SHE + HE = WE: THE FORMULA FOR A LASTING RELATIONSHIP There are many ways couples can approach change in their relationship. Common wisdom has it that enhancing communication between women and men is the best way to rescue a…
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May 28, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Within every couple, each partner has his or her unique strengths and weaknesses. My position is that there does not need to be a boss. Adults, particularly when married, need to have an individual sense of authority and responsibility. When…
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Ideas about what constitutes a strong man are often framed in the negative. Real men, it is thought, are not obedient, needy, effeminate or acquiescent. Men who are perceived to have success in seducing women are seen as masculine and…
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May 14, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
I’ve been a marriage counselor and happily married for nearly thirty years. I suggest a ten point focus for marriage counseling which I’ve derived from both clinical and personal experience. If a counselor incorporates these virtual Ten Commandments of a…
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A traumatic event can make any of us feel shattered, fragmented, and overwhelmed. Some people feel like they’re going crazy or will never get control of the anxiety they are feeling. We all endure a variety of traumas in life…
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