How to get over Romantic Rejection
Some lucky few of us might find the love of their life first chance, but for most of us this is a long an painful track. Chances of rejection are real and many of us had broken hearts during our…
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Author Archive: Martine Pauwels
Do Soulmates Exist – No
For a long time, I did believe in the existence of soul mates. The only thing this belief has caused me is an array of tragic painful events and the conclusion we should consider things differently. Yes, we may all…
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How to Define Unconditional Love
There is no easy definition for love without condition. Most of us have a romantic view on a match of two people.Unconditional love has nothing to do with this matter. Actually it is this romantic form of true love that…
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The Dangers of Innocent Love Spells
If love spells really worked, people would never end up broken hearted. Eventough you might not really believe much in it, as teenagers some performe some kind of “innocent” ritual for finding or prince charming. This is a game that…
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Henna for Hair Dyeing
I would like to discuss the possibilities of vegetable dyes, especially my favorite one: henna. Henna (Lawsonia inermis) is a plant that colors red. Depending on the kind of henna you can have mahogany, fiery red, auburn of copper. You…
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How to Grow Hair
Many of us love long hair, both men and women. Some might prefer on others’ head, but still long hair fascinates us and inspires us. Think of the story of Rapunzel for example. But growing your hair out is not that…
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Signs of a Gemini Tattoo
Gemini tattoos are tattoos chosen by people born under the sign Gemini in the Zodiac. These are people born between the end of May till the end of June. Some people chose their horoscope as inspiration to get a tattoo…
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Why a Fashion Tattoo
A tattoo should be a personal statement of self-expression and in no condition be a fashion statement. That is why despite the fact there are fashion tattoos it might not be recommendable to Many who saw the popular film “Once…
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How to Define Love at first Sight
The first thing we must consider, when answering this question, is how we define love. If you really mean an all committing, mutual bound of understanding between two people, this might be hard to complete after just a second. But…
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How to Find out if your Date is Playing Mind Games
Mind games are a form of manipulation that are a form of abuse many victims do not understand. Fact is that is does not feel like abuse and many women who date men that like to play mind games, might…
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How to Remain yourself in a Relationship
Like a song title suggest “It’s So Easy To Fall In Love”, it is also so easy to lose yourself in it. Getting lost in love, is not always that clear. Many do not even realize they are losing themselves….
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Reasons you should End a Romantic Relationship
All love affairs start romantic and many might end up in marriages or in deep friendship, but when the chemistry of falling in love has worked out and the person remains, it is time to evaluate. There are several signs…
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How to Live as an Abuse Victim
January 25, 2015 Crisis Support
Few people understand me. I write to share my story, but also to express my feelings for a better understanding for victims of abuse. One thing I do suffer is some kind of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I do get…
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How to Handle Backstabbers
January 21, 2015 Friends and Peers
You can look at backstabbers in several ways. Fact is that there is no general rule in handling them, since we are all different and so are all backstabbers and victims of them. The trouble with backstabbers is that they…
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How Long does an Arranged Marriage last – Arranged
December 24, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
Marriages can be made for several reasons. Love often is involved, but that is only in our Western culture where we have romantic beliefs. In many cultures and even in our past, marriages were arranged. Keep in mind that a…
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Why Men Turn Women Lesbian – Yes
Freud stated we are all bisexual and this makes sense. If we would all be straight straight or gay gay to put it, we might only get along with people of our own or the opposite sex, without communicating with…
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Excuses Abuser use to Blame their Victims
November 26, 2013 Crisis Support
A tragic fact about abuse is that many abusers have been victims of abuse themselves. They usually act out of a frustration they cannot get rid of, or at least not without professional help. Here is the problem: many abusers…
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