Author Archive: Patrick Sills
Patrick Sills
December 20, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Once we reach that age when we start to think about others in a sexual manner as opposed to just being friends, one of the first things we envision is sleeping with them. Not necessarily having intercourse; but literally sleeping…
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Patrick Sills
December 6, 2014
Clothes
Older guys who try to dress like they’re still in their 20s oftentimes look pretty ridiculous. Young clothes simply aren’t going to hide the crow’s feet, receding hairlines, or that spare tire that was absent when Madonna and Micheal Jackson…
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Patrick Sills
October 25, 2014
Hair
Thinning hair can be an issue for anyone, but it occurs far more frequently in men; particularly if male pattern baldness runs in the family. Fortunately, in this day and age, most men who happen to be losing their top…
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Patrick Sills
October 24, 2014
Communication
If you are prone to take that collection of books known as the Bible literally, read no further. Quite frankly, the passages therein were written centuries ago; at a time when the majority of those who roamed the earth held…
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Patrick Sills
October 24, 2014
Communication
A lie is a lie, or so we’ve seemingly been led to believe. The Holy Bible defines it as “bearing false witness against thy neighbor.” Translated into modern English, this simply means not telling the truth to our fellow human;…
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Patrick Sills
October 20, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
When we hear that someone has committed an act of infidelity, what comes to mind? For most of us, this would be defined as a married person straying away from his or her partner and engaging in sexual relations with…
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Patrick Sills
October 17, 2014
Friends and Peers
It would seem that the overwhelming majority of contributors to this topic of friends becoming lovers focus on situations where two people begin a relationship as friends, eventually fall in love, and get married. This certainly can happen; and undoubtedly…
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Patrick Sills
October 14, 2014
Friends and Peers
A friend is an invaluable asset. As intelligent beings, we all need someone we can confide in. Such individuals are those we can open up to by sharing our innermost feelings and thoughts. In turn, a friend will likewise reciprocate…
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Patrick Sills
October 14, 2014
Friends and Peers
You’ve been friends with a particular person for quite a while. You seem to share common beliefs and love hanging out with each other. The two of you have been described by others as inseparable. Since this is the case,…
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Patrick Sills
September 30, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
We live in a rather complex world, and unfortunately, fairy-tale endings rarely if ever materialize. Thus, priorities sometimes must be set. Neither gender is immune to finding themselves trapped in the figurative confines of an unhappy marriage. Ideally, most marriages…
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Patrick Sills
September 16, 2014
Hair
Several years ago, long hair on men was cool. Understandably, many must have dreaded the thought of joining the ranks of those afflicted with male pattern baldness, especially if older family members started showing more scalp as each year passed….
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Patrick Sills
September 9, 2014
Skin and Body
When you take your shoes or socks off, is there an unpleasant odor that suddenly fills the air? Having smelly feet is embarrassing and won’t win points with others. Since this is a fairly common problem, there are lots of…
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Patrick Sills
September 4, 2014
Communication
Okay, I’ll admit it right up front. I’m a self-proclaimed dinosaur, in many ways. Yet I still must ask: What is the fascination with text-messaging? For that matter, what viable purpose does this relatively new form of communication serve? What…
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Patrick Sills
August 28, 2014
Skin and Body
At this writing, I recently returned from spending a week on Marco Island in southern Florida. It would seem that the constant summer-like temperatures and sunshine in this part of the country would serve as an ideal location to get…
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Patrick Sills
August 27, 2014
Friends and Peers
When you stop to think about it, a question of whether or not those of opposite genders can be “just friends” is rather silly. Of course, men and women can be just friends! With perhaps the exception of male cave…
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Patrick Sills
August 2, 2014
Hair
When it comes to hair-coloring, don’t be fooled into thinking that women are the only ones who indulge. Some men can be just as vain; especially when the hair starts to turn gray. While we’re on the subject of gray…
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Patrick Sills
July 24, 2014
Dating
When asked whether men or women should be responsible for carrying condoms, the first thought that should come to mind is that it takes two to tango. Regardless of our personal moral beliefs or lack thereof, one cannot deny that…
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Patrick Sills
July 24, 2014
Dating
So we have yet another meaningless “study’ that has been conducted that is intended to shake the very foundation of our thinking. This one claims that students with higher IQ’s are supposed to be less sexually active than their more…
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Patrick Sills
July 23, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Many believe that a strong sexual bond is essential to a relationship’s longevity and can’t imagine living with or being married to a partner without it. However, sexless relationships; including marriages, indeed exist, and there are many reasons the fires…
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Patrick Sills
June 27, 2014
Clothes
If you happen to be a male on the north side of forty, chances are that you have acquired a spare tire just above the beltline. You likely didn’t have it in your younger years. Moreover, the increase in belly…
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Patrick Sills
June 15, 2014
Hair
There is no question that today’s society as a whole is rather obsessed with youth. In this period of time, the Average Joe or Josephine on the north side of forty isn’t as old-looking or acting as his or her…
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Patrick Sills
June 13, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Have you ever visited a relative or close friend who happens to be married and discovered that there are twin beds in that master bedroom? Or, perhaps the married couple has two separate bedrooms altogether. Aren’t married couples supposed to…
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Patrick Sills
May 29, 2014
Dating
The truth hurts, but it is what it is. We are a superficial, shallow species, and just as we have been conditioned to detest something such as the odor of a skunk’s defensive spray, we likewise fail to find heavy people…
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Patrick Sills
May 29, 2014
Dating
This is going to sound very superficial and shallow, but it’s nevertheless the truth. Do you readers really want to know what the first and foremost benefit is to dating younger women? They look better! In turn, this makes those…
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Patrick Sills
May 29, 2014
Dating
Interracial dating can be summed up in two simple words: So what? This shouldn’t even be an issue. When a person is interested enough to go out on a date with another individual, the color of his or her skin…
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Patrick Sills
May 19, 2014
LGBT
I happen to be among the majority of those who are of straight sexual orientation. I enjoy looking at beautiful women; especially during the summer months when they are wearing shorts and flip-flops; if any shoes at all. At 50,…
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Patrick Sills
May 10, 2014
Relationships and Family - Other
If moving in with your girlfriend has become a consideration, your relationship has obviously evolved into something serious.That being the case, it is important for guys to realize that there will be several issues to ponder before taking that big step….
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Patrick Sills
May 3, 2014
Hair
Those who are still young will likely answer to the opposite side of this debate. Before the inevitable onset of middle age, most people associate gray hair with being old. Much of today’s society holds an obsession with retaining youth and many…
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Patrick Sills
April 24, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Finding yourself in a sexless marriage isn‘t exactly something that is easy to broadcast. This isn’t considered “normal,” and thus friends or aquaintances may regard you as a freak. However, such settings are not as uncommon as one would think,…
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Patrick Sills
April 5, 2014
Communication
The adult entertainment industry is quite lucrative, and there is a reason for this. Put simply, sex sells; particularly to men. Women also have desires and wish to have fantasies fulfilled, and a portion of adult entertainment is geared toward…
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