Author Archive: R.E. Hay

Love failure is the pit feeling you have in your stomach when you know it is over. You have done all you could and you have gave all you had, but it still wasn’t good enough. In the end, it…
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Maybe it is because he has seen you at your best but loved you at your worst. Maybe it is the way he holds your waist at the exact same time each night after six years. Maybe it is the…
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You wake up next to the same person for several years. You get out of bed and begin your day. You go to work and do most of what they ask you to do. You come home and you see…
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“How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.”-Elizabeth Barrett BrowningA great love can not be measured. It is a constant state of being and growing. A person knows their great love by not counting the ways, but realizing…
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Independence is a sole factor outside of marriage. If this title is suggesting that because women have their own money, power, and goals then they do not deserve love; it is just wrong. Everyone needs love. Just because women can…
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There are no real mistakes women can make in bed. There are only lessons to be learned. In the beginning you were told “go to school.” Why? So you can get an education, then hopefully get into a great college,…
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The cognitive beginning of a relationship always seems to be the absolute state derived from the precise definition of perfection. All the madness from being swept away in one single word, love. You meet this new and exciting person. You…
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The attachment has ended and you are left with half of a person. The word “forever” has a definite time period, and the truth is that time is now. Time does not consider you have planned a wedding and named…
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Sometimes it is easier to please others then it is to please ourselves. We can be the perfect son/daughter. We can conform into straight A students. We can be everything to the world, but this will not make you a…
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Romance can define the boundaries of a relationship. It speaks volumes on what that special lady in your life actually means to you. Listen up gentlemen, because your ladies may be starving for romantic attention. First, let’s explore the importance…
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You have known him for seven years. Every night he curls up to you and spoons your naked body while you drift into the vulnerable state of dream land. Every work morning you are always awakened by the smell of…
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