Author Archive: Trenna Sue Hiler
Trenna Sue Hiler
February 8, 2015
Friends and Peers
What is drama? Drama is the art of taking ordinary life situations and adding layers of what if, why, and what do you think? Allow an illustration for clarification. LaNae was late for work because her ex-husband pulled out in…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
February 8, 2015
Friends and Peers
Friendship is based on respect, common interests and a degree of compatibility. It can be a very supportive and long lasting relationship. However circumstances can change that wears on the interests, respect of compatibility. When friends part ways there seem…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
February 6, 2015
Family
Most people would not consider tossing their family in a vehicle and setting off on a five year journey without a map and provisions. Raising a family without a family life plan is much like traveling without a map, a…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 30, 2015
Clothes
Whilst no one goes about drinking a few pints here and there has the goal of a beer belly, it happens. Obviously, there are healthy ways to make it go away, but in the meantime, have another pint and learn…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 16, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Are women really looking for father figures? Do men just take longer to settle down and mature? What’s the attraction women may have for the older man? There probably isn’t a universal answer, but lets see if we can identify…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 14, 2015
Communication
Cancer patients often refer to it as the elephant in the living room. Or sometimes they just call it the big C. It doesn’t have to be cancer or any for illness. It is typically a problem or a situation…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 14, 2015
Communication
It is often said that a relationship has reached its highest level when the two people are simply comfortable sitting in silence. This is not an easy task for many to achieve. Some have problems with the brain just shutting…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 9, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
You have decided you are going to give it another try. Your first marriage didn’t work out so swell, but you survived. According to statistics you have about a 30% chance of success. So what can you do to improve…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 7, 2015
Communication
Mayo Clinic describes a comatose patient as a state of prolonged unconsciousness. They usually have closed eyes, no movement of limbs (with the exception of reflex movements) and no response to painful stimuli. Comas don’t often last longer than a…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 7, 2015
Communication
Often times saying no just does not seem like a viable option. People may feel obligated to help others or do their civic duty. At work they may feel that taking on extra projects is a must for a good…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 6, 2015
Communication
Silence. The word brings so many conflicting thoughts to mind. Silence is golden. If you can’t say something nice don’t say anything at all. Silence speaks volumes. At first glance it seems like we can not make up our minds…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 6, 2015
Communication
The older one gets the wiser one’s parents seem to become. One of those tidbits we learn from our parents is that there is a time and place for everything. That includes sentences that begin with a command. Communication is…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 5, 2015
Friends and Peers
Understanding true gratitude makes everything in life a little brighter and a little easier. True gratitude is not just being thankful. It is about be so grateful that it causes one to respond with some kind of action. The workplace…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 3, 2015
Friends and Peers
Psycho-geomtrics is a tool that professionals use to learn more about personality traits, thinking styles, and learning traits. It’s a tool that fiction writers use when creating characters so they appeal to different readers and express different types of personalities….
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Trenna Sue Hiler
January 3, 2015
Friends and Peers
It is time to make a visit to the hundred acre woods. It is the perfect place to remind people what friendships are all about. Eeyore, the very sad little donkey, who can not seem to keep track of his…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
December 19, 2014
Makeup
Celebrities certainly pay a price for their fame. Tulisa is no different. Her love life seems to hit the front page. There are rumors that her gig on the X-Factor will be ending this season. Her band N-Dubz is taking…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
December 18, 2014
Skin and Body
Wrinkles give the face dimension and character. Typically women are not looking for either when it comes to their face. There are 46 different facial muscles. Each of these muscles need to be worked to help lessen the appearance of…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
December 18, 2014
Skin and Body
Lips are one of the most exposed and unprotected areas of the body. Most skin that covers the human body has 15 layers. The lips typically only have three to five layers. It is also important to note that the…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
December 11, 2014
Dating
There are so many different reasons for people to marry. In some societies, it is arranged at birth. Sometimes it happens because of an upcoming birth. Sometimes religion deem it as a part of the plan. Hypergamy is also a…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
December 7, 2014
Dating
Running a speed dating even can be a profitable and fun business. The key to running any social event is plenty of preparation. ~ Where to host the eventWhen choosing a location for any event starts out with this quote….
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Trenna Sue Hiler
December 7, 2014
Dating
Speed dating has it roots in religion, odd but true. Rabbi Yaacov Deyo saw young Jewish singles finding mates outside of their faith. He came up with speed dating as a way to get Jewish singles together with potential companions…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
December 2, 2014
Communication
Yes, women cry. And women cry for many different reasons. In the beginning boys and girls cry about the same amount of times. At the age of 12 things begin to change. Studies say that by adulthood women cry as…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
November 28, 2014
Friends and Peers
What does rude really mean? It means uncivilized and ill mannered. There are lots of worse characteristics that can be displayed. One of the best approaches to take with rude people is to assume they don’t know any better and…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
November 26, 2014
Skin and Body
Verrucas are viral warts that are found on the bottom of the feet. These are caused by the human papilloma virus (HPV) infection. These viral warts are commonly benign (meaning without cancer). Verrucas have a very distinctive appearance. They are…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
November 20, 2014
Family
What a fabulous idea! Since we live is a society of disposable relationships why not set up a way that we can divorce family members as well. Recognizing that divorce is a legal term, not an emotional term, there would…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
November 18, 2014
Family
Daycare and elderly care compliment each other. They can easily be designed so the needs of both groups are met. It can be a flourishing business that creates a harmonious community. What is in it for the seniors? *Improved physical…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
October 14, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Everyone enters a relationship with baggage. Baggage is the sum of experiences, memories, family ties, past relationships and traditions. It is normal and that is what makes you the unique person you are. Don’t let anyone take that baggage away….
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Trenna Sue Hiler
October 13, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
During a marriage most goals and accomplishments are shared as a couple. Sometimes people lose track of their individual strengths because everything as been done as a team. Now is the time to take a look inside and rediscover your…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
October 9, 2014
Family
No two family units are exactly alike, but most have had some in-fighting at one time or another. Every member of the family struggles to find their place and move from child to respected adult. You add all the extended…
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Trenna Sue Hiler
October 8, 2014
Skin and Body
The safety of tanning booths depends on whom you like to use as a source. The medical industry says no, tanning booths are not safe or a good idea. The facts they put into evidence are as follows. Skin cancer…
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