universal needs. ~Physical needs The basics of eating, sleeping and general exercise and movement are still present. It is not always easy for some…
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January 2, 2014 Relationships and Family - Other
There is something that is often forgotten when talking about personal relationships. Each relationship is an intricate dance between two people. Their dance is like no other. They bring steps and ideas that others may not understand or even tolerate….
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Relationships are often based on emotions, passions, and physical cues. It is fun, exciting, tough and it is exhausting. It rarely has much to do with logic and the focus of the mind. When there is a break up, it…
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December 24, 2013 Communication
Seriously, if men really did not listen to women complain, there would be a whole lot of quiet time in many houses. Women may complain a lot, but most of them are smart enough to notice when no one is…
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December 23, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
When two people are in love and committed to share their life together marriage is a way for them to declare it legally. Race should not be an issue for anyone when it comes to this holy union. Sadly, there…
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December 15, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Divorce is seldom an easy decision. Most couples take their vows seriously. Most of them truly try and make the relationship work. If they find themselves in a situation where divorce is the only option it is good to know…
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December 15, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Domestic abuse takes on many forms and often there are very few witnesses who can give accurate information. In a divorce proceeding it is important that the victim has documented all incidents and is prepared to share the information. This…
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Ren Willes said “If you are looking for treasures or answers, start in your own backyard. It holds many treasures.” It is unclear if he meant family history treasures, but it seems to be applicable. Family group sheet There could…
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In order to look for a family coat of arms, you have to understand a little bit about what it is, where it comes from and how it changes. History tells us that a coat of arms was the property…
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There are many computer programs and on line helps that can be used to search for genealogy. In fact there are so many options that some written material may be the best investment possible to help decide what on lines…
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Marriage is a contract between two people and all their baggage. Part of that baggage is family. So it makes good sense to improve your relationship with your mother-in-law. She was part of the package from the beginning. ~ Respect…
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December 3, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Often parents who are going through a divorce do not co-parent well. The issues between the adults flood down upon the children. It usually is not an intentional act, but somehow the children get shuffled instead of represented. In most…
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November 29, 2013 Friends and Peers
Helping neighbors is an excellent idea. Elderly neighbors often have some needs that neighbors can help with. They also posses a wealth of knowledge and unique perspectives. When it is handled correctly it is a great experience for everyone involved….
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November 27, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
A successful marriage takes a lot of time, patience, trust and flexibility. Some times a marriage can use some professional help from some one on the outside. Counseling can be very beneficial for some couples. There are some basics that…
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Communication is not always an easy task for family members. Some times family members forget that good communication requires two very important things. First, you need to be able to effectively communicate your wants, your desires, your problems, your solutions…
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November 12, 2013 Communication
Having a teenager who seems like an underachiever can be very challenging. You want the child to improve and do well. Many underachievers simply have not found their learning style, interests and talents. Parents need to celebrate, and encourage the…
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November 12, 2013 Communication
It happens so often. Parents are shocked when “the good child” is suddenly in trouble. Could it be that they are seeking some attention? Even if it is attention for bad behavior, it is better than not getting noticed at…
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November 12, 2013 Communication
Teenagers are not children. They are young adults. Teenagers are struggling through an in-between stage in life that can be very complicated. Some teenagers react by becoming very quiet and uncommunicative. It is especially easy to do with all the…
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The family is the backbone of society. This is where children learn values, develop communication skills, and create habits that last a lifetime. This family structure is the most important place to teach, learn, demonstrate and understand what impact “green…
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October 31, 2013 Friends and Peers
Juggling is not an easy task. It is about always keeping things up in the air and never allowing them to touch or remain together. It is often done with objects, but it rarely works well with people. However, there…
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October 27, 2013 Relationships and Family - Other
There is much to be said about the art of negotiations. Instead of arguing about the past and all the problems in the relationship, negotiate the terms of the break up and the future. Set the emotions aside and work…
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The dynamics of adult children and relating to them as parents is a complex situation at best. Sometimes they want a friend. Some times they want a parent. Some times they want a cheerleader. Other times they want a grandparent….
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October 10, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Integrity is one of those terms that is not as simply as it sounds. It encompasses a lot more than just being honest. It is about consistency in behavior and thoughts. Integrity deals with daily habits and the way that…
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October 6, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Marriage is a very complicated relationship. Chances are that no two marriages are truly exactly the same. There are some couples that believe all marriages are just like theirs and others who believe their situations are totally unique. The truth…
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October 6, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
A good night sleep is a very important part of being healthy. Sleep deprivation has physical and emotional consequences, One of the most important decisions in getting a good night sleep may be where you sleep. Sometimes that may mean…
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October 5, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
It is doubtful when a young girl dreams about her beautiful wedding and successful marriage she pictures herself as “the second wife”. It not a title that you hope to call your own. However, times have changed. Approximately 51% of…
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October 2, 2013 Crisis Support
It is not news that anyone wants to deliver. However, everyone knows that death is imminent. There is no avoiding death. It will come. Compassion and respect are tools that are helpful when it comes to talking about death. Often…
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September 30, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
A couple is made strong because they are functioning adults, separate from each other. They each have interests, strengths and diversity that they bring to the relationship. While it is important to have commonalities, it is equally as important to…
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Living is a rural area has many perks. There are many people who would never consider moving to a metropolitan area. Now with satellite internet it is easy for rural areas to keep their simple uncluttered lifestyle and still reach…
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September 18, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Newlyweds are beginning a whole new life together. Each partner brings a rich history and ideals to the union. The couple, if the marriage is going to work, will learn to face challenges and celebrations together. They will learn to…
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