Narcissist
BEWARE OF NARCISSISTS Narcissists are often predators. They will go on line and tell you everything you want to hear in order to seduce you. Then once you are hooked you may have a hard time getting out. Understand this…
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Author Archive: Susan Peabody
How to Find True Love
Creating a relationship is like baking a cake. You must have the right ingredients, in the right amount (not too much and not too little) and you must put them together in the right order. The ingredients of a healthy…
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Romance
The ingredients of a healthy relationship are as follows: 1. Honesty that engenders trust. 2. Readiness for a relationship (both partners). 3. The willingness to negotiate or compromise. 4. Self-awareness this means both partners knowing who they are and what…
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How Addiction to Love can be Unhealthy
Since the 1980’s, not much has changed in the world of love addiction except how we look at it. Back in 1989, what we knew about this disorder was still emerging from our understanding of codependency. Therefore, to many of…
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Fear
August 12, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Unlike women, whose primary caretaker is of the same gender, men have to deal with complicated emotions for their mother. Men have a three-fold relationship with their mother-love, hate, fear. If they are successfully launched (separated) by their mother and…
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Unavailable Man
Many women find they have a history of falling in love with an unavailable man and they wonder why this keeps happening over and over again. The following is a list of the most common reasons women keep falling into…
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Domestic Violence
Most men and women who are abused are also love addicts. They must deal with this underlying disorder if they are to avoid finding themselves in one abusive relationship after another. Below are the most common reasons love addicts end…
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Why do People Judge Gays and Lesbians
In light of Christ’s plea for to us to love one another I wonder why people judge gays and lesbians. Here are my thoughts about Radical Love Mark 12:28. Which is the first commandment of all? Jesus answered him, “The…
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Love Addiction and Love Av Oidance
October 24, 2013 Relationships and Family - Other
When it comes to toxic love and relationships, there are two kinds of people, those who love too much (the Love Addict), and those who love too little, (the Love Avoidant). If you vacillate between the two you are an…
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