Author Archive: Matthew J. Geiger
Matthew J. Geiger
October 1, 2015
Friends and Peers
Friendships are an important part of social networks that help provide support while they give meaning to life. Friendships form over long and short distances between members of communities and families while religion, gender, or ethnicity should not serve as…
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Matthew J. Geiger
September 24, 2015
Dating
Love is the binding force behind our social connections that ensures people cooperate to the benefit of the whole. Because this emotion is so essential to the human condition that our brains react powerfully to these good feelings, love is…
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Matthew J. Geiger
September 24, 2015
Dating
Maintaining a healthy relationship can be quite a challenge for any couple. Unfortunately, even the best partnerships at some point in their histories encounter rocky times. Weaker relationships, however, will need even more work when stressed. While a relationship built…
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Matthew J. Geiger
July 23, 2015
Communication
In an increasingly interconnected global community, communication skills are more important than ever. Like personal relationships, our ability to communicate determines the strength and durability of all our partnerships. The first step in effective communication is listening; however, listening is…
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Matthew J. Geiger
July 14, 2015
Crisis Support
Whether talking about victims of sexual, physical, emotional, or psychological abuse, it can be difficult, if not impossible, to understand people who have been treated so poorly, often by those closest to them. Because abuse takes on so many forms…
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Matthew J. Geiger
July 6, 2015
Dating
When the term soul mate is used to describe a mystical connection between two individuals whose destiny is to meet, soul mates probably do not exist. On the other hand, soul mates do exist if two individuals connect so well…
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Matthew J. Geiger
June 16, 2015
Family
Beyond the traditional nuclear family of parents and children, extended families can include a wide variety of other relatives and friendships. As the concept of family is extremely dynamic, the biological connection is sometimes insignificant. Furthermore, blood relatives can be…
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Matthew J. Geiger
June 12, 2015
Dating
Men with a fear of commitment embody a rather common stereotype that seems to plague far too many relationships. Not only does this phobia deprive a male’s mate of her desire for a stronger connection, it can divide a couple…
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Matthew J. Geiger
June 4, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
A marriage is difficult as it is a relationship that involves two individuals, who have traits that draw them together, though living in close quarters can cause that same closeness to lead to conflicts when one partner fails to fulfill…
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Matthew J. Geiger
April 11, 2015
Family
Siblings exist in a close relationship and their similar backgrounds often leave them with similar views on the world; however, like all close relationships, when a disagreement that cannot be resolved arises, a conflict can quickly intensify. While feuding, the…
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Matthew J. Geiger
April 10, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
The decision for two people to move in together, whether or not they share a bed, can be a serious question as some people are extremely difficult to live with. The problem is compounded when the future of a friendship…
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Matthew J. Geiger
February 27, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Pornography is the graphic depiction of nudity or sexual acts that provide sexual pleasure to viewers; although pornography is technically illegal, artistic expression with a focus on the naked human body and human sexual behavior is perfectly lawful and protected…
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Matthew J. Geiger
February 18, 2015
Communication
Although it is important to resolve conflicts and seek out solutions which satisfy as many people as possible, there are individuals who simply feel life is their way or the highway. Unfortunately, it is not always possible to avoid these…
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Matthew J. Geiger
February 17, 2015
Communication
There are times when people do things that we hold against them for a very long time. To certain individuals, these grudges are simply a way of life and nothing can change these unhealthy relationships based on spite and bitterness….
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Matthew J. Geiger
February 12, 2015
Communication
Everybody experiences stressors in their daily lives that push them to their limits. Venting, like any cathartic expression, can leave an individual feeling relieved of those stressors; however, this process is quite misleading as it, generally, only provides a distraction…
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Matthew J. Geiger
January 7, 2015
LGBT
Marriage is a religious institution that bonds a man and a woman together under the blessing of God in a lifetime commitment to each other. On the other hand, with the surging numbers of divorces and unmarried couples living together,…
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Matthew J. Geiger
December 14, 2014
Crisis Support
Rape is a crime that tests the very limits of social justice; beyond murder, rape not only hurts a family and community, but inflicts suffering onto the victim for the rest her, or his life. From sexual assault to child…
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Matthew J. Geiger
December 9, 2014
Dating
From coworkers to romantic relationships, social bonds help us function in our world while strengthening us as individuals. Healthy relationships depend on our ability to communicate in an effective manner, embrace a varying degree of altruism, and display mutual respect…
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Matthew J. Geiger
December 1, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
More and more, fewer marriages are built on strong relationships while even the closest of couples can drift apart from daily stresses. Unfortunately, some individuals choose to engage in extramarital affairs instead of solidifying their relationships. Although an adulterous partner…
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Matthew J. Geiger
October 4, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
The recent California Supreme Court decision to lift the ban on homosexual marriage has brought further conflict to an already controversial issue. In part, this newfound tension is a result of the fact that the Court has ruled against a…
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Matthew J. Geiger
January 3, 2014
Dating
The concept of love is often difficult to define as the word describes a wide range of emotions and relationships. For some, saying I love you is a challenge, notably for a lot of men, while others throw the phrase…
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Matthew J. Geiger
January 3, 2014
Dating
Falling in love can be very difficult as strong feelings are often plagued by uncertainty and anxiety while circumstances may push a very special person away. Of course, it is even more problematic when someone is in love with two…
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Matthew J. Geiger
September 19, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
In all relationships, especially close ones such as the romantic type, conflicts are certain to arise that will eventually spark fights. Unfortunately, mudslinging during a fight is hurtful while it also creates resentment that strains a relationship and sets the…
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Matthew J. Geiger
July 27, 2013
Crisis Support
People commit suicide for a variety of reason, but the basic trigger behind this self-destructive end is that the prospect of death comes to represent the only release from the pain of existence. In cultures like that of ancient Japan,…
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Matthew J. Geiger
July 20, 2013
Dating
Human beings are naturally social creatures, so relationships with other people are very important to their wellbeing. It also means the ending of an intimate relationship can be especially difficult. Unfortunately, it may be time to start over again when…
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