It is quite popular today for couples to “test drive” marriage by living together before getting married, but my advice is that living together to see if you are compatible before marrying is leaving yourself open to being conned. It…
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It is very difficult to know for sure but women are very intuitive and often they know a lot more than they are willing to admit. May be it is not that he is cheating but something has changed, something…
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Many marriages break because people grow apart, and in marriage there is a strong struggle to grow together. If you started a relationship faking who you are, (and that is just what today’s dating scene encourages) you are just adding…
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“What am I doing wrong?” “What am I not doing that they did?” They ask themselves over and over. And they will find no end of people to tell them that they are doing lots of things wrong when really…
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The lost art of writing diaries.May be if we encouraged children from a young age to write a diary or draw a picture about what happened, it might help us put things into perspective and re-access our reaction and improve…
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Jealousy is feeling that you are lacking, or that something important that you need or desire is not being supplied to you. If you have a healthy sense of self-worth jealousy will not flourish in your life. We must learn…
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I found a natural feminine look by allowing my hair texture to be the template for my “look”, rather than beating my hair texture into the “look” I wanted to have. I am an African woman, brought up in Europe….
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February 22, 2015 Skin and Body
Body fragrances are as old as mankind. The use of resins, essential oils, incense was known in many cultures and civilizations to heal the sick, in burials, in the worship of deities, to express love, in the crowning of sovereigns,…
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Some people are very giving, very sacrificial in their “yes” to others but if your do not have the personal resources to recuperate and feed yourself after each sacrifice you will burn out, extinguish your energy, vision, hopesand have nothing…
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August 10, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
Decision + Passion = True love Love is a DECISION to take an interest in someone, care for them, and make them happy – that requires willingness and determination. AND love is not being able to HELP taking an interest…
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December 25, 2013 Communication
Be fair. They are in many ways what you are. They have your genes and what you have taught them. Yes, you do not want them to make the same mistakes as you, the ones that alarm you or make…
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