It can be very advantageous to play the field before marrying. Be one man or woman, playing the field a bit actually helps either sex in being able to find a better mate for themselves. Instead of just going out…
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The Internet connects the world in so many phenomenal ways that it is almost impossible to fathom how far it will go in the years and decades to come. Or how lost the world would be without it. It also…
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Con artists in most cases will stick out like a “sore thumb”-but a person may be so blinded by love and lust that they ignore the obvious signs. When they do not stick out, usually the charm is being ladled…
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A big con is growing up too fast, losing one’s youthful innocence, and suddenly finding one’s self very much in an adult world-with all the sinister connotations in dating, romance and sexuality-including obsession, stalking, date rape, STD;s and STI’s, pregnancies…
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For starters, perhaps the so-called “gorgeous guy” sees past the transitory, beautiful image and wants something more substantiave and enduring in a relationship than a woman who may be just obsessed with looks, prestige and power. In other words, the…
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December 28, 2013 Communication
A very good way to deal with an angry person is to let them cool down, until they are more reasonable to talk to. If somebody is angry, they are usually following primal instincts from the reptilian brain: ‘fight or…
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As a gay parent, getting past gay parenting stereotypes may be very difficult. Misconceptions and other very wrong views still run rampant in society over gay and lesbian parents. These can even come from sympathetic and understanding friends, peers and acquaintances, who…
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December 14, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
An amicable divorce is what most people want. Unfortunately, it doesn’t always happen that way, as a once robust marriage seemingly literally deteriorates overnight. Fights over custody of minor children, monetary issues, and even custody over children devastate a marriage-like a…
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December 14, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Divorces invariably happen, and will happen long into the future. As a parent of an adult child, who is going through one, you have to be prepared for losing that favorite son-in-law or daughter- in-law. The one who seems so…
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December 14, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
If you seriously want to avoid divorce – remember how high the statistics are – listen to your spouse; don’t drift apart. It’s natural after sometime of marriage for couples to sometimes focus on other issues like children and career….
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December 2, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
For a wife, infidelity by her husband with another woman can take a devastating toll on her, that can have shock waves and reverberations for life. In an established marriage, infidelity by a woman’s husband can be extremely catastrophic to…
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December 2, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
It can certainly be okay-as long as the wife is not totally excluded. Or their love mitigated somewhat in the process. In many cases, the wives are already friends to most of her husband’s female friends, (and they share them…
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December 1, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
A wife may find it totally innocent if her sister, younger or else wise, starts spending time with her husband – her brother-in-law. Usually, the time spent is with her too, and it is in the connotations of a family…
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November 26, 2013 Crisis Support
We’ve all lost somebody. In those chaotic first days and weeks, every shred of normalcy disappears from our life-throwing our lives into utter chaos-as we strive to re-build, re-structure and organize again. A gamut of emotions has to be run…
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A good way to win the romantic partner of your dreams is to maintain a degree of confidence and self-esteem. Do not think that somebody is unobtainable because you are not ‘good-looking’ enough, ‘sexy’, or ‘smart’ enough. Even the so-called…
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A marriage is a much stronger commitment. But so can a long-term relationship be too. The separation between the two can be very tenuous or strong, indeed, at times. Just that there are more definitive and concrete steps to getting…
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Online dating sites can be a valuable resource for those seeking dates and relationships of any kind. With the almost-instantaneous speed of the Internet, prospective relationship-seekers can send out their messages, read each other’s profiles, and exchange more information towards…
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Long distance relationships can be extremely hard to maintain. If one is in a long distance relationship, trust is a very important commodity, not just for your spouse-but for you too. Asking your spouse to be faithful means you being…
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There are a number of benefits to an age-appropriate relationship. The first one is that age-equivalent can mean a longer lasting relationship. With shared experiences and a more mature understanding of each other, the relationship has more durability and strength…
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For starters, don’t write in all capitals on your profile, whether it is just one paragraph, a few sentences…or even just a few words. It can seem like you are screaming at prospective partners, who are visiting your dating profile….
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Being rivals for someone’s affection can be very hard. It can be two or more friends vying for the affection of that person…it can be two or more strangers. Whatever the case, it can be very taxing to win that…
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A date today can be done if one is prepared to endure rejection, and very hurtful rejection at times, if the presentation is too hasty and piecemeal. But if you are not in a frenzy to do it, and have…
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Being dumped is an awful feeling, and most people have gone through it in their lives at least once. Some people get very upset: overeat, overdrink, etc. Others retaliate by having affairs with somebody their former partner knows, in a…
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Decades after the 1960’s and seventies that saw an end to organized, institutional racism, we are still left with the vestiges of racism, mostly just from ordinary people, and that does still affect the concept of “interracial dating.” In some…
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It’s not a huge deal. Looks are just transitory anyways. Somebody who dates an individual better looking than themselves is not necessarily motivated by the person’s good and better looks. That may all be coincidental. The man or woman may…
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Any type of a distance is going to be disadvantageous to a relationship. Besides being apart from each other for prolonged periods of time, there is the chance that one or the other partner is going to end up finding…
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Dating a Gemini can have all the feeling of being a very average runner trying to keep pace with a world class runner. But if you can slow them down a tad, you can become immersed in an articulate world…
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October 28, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
The benefits of a restraining order in a divorce are enormous, especially if it was an ugly, vicious divorce with huge negative connotations, such as custody, property disputes, physical, emotional and sexual abuse of spouse or children. Therefore, a restraining order…
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October 13, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Divorces can be as equally devastating on the children, as the spouse’s involved. In a bitter divorce, children, especially minor children can find themselves in the middle of a very bitter and ‘bloody’ fight. Even if the divorce is amicable,…
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October 12, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
This is something that men have been accused of for time immemorial…something that is full of full of stereotypes and terrible connations: men are all savage brutes, liars, cheaters and downright scoundrels. In the equity between the sexes, we must…
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