August 28, 2014 Friends and Peers
When a good friendship dies, it takes a huge emotional toll on both people involved. It does not matter what caused the estrangement. If the friendship is going to be repaired, someone will have to make the first conciliatory move….
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Band-aids are great for small wounds, but for those big, gaping holes in family hearts, you will need to bring out the heavy gauge sutures. When family ties are allowed to be broken, for whatever reason, there is a piece…
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If you want to spot a toxic person, you have to be on your gurard everyday. Before you start a new friendship, be cautious. Ask questions of the friends you have in common. If they run screaming at the mere…
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You can strengthen any relationship, with an open and honest approach to communication. Keeping your feelings out in the open will prevent a build up of resentment inside. There are timely song lyrics, ‘smile though your heart is breaking’, that…
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July 4, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
The after shocks of divorce can shake the very foundation of your confidence. It does not matter what caused the demise of the marriage, society sees it as a failure. The repercussions of a divorce can have a profound negative…
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July 1, 2014 Relationships and Family - Other
If you have decided to move in with someone, other than a family member, there are important issues that should be addressed, before you actually move in. There is no magic formula that will guarantee your new living arrangement will…
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First dates have the potential to lead to long term romance. Unfortunately, the first date may also be the last date with that special someone. You can up the odds of a second and third date by following some rules…
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May 12, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
“I hate my ex-spouse during the day, and have romantic dreams about him/her when I sleep.” How many times have you heard that statement from one of your friends or family member? It is not as uncommon as you may…
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May 11, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
Survivors of divorce have two choices. They can wallow in self pity, feeling the world is against them, or they can carry on and find new meaning in their life. Regaining self esteem after a divorce is crucial. The healing…
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May 11, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
If your parenting skills were in top form before the separation, there is no need to do anything different. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking you have to be both mother and father to your children. This will only…
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If you want to develop a good relationship with your in-laws, it will take strategy and planning. 1. Be Flexible. Don’t be stubborn and immovable with your spouse’s parents. They will want to spend time with their child (your spouse),…
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The effects of bullying on children, is devastating. My son was tormented for 3 years inside the public school system. I watched him change from an outgoing and loving child, into a fearful and withdrawn child. He lost all his…
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Women think differently than men. In most cases, a woman has to tell her man what she needs and wants. It would be a perfect world if men just instinctively knew the following facts about the woman in their life….
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It is imperative that you accept your embarrassing relative for who they are. You will soon be enjoying their visits to your family gatherings. Love them for their idiosyncrasies, not in spite of them. There are several fun ways to…
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January 28, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
If you want to move forward after your divorce, you will need to take the time to grieve. Divorce is like a death in the family. You will go through all the same grieving steps that a bereaved person does….
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January 26, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
Finding peace after a divorce may require a spring cleaning of your heart and soul. It is hard to let go of treasured memories that remind us of the good times. When a marriage is truly over, both legally and…
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Physical or mental abuse of any age group is wrong. Both young and old, need to feel safe and secure, especially when they are with their own families. Trying to decide at which age it is worse to be abused,…
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A parents reaction to the news their child is gay, is pivotal in the child’s acceptance of their own sexuality. Children seek praise and support from their parents. This dynamic doesn’t change just because a child is homosexual. Parental love…
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December 3, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
For some husbands, menopause can be a very scary word. Hang on to your hat and your heart, because you are in for a thrilling roller-coaster ride of emotional magnitude. Your wife will need to know you love her, even…
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October 27, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
The divorce is over, and you have both started new lives. Everything is going great, until you hear that your ex is dating again. You may think it could never happen, but being human, you will see the green eyed…
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You have just finished drafting your plans. Your child’s bedroom will soon be your new spa and relaxation room. Of course, you will miss them dearly, but that ache in your parental heart will be eased, as you soak in…
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September 22, 2013 Communication
At least once every shift, you will have to put your diplomatic skills to the test. How you deal with rude customers, will determine how long you are employed at your workplace. Customers are the life blood of any business….
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September 22, 2013 Communication
No one wants to spend time with a negative person. Nothing can bring you down quicker than someone who never sees the bright side of anything. If you want to avoid negative people, make sure you aren’t one of them….
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