Author Archive: Trenna Sue Hiler
Trenna Sue Hiler
October 8, 2014
Family
A pedigree chart is a simple tool used to trace the blood lineage of a single person. The standard pedigree starts with one individual person. For the purpose of this article the lineage would be you. Your name would be…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
October 7, 2014
Family
Saying goodbye to this life and loved ones is a luxury. It is a blessing to say all the details that warm the heart, clear the caverns of the heart, grant forgiveness and accept the consequences. For those who are…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
October 4, 2014
Family
Those who have mothers who complain do not love them any less then those who have perfect mothers. (I am told they exist. I have never met one.) Please remember as you peruse these life lessons that complaining mothers are…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
October 4, 2014
Communication
We live in a society seeking instant gratification. There’s a fast food restaurant on almost every corner, in case we need food right now. There are 100 channels one can access from the remote control with just a touch of…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
October 1, 2014
Skin and Body
We’ve all had them. Those days when your friends and associates say “you look tired today.” Check the mirror and almost every time, it’s the dark circles and bags under your eyes that give you away. So what are the…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
September 22, 2014
Family
It is kind of comical. In order to protect family time you have to establish family time. Many families do not have that as part of the family structure. Making family time takes a great deal of planning, preparation, and…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
September 16, 2014
Dating
Many people spend at least 50 percent of their waking hours in the workplace. They may not be working every minute of the day, but they are there. It is understandable that people will meet and find interest in dating…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
September 14, 2014
Hair
It is always a good idea when you are able to save a little money and have a great product that works. When you make your own you have control over the ingredients and get it just the way you…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
September 13, 2014
Hair
The purpose of hair conditioner is to restore natural balance back into the hair. It treats the damage that has been caused by heat, weather, styling products and simple wear and tear. Many conditioners are placed on the hair and…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
September 7, 2014
Skin and Body
Toenail Fungus is a very common ailment. More than 35 million people in the United States report toenail fungus every year. The cause of toe nail fungus is the spreading of spores to warm damp home where they can live…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
September 6, 2014
Communication
There seems to be no shortage of rude people in the world. Some of them just don’t know better. Some rude people enjoy the reaction and attention they get from others. Some rude people are just unhappy and angry. Some…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
August 26, 2014
Friends and Peers
Disposable is not a bad word or a bad idea. It is about something that has served a purpose and is no longer useful in the same circumstance. It is left behind, thrown away or recycled. It is not done…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
August 24, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
In order to determine if divorce is your best option you need to do logical reality check. To keep it logical you may need someone to walk you through the process. Emotions run high when you are considering divorce. 1….
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Trenna Sue Hiler
August 23, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Things in the marriage are a little rough. No one seems to be happy. Everything the couple has done to help seems to have gone flat. Perhaps some of the basics like trust, love, and communication skills are all under…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
August 22, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Getting along with your ex’s new partner probably isn’t the first thing you need to be concerned about in your relationship. There may even be a question if it is wise to “get along” with the ex partner. Perhaps a…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
August 22, 2014
Relationships and Family - Other
If you are in an abusive relationship it is of the utmost importance that you seek help and you get out. People are aware of your legitimate concerns. These concerns are valid, but not insurmountable. You need a plan, a…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
August 20, 2014
Communication
Older people, in general, have a sense of timing. Part of engaging in conversation and developing a friendship would be to adjust to their rhythm. ~Slow down Older people know how to sit down, relax, and have a meaningful conversation….
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Trenna Sue Hiler
August 16, 2014
Family
The basic doctrines of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints include a belief that there are some things that must take place on this earth for the soul to continue on the progress through eternity. Since it is…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
August 2, 2014
Crisis Support
The death of a loved one is never a simple experience. There are emotions, families, finances, and a myriad of decisions to be made. Once things settle down many people choose to memorialize the loved one in some way. Memorializing…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
August 1, 2014
Crisis Support
Choosing a funeral home is usually not on the top ten list of things that people are anxious to talk about. However, it is a very important decision. It is much better if the decision can be made ahead of…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
July 25, 2014
Dating
It seems like people tend to make relationships harder to establish and maintain than necessary. The basics of any relationship should be respect, honesty and kindness. With these as a solid foundation most relationships find some success. When developing a…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
July 18, 2014
Skin and Body
Pedicures are a great treat and a nice way to relax. The good news is that you can create a wonderful pedicure at home for half the cost. It can be a treat you enjoy more often. It is also…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
July 11, 2014
Clothes
For many, the need for luxury clothing does not come around very often. The costs are fairly high for purchase and unless they are going to be used often, it is not a wise investment. However, for the special occasions,…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
July 6, 2014
Skin and Body
“Pour Some Sugar on Me” by Def Leppard is not what they were singing about. However, it is perfectly acceptable to sing it while removing the hair. In fact some really loud and good singing may help the distraction of…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
June 23, 2014
Family
Conflict is a natural part of life. Families are no exception. Conflicts happen in families just like any other relationship. If family members can learn the skills required for resolving conflicts, they will be better prepared for all their relationships…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
June 23, 2014
Family
It seems that the human mind rarely stops thinking. It is important to take notice of these thoughts that seem to just come naturally. These thoughts are creating our world. Many believe that the law of attraction. Things that we…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
June 23, 2014
Family
Family life is a careful balance of a team working together and each individual needing to be self sufficient. It is not always easy individual needs to be self sufficient. It is not always easy to make it work, but…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
June 23, 2014
Family
Families need rules. There must be boundaries and expectations so each family member progresses individually and the family stays strong. Rules should be specific enough that all the family members understand them. The rules need to be applied to all…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
June 20, 2014
Family
Blended and extended seem to wander hand-in-hand in today’s society. The new norm are parents who divorce, remarry and begin new families multiple times. Many times families also move in together outside of marriage. It is not uncommon for families…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
June 18, 2014
Hair
The idea is a fairly simple one. As the weather gets very hot and humid businessmen can get an utlra-cold ice shampoo. Typically they will stop between business meetings for a quick cool down to prepare for the next task….
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