Author Archive: Paul Manalo
Paul Manalo
November 4, 2015
Communication
There is a huge difference between how we communicate in person and in text messages. Below are some of the most simple mistakes every couple should avoid when using a text message or even an IM. Wrong Spelling and Uber…
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Paul Manalo
November 1, 2015
Friends and Peers
It was said that you cannot be hurt by someone you don’t care. This also implies that you will be hurt the most by someone you love and care the most. Who can be him? A friend. The feeling of…
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Paul Manalo
October 30, 2015
Communication
If you find yourself in the wrong comfort room or if you find yourself to the police station to blotter your lost child (who gone for a vacation with his classmates, he asked you, you just forgot it), what will…
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Paul Manalo
October 19, 2015
Dating
My professor in college once told a very clever quote in regards to age. The aged yet elegant teacher of mine in Communication humorously told to us, “Age is a question of mind and matter, if you don’t mind, it…
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Paul Manalo
October 7, 2015
Communication
For some people especially for the dominants and intellectuals who are not used to in lowering their selves have a very tough time in apologizing. This is sad because we had seen numerous relationships that suffered because of the lack…
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Paul Manalo
August 22, 2015
Dating
As a self confessed Mr. Not Nice guy, I know the ins and outs of what attracts a woman. Honestly, I still doubt if I am to reveal here what is inside the mind of a ‘not nice guy.’ I…
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Paul Manalo
July 23, 2015
Communication
Real Social Dynamics (RSD) Blueprint Decoded: Four Day Total Immersion Advance Identity Level Change, 2008, Seminar (Video, Audio) There is no doubt that this is one of most influential program that I had ever encountered. Though this is not primarily…
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Paul Manalo
July 13, 2015
Dating
When couples break up, they often wonder what went wrong. Questions like ‘what did I do wrong’ or ‘what did he do wrong’ often come up. Oftentimes, both parties point out on things that another person did or said. However,…
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Paul Manalo
June 30, 2015
Dating
If I were to ask you a question, what is the opposite of Love, what would you say? Is it HATE? No. I am sorry but you are wrong. Hate is not the opposite Love. Then if it is not…
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Paul Manalo
June 27, 2015
Dating
So you want a date? Good. You are a bit tired of lonely weekends and you are feeling a little bit of jealousy when you are dining with your friends and it seems that all of them are telling stories about…
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Paul Manalo
June 21, 2015
Dating
How will you really know if a car will take a turn? Is it if its tail light starts blinking or when the driver puts out his hand signaling you? Neither. The answer is this. You will know if the…
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Paul Manalo
June 20, 2015
Dating
So you want to go out tonight in the pub or you are thinking to go to the mall to meet some women. However, there is a debate in your head how you will manage to pull the trick, you…
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Paul Manalo
June 14, 2015
Dating
So you want to better with women ah. Maybe you need it to get a girlfriend or you need it to understand your partner better. It does not matter how and where you will use it. Knowledge and skills with…
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Paul Manalo
June 6, 2015
Dating
Seduction is a skill. In some places, there are people who are referred as pick up artists or social dynamics experts. The existence and thrive of these group of men prove one point, Seduction can be taught. Staying in those…
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Paul Manalo
May 28, 2015
Dating
Is real love possible in a May-December affair? Most people would believe that the only reason a younger woman will date an older man is for the sake of money and security. This is the common societal belief. For what…
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Paul Manalo
May 26, 2015
Dating
In case you don’t know what dasting is, let me define you what dasting is. Dasting is dating in a non-continous manner. It is a relationship with a switch, an off and on button. It is like having an on…
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Paul Manalo
May 26, 2015
Dating
We had seen numerous guys who are clueless when it comes to reading signs that says ‘leave me alone’. It almost seems that these guys have their own world wherein they continue to act and do things wherein the woman…
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Paul Manalo
May 5, 2015
Dating
Just like how the horse carriages evolved and developed in to cars, seduction had also undergone revolutionary number of changes. In fact, seduction today is not understood as seduction in the earlier part of the human civilization. We can trace…
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Paul Manalo
April 30, 2015
Dating
So you wonder why many men have this insatiable desire to be with numerous women? You wonder why we men have this attitude of not being contented with our partner? You wonder if we are related with rabbits wherein we…
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Paul Manalo
April 20, 2015
Dating
Dating is linear. Just like everything else, it has a beginning and unfortunately, also an end. In almost all cases, couples experience the same phases of dating, from introduction up to intimacy. With this kind of logic, men can expect…
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Paul Manalo
March 4, 2015
Dating
Harv Eker once said that if you want to be healthy, you study health and if you want to be wealthy, you study wealth. I say that if you want to be good in dating, then study dating. It is…
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Paul Manalo
February 28, 2015
Communication
Lies, no matter how big or small, can hurt the people we lie to. Lying has become very common to people and it could actually be a habit already. I think that almost every person has told a lie at…
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Paul Manalo
February 21, 2015
Dating
Talking with an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend after a break-up is oftentimes difficult to do. Awkwardness is somehow a barrier to communication between them. But, there are also times when modesty and being civil allows communication to ensue between exes. Though…
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Paul Manalo
February 1, 2015
Dating
Do you know what is the easiest, quickest and the most reliable route in to the friend zone? Simple, become Mr. Fix it. It is funny how many guys still use the ‘all knowing mentor’ approach to attract women. Though…
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Paul Manalo
January 21, 2015
Dating
As a person who studied and applied social and female dynamics since high school I believe I have the answer to the age old problem of what do girls want. First of all, I will rephrase the question, ‘what do…
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Paul Manalo
January 1, 2015
Relationships and Family - Other
Karen Pavlicin’s book entitled Life After Deployment: Military families share reunion stories and advice had made a wonderful job in educating its readers with the experiences of having a relative, more particularly a husband or a son that are in…
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Paul Manalo
December 7, 2014
Dating
You wonder why only few smart people can easily close the deal to the opposite sex? You wonder why the not so smart cheerleader is being chased by half of the graduating class? You wonder why your Science Quiz Bee…
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Paul Manalo
November 17, 2014
Dating
A very common question, “Why women love committed or married men?” My answer: PRESELECTION •THE LAW OF CONSERVATION OF ENERGY As a specie, we, humans managed to achieve our current level of technology and innovation through our natural urge to…
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Paul Manalo
September 4, 2014
Communication
Advancement in technology has provided a wide variety of options for social communication. People can now chat while viewing each other live via Skype. People get to see photo albums and stories behind important events through Facebook and other online…
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Paul Manalo
August 29, 2014
Friends and Peers
Most people don’t like to be around with jerks. They are nasty to be with and often hurt the feelings of the people around them. However, in numerous occasions there is a force that pull you to them. We have…
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