“The Book of Love is long and boring.” – Magnetic Fields It can be very difficult telling the difference between love and lust. Unfortunately, our current language is inadequate to express all of the definitions for the English word “love”….
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If you leave the planning of a great date to the guy, you will be sadly disappointed. He could be too nervous or too busy to plan it himself. If you want to be sure of a great date, gals,…
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Love is never enough. Love is never enough for survival. Love is never enough for happiness. Love is never enough for health. Love is never enough even to get someone to stop beating the crap out of you. Love is…
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Women do not want sex as much as men do. This is because men are instinctively pre-programmed to spread their genes around as much as possible in order to pass them down to the next generation. Women have to be…
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October 23, 2015 Crisis Support
After you escape your abuser, it may seem like you are not any better off. Not only do you feel humiliated for having been abused for so long, but you’re terrified of having the same experience happen again. You also…
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Forget about finding another human being who loves you as much as any of the animals in your life. Human beings are not capable of the true, steady love that only a pet can provide. You’ll be a lot happier…
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Love for another person – whether a romantic partner, friend or family member – can certainly stop when survival is at stake. Humans are social creatures. Part of the emotion that we call love came about partially as a survival…
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“Have some self respect. Stay home and masturbate.” – Bill Hicks Despite what some fanatical religious groups would have you believe, all abstaining from sex means is that you choose not to have sex for a particular period of time….
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August 30, 2015 Friends and Peers
Stop and think before you make a promise. Try and realize just what you are getting yourself in for. It is much better to say, “I’m not sure I can do this,” than make a promise that you cannot fulfill….
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Men fall asleep after sex because they’re tired. If they’ve managed to achieve orgasm, then their body has been put into a state of bliss and relaxation. It only follows that if a body is relaxed enough, it will fall…
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The best way to cope with the anniversaries of tragic losses is to ignore them and get on with your life. I am perfectly aware of how cold that sounds, but I (sadly) speak from experience. I have been through…
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Hair loss or alopecia can happen to both men and women. There are many different causes of baldness, including stress. Stress can be defined as a chronic illness like cancer, suddenly needing surgery or a traumatic change in life such…
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It is both incredibly simple and incredibly hard to tell if someone hates you. If you are lying on the ground with any amount of blood coming out of you because of a direct action from another, you can be…
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Never accept a gift from someone that has abused you, whether man or woman. That gift can and most often will be used against you at a future date. Giving a gift is an expression of power to an abuser….
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Getting tattooed is painful and expensive event. However, millions of people per year willingly volunteer to go through this experience more than once. Some even get hundreds of tattoos, even if it means being ostracised by conservative society. The world’s…
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Romeo and Juliet. Tristan and Isolde. Sid and Nancy. These are considered some of the greatest love stories in the history of the human race, partially because they were obsessed with each other and just couldn’t live without the other….
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If you are a man, then having fewer sexual partners will make you less proficient in bed. If you are a woman, having fewer sexual partners doesn’t make any difference. The only expectation you have to fulfill is to be…
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January 26, 2015 Crisis Support
Both men and women can be victims of domestic abuse. Battering happens in all nations, cultures and economic classes. If you are past the age of 21 (or whatever the age of becoming a legal adult is for your country)…
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January 25, 2015 Crisis Support
Women in abusive relationships become very good at hiding all physical symptoms of their beatings. They become excellent with makeup, long-sleeved clothing or styling their hair to hide any bruises which may draw attention. The last thing these women want is…
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I have been on both sides on the relationship coin. I have been in committed relationships and I have been single. Although being in a relationship does have it’s advantages and is smiled upon by society in general, a woman…
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November 9, 2014 Crisis Support
Lack of money is a main reason why many women in abusive relationships do not simply get up and leave. The woman does not have money, will not have a home if she leaves home and may not have a…
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August 24, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
When in doubt, divorce! Of course, it would be more prudent to never get married in the first place, but that’s not a realistic option for most people. Some cultures require that their people get married. Marriage brings not only…
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News flash: you can still feel lonely even when surrounded by hundreds of people. You can still feel lonely lying in bed next to your lover. The common misconception is that if you are alone, then you must be lonely or…
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March 25, 2014 Friends and Peers
Many women have problems making genuine friends. Many men have difficulties, too, depending upon their past histories. However, women are at a distinct disadvantage in being physically weaker than men. This is a generalization as obviously there are some women…
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March 25, 2014 Friends and Peers
A best friend is always there for you. A best friend does not judge you or criticize you for being fat, poor or having the “wrong” job. A best friend will let you cry as long as you need to…
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The maxim, “if it’s too good to be true, it is” applies to relationships. Con artists not only want to go to bed with you, but they also want to know your deepest, darkest secrets, want to be your best…
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February 17, 2014 Communication
Humans have always been fascinated with flowers. Their graceful beauty sprouting from the dirt and their brevity of life seem to be the perfect symbol of life itself. Over the millennia, certain flowers have become archetypes for certain nations, religions…
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February 15, 2014 Communication
The best way to handle an aggressive drunk is to phone the police. Aggressive drunks cannot be reasoned with because they have a genetic fault which makes them aggressive after consuming alcohol. Drunks also are very relaxed and do not…
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You will know that you are in love when there is a certain amount of nausea involved. If not nausea, then diarrhea. Love, for some reason, plays havoc with the entire digestive system. If you have to run to the…
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You cannot physically keep the one you love with you forever, even if that is clearly what is best for them. If you truly love them, you will let them live the life they choose to live and love whoever…
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