Author Archive: Pat Merewether
Pat Merewether
October 5, 2015
Friends and Peers
Making friends is a lot easier for some of us than others. When I met one of my best friends, Bridgit, we were in a Master Gardener class together. She was very quiet but something drew me to her, so…
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Pat Merewether
September 22, 2015
Friends and Peers
My best friend once sent me a greeting card that said, “You’re more than a friend” and inside “You’re an accomplice”. This made me laugh out loud because in some ways it was true. Like the time we managed to…
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Pat Merewether
September 18, 2015
Friends and Peers
When I was very young, I played an old record of my Mother’s. On it was a song called “My Buddy”. I’ve never forgotten it and sometimes sing it to my dog (I know that’s weird, but he’s a rescue…
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Pat Merewether
May 25, 2015
Dating
Knowing a bit about first date etiquette may lead to a second date and a life-long relationship, or just a pleasant evening. Treating a person and kindness and respect is important whether you are on a date or anywhere. One…
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Pat Merewether
May 7, 2015
Clothes
Tee shirts have come up in the world over the years and they are available in beautiful colors and even in silk. However, even an expensive silk tee shirt may be inappropriate under certain circumstances, unless maybe you wear a…
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Pat Merewether
May 2, 2015
Dating
Dating while suffering from depression may be very difficult, since a depressed person is not usually interested in even talking with anyone, much less going out (or staying in) to have a good time. The first thing is to figure…
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Pat Merewether
April 26, 2015
Clothes
I’ve purchase designer and name-brand clothes for years for a fraction of the retail cost by shopping in thrift stores. However, all of this ‘money saving’ came at a great cost of time and energy going through racks and racks…
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Pat Merewether
April 23, 2015
Communication
Children go through many stages and phases, and for many there is the ‘shy’ phase. I’ve seen it more in kids that are ages three to six. At home they sing, dance, laugh, and run around like little dervishes. But,…
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Pat Merewether
April 14, 2015
Family
Although we can’t ensure our elderly parent’s safety, anymore than we can ensure anyone’s, we can do a number of things to make them as safe as we possibly can. My Dad is eighty-nine and still lives in his own…
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Pat Merewether
April 3, 2015
Dating
There are many ways a man can be sexy; good looks and a great smile are good for starters, but there are more important qualities to make a guy truly sexy. For me the sexiest thing a guy can possess…
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Pat Merewether
February 7, 2015
Clothes
What do you get when you mix a multi-platinum artist and superstar Nelly with innovative and trendy fashion designers? One heck of a sexy and exciting fashion line called “Apple Bottom”. Nelly calls his line of clothes: “The clothes should…
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Pat Merewether
January 31, 2015
Dating
Asking someone out on a date in a romantic way can be tricky. There is a fine line sometimes between being romantic and being weird, or even scary. If you’re heart’s in the right place and the person at least…
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Pat Merewether
January 14, 2015
Dating
My husband and I have been happily married for several decades. We do actually say, “I love you”, but sometimes showing is better than telling. 1. My husband loves meatloaf, and I’ve made heart-shaped meatloaf (as well as cakes and…
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Pat Merewether
January 12, 2015
Shoes
Shoe repair will save you a lot of money and time, but first you must have shoes that can be repaired. Owning only a few pairs of good shoes, especially for men who wear dress shoes to work, is one…
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Pat Merewether
November 9, 2014
Dating
There are more ways and opportunities to find people to date now than ever before. Unfortunately, there are also more weirdos and scary people out there too. Don’t let that stop you from dating and having fun, just be smart and stay…
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Pat Merewether
October 15, 2014
Friends and Peers
Every teen is nervous about talking to the opposite sex, and probably many adults are as well. Once you realize this you can get past the cool facades,fake indifference or tough exteriors and you may even help someone else come…
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Pat Merewether
July 6, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
After helping several friends through the long, difficult and painful process of divorce, I have a few suggestions when it comes to legality. I’ve you’re considering divorce, seek legal advice before evening mentioning it to your partner. I know this…
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Pat Merewether
June 20, 2014
Family
My Mom died of brain cancer shortly before my parent’s fifty-fifth anniversary. Dad spent nearly every moment with her after her diagnosis right to the morning she passed away. So, how on earth were my sister and I supposed to…
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