Author Archive: Paul Lines
Paul Lines
January 19, 2015
Dating
Ecrush.com is a very busy online dating website, But it has one distinct advantage over many of the others. It really is free. However, the organisers do not pretend that they are not making money from their website, as the…
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Paul Lines
January 2, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
A divorce means that the two spouses are free to go their separate ways and build new lives for themselves, able to find the happiness and love that was missing from or died within the marriage. Or does it? It…
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Paul Lines
January 2, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Love, as with other emotions and feelings, is not something that you can turn on and off like a tap, expecting it to become non-existent in an instant and this is one of the reasons why divorce is so hard….
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Paul Lines
January 2, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
The front door closes as your ex-spouse leaves the house never to return. Suddenly all is quiet and you are facing the prospect of a life of you are as you return to being single again. Whilst this initial impact…
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Paul Lines
December 24, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
In a family environment, where there has been a relationship, which has resulted in the partners no longer living together, the biggest difficulty arises where there are children involved. This is especially true for the partner who is no longer…
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Paul Lines
December 10, 2014
Dating
What is social dating? To many it is an event that has become synonymous with the advent of the many social networking sites that have evolved to provide an interactive alternative to the more impersonal multitude of online dating sites….
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Paul Lines
December 8, 2014
Dating
Speed dating is the art of selecting a potential partner that you would like to get to know better from a few moments of brief chats with a selection of likely individuals. A speed-dating event is usually conducted in a…
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Paul Lines
December 8, 2014
Dating
A relatively new phenomenon in the commercial world of dating is the new “speed dating” experience. No, this does not suggest that you will be trying to find a new love while racing up and down the motorway in your…
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Paul Lines
December 7, 2014
Dating
The organisation of a speed-dating event may look so simple that anyone could do it, but this is not the case. To be successful at running a speed dating event involves a lot more than simply setting out a number…
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Paul Lines
December 7, 2014
Dating
Some would argue that speed dating has revolutionised the traditional process of courting, and many might feel that this is not for the better. However, like all advances in life, speed dating has its good and bad points. Furthermore, it…
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Paul Lines
December 4, 2014
Communication
“Thank goodness for that!” you sigh in relief as the person walks away from you, “I thought they would never go.” And, as they move out of sight you flop down on the nearest chair feeling totally exhausted. We have…
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Paul Lines
November 23, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
At the time of a divorce there is a wide array of emotions being felt. These include anger, hatred, grief, sadness, which can even lead to depression and a deep sense of loss of self-worth, trust, confidence and direction. Is…
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Paul Lines
November 23, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Yes, you may be aware that when considering communicating with an ex-spouse, there may be a great temptation to conduct this with an angry verbal tirade or, possibly, by some physical expression of your feelings. However, this may not be the wisest…
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Paul Lines
November 16, 2014
Family
Sometimes one is forced, through circumstances of health or other issues, to liv in an environment of an extended family. Often this involves bring parents, or relatives to live with the family. This can be very difficult and challenging and…
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Paul Lines
November 16, 2014
Family
You are a child. You come home from school and mummy (or daddy) is there, and you know that daddy (or mummy) won’t be coming home that night. If you are lucky you will see the absent parent at the…
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Paul Lines
November 16, 2014
Family
“Mum, Dad, I’m going to marry and become a Buddhist,” says the child you have raised in the Christian traditions. After the initial shock, you then have to start thinking about how you will cope with this sudden change of…
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Paul Lines
November 14, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Whilst a divorce can be a shattering experiences for you and your children, there may come a time when you want to start dating again. When this happens it is likely that your major concern will be how the children…
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Paul Lines
November 14, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Letting your child be a child after a divorce can seem to be a strange statement to make, as it almost suggests that we can change their age overnight. However, it is an important issue to address following a marriage…
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Paul Lines
November 14, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
When a divorce disrupts a stable family environment, it is not surprising to find that this causes the child a lot of suffering. From the instant that a break-up is announced they will experience a myriad of conflicting emotions. There…
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Paul Lines
November 13, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
It is three o’clock in the morning and you still cannot get to sleep. This is not because you are tired but the fact that the thunderous sound of snoring from your partner is making it impossible for you to…
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Paul Lines
November 7, 2014
Style and Beauty - Other
Which is better, brains or beauty? This is a conundrum that has been with us for generations. To answer the question truthfully, one would have to say that in reality there is not a choice. Both brains and beauty have…
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Paul Lines
November 1, 2014
Dating
“Love hurts!” Remember the song? There is an element of truth in those two words, although there is pleasure in the pain when you are really in love, and this is part of the ways that you can tell it…
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Paul Lines
October 14, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
The moment to start dating again after a divorce is not something that you can answer by looking at a calendar and saying “the hundred days are up you can go out and find a new man or lady now!”…
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Paul Lines
October 14, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
In the heat of the moment and often in the cold light of day, sometimes your mind is set on that divorce being the only solution to the troubled marriage that you are in, and maybe it is. But then…
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Paul Lines
October 14, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
There is one thing that can be virtually guaranteed in most cases following a divorce and this is the fact, certainly at times, that your relationship with your ex will not always be like sailing on a calm blue sea….
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Paul Lines
October 2, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Research has shown that children tend to suffer the most after a divorce, most times, because they were the innocent victims. However, this suffering is not just visited upon the child in an emotional and psychological manner, it also relates…
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Paul Lines
October 2, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Everyone is aware how destructive and emotionally upsetting a divorce can be for the two people involved, but it can have an equal, if not more dramatic, affect upon the child in some cases, and they are going to need you…
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Paul Lines
September 28, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Gifts for your wife and the love of your life are the most wonderful ways to express how much the lady means to you, and to tell her how much you deeply love and care for her. Personally, I think…
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Paul Lines
September 4, 2014
Communication
It is severely off-putting and annoying when anyone moves so close to you when they are talking, whether that person is a friend or otherwise, that you can feel and smell their breath on your face. It is also very…
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Paul Lines
August 29, 2014
Skin and Body
Many people have concerns about contracting diseases or having an allergic reaction to tattoos. Over the past few years there have been a number of researches carried out into this subject. Nevertheless, there is still some divergence of views as…
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