Author Archive: Todd Daigneault
Todd Daigneault
October 10, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Being overbearing with your spouse can be interpreted as a form of control and domination over them. Even when you argue, try not to always be right, or you must win the argument at all costs. Being fare in fighting…
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Todd Daigneault
October 10, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Certainly passes at best friend’s wives can and do happen. Most pass with little or no recrimination. Sometimes too much alcohol is consumed and the inhibitions can come down for your best friend…or even your wife. Sometimes, there can be…
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Todd Daigneault
October 8, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Introducing porn into a marriage can be a very healthy form of stimulation-either as a couple viewing it, or each partner viewing it separately. There certainly is nothing wrong with a healthy sexual fantasy life for married couples. It is…
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Todd Daigneault
October 8, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Showing affection to one’s spouse in public is very important to maintaining a healthy and vibrant marriage. Doing a simple gesture like holding your spouse’s hand in public shows love at the most basic-and the most infinite levels too. Showing…
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Todd Daigneault
October 5, 2013
Dating
It is best not to use aggressive body language to win the affection of anybody, whether it is intentional or not. Showing menacing gestures, or even crowding into somebody’s personal space, can doom a relationship before it ever has a…
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Todd Daigneault
October 5, 2013
Dating
Spark a thoughtful and positive conversation on a first date. Avoid negative, self-indulgent and egotistical conversations at all costs. They can be very negative, mood killers-ending the chances of anything further happening. You could like a person very much, and…
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Todd Daigneault
October 5, 2013
Dating
Showing a sensitive side on a first date can be very critical to establishing or maintaining any type of a relationship that may result from the first date. The first dates are so critical to establishing the future parameters of…
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Todd Daigneault
October 4, 2013
Dating
If you are a man, avoid machoism, bravado-and the accompanying huge and futile ego that goes along with it. These are some of the biggest first date (and ultimately potential relationship killers). Leave your ego, pretentiousness and phoniness at the…
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Todd Daigneault
October 4, 2013
Dating
Certainly, it can ruin the potential of a budding relationship to have sex on a first date. A lot of it depends on one or both partners and what they both want. Sometimes there is such chemistry that a sexual…
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Todd Daigneault
October 4, 2013
Dating
First date blunders can happen from the most inexperienced to the most experienced dater. Everybody is human, and mistakes are to be expected. The thing is to mitigate the more serious dating blunders that can impact a possibly budding relationship…
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Todd Daigneault
October 4, 2013
Dating
A first date is really about meeting somebody for the first time: introductions. It usually sets the stage to determine whether or not there are any future dates to come between the individuals in question. Ultimately to find out the…
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Todd Daigneault
October 3, 2013
Crisis Support
Withholding being abused (or the knowledge of being abused) can be extremely dangerous to your mental/emotional and physical health, or somebody you know who is being abused. Sadly enough, abuse can take many shapes and forms, last for many years…
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Todd Daigneault
September 30, 2013
Dating
Fear of intimacy or closeness, saying, ‘I love you’, even sexuality can stem from a host of emotional/psychological problems that can go all the way back to childhood. Psychological, physical and sexual abuse in childhood and adulthood can make a…
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Todd Daigneault
September 27, 2013
Dating
When writing your online dating profile, be careful not to include most of the goofy, silly things you may do or have done. Quirky things about yourself should be discussed at a later point in the ensuing relationship, or never…
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Todd Daigneault
September 27, 2013
Dating
Sex texting is real time highly-sexual content conversation between individuals who may never meet because of distance, marriages or other relationships. It allows the premise of heavily charged sexual innuendo, without the direct physical involvement, and all the connotations that…
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Todd Daigneault
September 27, 2013
Dating
There are a number of benefits to an age-appropriate relationship. The first one; age-equivalent can mean a longer lasting relationship. With shared experiences and a more mature understanding of each other, the relationship has more durability and strength to it….
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Todd Daigneault
September 18, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Having your spouse cheat on you can have a profound impact on your life-whether you expected it or not. For starters, even if there was cheating in the marriage, you may have hoped that things would’ve worked out, and may…
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Todd Daigneault
September 17, 2013
Family
An elder brother should allow his sister to explore her developing and burgeoning sexuality with men as she grows into a young woman. Of course, there are concerns by an older brother of his sister growing up too fast, and…
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Todd Daigneault
September 17, 2013
Dating
In an evolving, ever-changing society, it can certainly be acceptable to have casual sex. This theme has been overly popularized by TV, movies and popular culture. After all, we are all just human beings, who need affection and intimacy-without there…
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Todd Daigneault
September 10, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
It may seem silly, and even part of sitcom folklore, but invariably divorced couples fight over the pet dog. It tends to happen quite often-amongst the usual custody battles for children. The reasons can be simple and complex too. The…
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Todd Daigneault
September 9, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
A top sign that a marriage is failing includes either legitimate mistrust of each other (signs that cheating may have begun). Or gross misperceptions (signs of a communications breakdown). The latter can be most frequent, as heightened paranoia and jealousy…
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Todd Daigneault
September 9, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
A good reason not to divorce is that there might indeed be something worth saving in the marriage..even if it is a smoldering ember. Sometimes it can be kindled back into a raging inferno. Marriages can be torn apart by…
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Todd Daigneault
September 8, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Divorce is going to be very traumatic. Depending on how you broke up-and all of the circumstances inbetween and associated with it-it can be very trying times for you both. With alimony, child support, custody of minor children, pets, properties, cars, bank…
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Todd Daigneault
September 4, 2013
Dating
Love is like an incredible elixir: a tonic that makes the world look and fit so much better. When one is in love, in a committed relationship, everything just seems and feels so much better. When couples break-up, sometimes there…
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Todd Daigneault
September 4, 2013
Dating
There may be a number of reasons to research a prospective romantic partner on the Internet. They can range from seeing if they are sexual offenders, predators, and criminals to what positive attributes and accomplishments they may have. And everything…
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Todd Daigneault
September 1, 2013
Communication
A father is generally considered the strongest male role model in his son’s life. A man’s son generally looks up to him, and picks up many qualities from him during the young, formative years of his life. A father most…
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Todd Daigneault
August 31, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Breakups and divorces can be absolutely devastating-especially if there are children involved. It can be quite easy to pit one’s children against the ex, be them the mother or father. Try and resist the temptation to use your children as…
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Todd Daigneault
August 30, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Pornography can have a number of negative effects on a relationship. For starters, it can go beyond healthy sexual curiosity in a relationship, allowing a couple that has basically become sexual dysfunctional to the point that it needs constant outside…
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Todd Daigneault
August 28, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Although the world looks so beautiful when you are first married: the colors and sounds seem enhanced. You are deeply in love and your heart and souls seem so merged together that you are one; being part of the most fantastic universal…
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Todd Daigneault
August 28, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Telling your spouse you love them once in awhile helps to solidify a marriage on so many levels. It shows appreciation to them, for starters. Respect, compassion, and love, of course, is shown. It needs to be stated and said…
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