I’m in my early forties, and I still can’t talk about sex with my parent! Yikes! That’s just a little humor interjected into what is obviously a very serious matter, the rite of passage for teens: sexuality. But there is…
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Things already indicative of a bad relationship: rancor, discord, horribly strained feelings and the such. With the seeds of an existing bad relationship already swirling in the environs, try and make love during hours, days, weeks or months of a…
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It certainly happens…sometimes people throw caution to the wind and get naked. Forgive the crude metaphor. Certainly sex happens on the first date. Emotions and hormones sometimes run high-people are very strongly in the mood and want sex. However, in…
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An ancient saying, no doubt, passed down through the ages. You see most families usually at each other’s throats with countless issues, fighting and sniping against each other for years and years. If blood is thicker than water, it’s not…
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Women like nice guys because nice guys are far less inclined to be abusive, less likely to cheat, more loving and compassionate to their mates, etc. The old saying “nice guys finish last..” is less applicable in relationships, unless the…
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A big reason for a fear of commitment in men is suddenly losing the freedom of being single. One romantic partnership at a time certainly damages that reality for many men entering into a committed relationship. A high percentage of…
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For women, a fear of commitment could come from just having a bad marriage or relationship. Sometimes, deep down there can be deeper issues, like a male role model in their lives, such as a father, uncle, older or younger…
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Certainly, love can grow cold…It can start like an inferno, and end in cold, soggy ashes. The reasons for this are many, but some of the main reasons are too much separation, too much time apart from each other. Sometimes…
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Conversation, language and what we say to each other, can carry a huge impact, especially in a first date situation. Choose your words oh so carefully, for you may not get a second chance. But before you proceed to what…
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It helps to show love and affection. When you are walking with your partner, hold their hand once in awhile. Be attentive and supportive to your spouse or significant other. Hug them and kiss them in public once in awhile. …
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May 27, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
There are a number of ways to get revenge. One could wait until things have settled down somewhat and suddenly announce that he/she slept with their friend, male/female relative or co-worker. They might snicker and chortle at that, thinking you…
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The first date is absolutely pivotal in setting the stage for the rest of the relationship. For starters, it defines whether there will be a relationship in the first place. Since the prospective partners usually know little or nothing about…
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It is a moral outrage to see emaciated women paraded onto the runways like walking skeletons. This has led to generations of women suffering from a myriad of eating disorders because they fear no man will want them unless they…
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For starters, the terminology “half-sibling” is awful and really belongs to the era when African-Americans were “colored”, and women were good for one thing and one thing only. Half-sibling kind of reminds me of “retarded” and those other terrible phrases…
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I have nothing against mature women dating younger men. They are young, handsome, virile, and due to emotional immaturity and lack of experience, they are obsessed with sex, and more easily led by an older woman, who may be reaching…
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May 14, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
The majority of adults may be transparent in many other ways, but when it comes to human sexuality, a wall of impenetrable, unrevealable silence cloaks most people. Beastiality, cross-dressing, homosexuality, bisexuality, child-sex, incest, sexual predators…and even plain old masturbation remain…
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Try and avoid clique, overused and exhausted lines, stretching back beyond from when men wore their shirts mostly unbuttoned, with various gold and/or silver chains and fertility medallions attached to them. For starters, you should never go into a prospective…
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To get a date to recognize your best qualities also means not overinflating yourself and your attributes/qualities, whether they are great or not. Be yourself. Even if you are great and fantastic-looking, with all of the great qualities inbetween, show…
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Don’t come on very strong or aggressive with people – be they male or female. Coming on really strong with people is an awful turn-off, and actually gets people to dislike you even more.. That can mean anything from having a smart…
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A bad breakup can leave one emotionally, spiritually and financially exhausted. Unfortunately, in our society, irregardless of race, culture or religion, bad breakups happen and will continue to happen at a voracious rate. Usually, the ‘war’ that goes along with…
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A dead giveaway of somebody lying to you is always body language. Somebody who lies usually cannot make eye contact with you, out of guilt and stresses associated with guilt. Eye contact is an important sign of somebody lying, unless…
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April 19, 2015 Style and Beauty - Other
Be you man or woman, the first easy step to changing your look is changing what you wear. Many people either dress way too casually, too formally-with the wrong colors and accessories. Ultimately, clothes reflect on the person and can…
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Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, low staminia, and a host of other problems can haunt any sexually-active male from 18, onwards. Sometimes even the fear of failure can be enough to cause these problems. The thing to do is to relax…
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April 10, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
What used to be euphemistically and sometimes derogatorially referred to as “mixed-marriages” are now fairly commonplace. Old racist beliefs, racial stereotypings and profilings are now far less commonplace in a far more enlightened and evolved society. As each subsequent generation…
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The study is very discriminatory…it’s like saying people with higher IQ’s are superior, people with lower IQ’s are inferior. This sounds like the same type of studies that said blacks had inferior IQ’s to whites and Asians. It’s like saying…
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If you are not living together, a huge sign would be a lack of response: no returned phone calls or emails. Your partner not always talking or responding to you, even if you are together. Sometimes couples may not exchange…
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Facial features can say a lot about a person, sometimes even speaking in intense and profound volumes. Somebody with very soft looking eyes could be viewed in a more sympathetic, endearing light, while somebody with harsher-looking eyes could be viewed…
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One should carefully think through the prospect of cheating before doing it. The consequences are going to be so catastrophic and life-changing that the partner who may be cheating could find themselves in an unkind and awful life. Being with…
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I think the biggest mistake one can make, while in a current relationship with somebody else, to tell the one they’re with about their past affairs. It certainly is not going to help a current relationship by reminding your current…
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Losing somebody after a breakup can be very devastating-even if you initiated the breakup. If you were the one who decided to move on to some allegorical ‘greener pastures’ with a different mate, one may find that the next relationship…
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