February 11, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
There are few things more dangerous than an insatiable male. The Jessie Davis case in Ohio proved that if men could take what they wanted, they would. A former cop named Bobby Cutts murdered his pregnant and estranged girlfriend after…
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“The only way to be sexy is to feel sexy.” To be sexy and sensual is an attitude not regulated by a woman’s size. As a generation, our women have been programmed to think that being 5’8, 160 pounds is…
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This quote is true on its face and in its meaning. A select few consumers can say that they own a Lexus automobile. Now a Lexus isn’t necessarily better than a shiny Pontiac Oldsmobile. Both cars have engines, doors, steering…
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February 9, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Few traumas are more difficult than a husband discovering his wife’s infidelity. For a man, nothing is more esmasculating than some other man bedding down your spouse. It’s an experience that can soften even the hardest of hearts. Most men believe…
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February 7, 2015 Style and Beauty - Other
Is the world we live in full of pressure or what? How can someone get away from the trials of work and troubles at home? We have that obnoxious, over-bearing, slave driver of a boss! We also have our spouse…
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“Diamonds are a girl’s best friend.” The person who created that quote wasn’t a miner or refugee. They never had to endure the dangers of falling into a mine or black lung disease. They were far away from inhaling poisonous…
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Diamonds are priceless. Some of them are crafted so exquisitely that you beg to find a flaw. Fiancees present their soul mates with these gems in a variety of ways. Diamonds are fished out of birthday cakes. Some get served…
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There are few luxuries better than purchasing a diamond. That exquisite piece of jewelry is perfect at getting attention and envy. Rap stars enjoy wearing diamond-encrusted pendants, watches and pinky rings in efforts at displaying their excessive lifestyle. Hollywood starlets…
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For a single parent, the dating world can be treacherous. Trying to find a mate is difficult for yourself. That difficulty is multiplied when searching for a mate, and a positive, role model for your child. There are amoral people…
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Interpersonal relationships are the most complex form of human contact. When a man and a woman first meet, there are usually “Hellos” and “Goodbyes”. Depending on some situations, the conversations are liable to include: 1) First name introductions (A man…
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Being an Iowa resident, I enjoy living in relative quiet. Yes, we’re void of the hussle and bussle of cities where the “in crowds” reside. There are no Redo Drives, Times Square, Vegas Strips, Bourbon Streets or South Beach. We…
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First dates are exciting when you’re a high schooler attending prom. Some are even exciting when meeting that special one at a college, keg party. You poured a Bud Light in her plastic 16 oz. cup. The foam leveled off…
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Where can a black man find a mate? I’m tired of working hard, living right and being single. However, finding a soul mate is an undertaking. There are dating sites that offer quality women. There are dating sites that offer…
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If “diamonds are a girl’s best friend”, would a fresh pair of shoes be that secret boy toy? Since the Industrial Revolution, shoes have always been the signature accessory to women. From the upper class and to those wanting trying to…
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From its beginnning, hip hop and fashion consumated a profitable marriage. In 1979, the Sugarhill Gang introduced White America to large, hoop chains and loud dress shirts and “big man” turtlenecks. “The Hip-hop, hippity-hop it don’t stop…” The MCs (master…
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January 24, 2015 Skin and Body
When MSN shows pictures of Africans from Somalia, Sudan or the Congo, most look emaciated and starving. In America, we see these pictures. We shudder at the images. We turn our eyes away. We cry and feel pity for those…
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January 24, 2015 Crisis Support
Talking about this, brings me back to a case in Ohio. A young mother named Jessica was murdered by her son’s father. She fell for a smooth-talking cop who ran around with two other women, including one that was married….
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Ever thought what effort went to creating a “perfect gem”? In New York, London, Miami, Los Angeles, Tokyo and other metropolitans worldwide, there are diamond merchants, like DeBeers, Joseph’s and Jacob’s that spend millions on purchasing the perfectly-cut gem stone….
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While “diamonds are a woman’s best friend”, blood diamonds aren’t. As regular diamonds are mined in regions where there’s political and economic stability, blood diamonds aren’t. As regular diamonds are processed and shipped to different retailers, blood diamonds aren’t. Blood…
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In late 2006, Edward Zwick created a controversial movie about smuggling and civil war. It was called “Blood Diamonds”. Scenes centered around a war-torn, African country named Sierra Leone. This movie had all the greed, drama and violence to bring…
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In 1998, U.S. Embassies in Nairobi (Kenya) and Dar Se Laam (Tanzania) exploded in consecutive, terror attacks. Both tragedies played out before distraught and startled Africans. Suicide bombers struck hard and true. They killed over 800 civilians and embassy workers….
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Since 1990, Africa’s recent conflicts received funding from its precious, natural resource. Illegally-mined diamonds and smuggling paid for wars in Angola, Sierra Leone, Cote d’Ivoire (Ivory Coast), Congo and Liberia. Angola endured 30 years of bloodletting. Sierra Leone and Liberia…
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January 15, 2015 Style and Beauty - Other
For women, being admired is an aphrodiasac for the ego. Women have role models they aspire to. With elegance, there are the late Princess Dianas, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassises and Elisabeth Taylor. For classiness, there are the Angela Bassetts, Michelle Obamas…
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January 15, 2015 Style and Beauty - Other
From watching Comedy Central’s “South Park”, I learned the term “metrosexual”. A metrosexual was a man who embraced feminine qualitites. Metrosexual enjoyed doing “female” things, such as shopping, getting facials, manicures and pedicures. They also fancied themselves as being fans…
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All women are deserving of respect. Single mothers are deserving of more respect because of what they’re taking on. When a majority of single men understand that, it would be easier to find compatiable mates. In today’s dating world, moms…
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Your big day is only six months away. The church and reception hall are booked. You have the caterer and an open bar. Invitations got sent out last week. All that’s needed now is THE DRESS. Since the engagement a…
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I love voluptuous women. If I was to choose a size 6 to a size 16, I’ll go the latter. I love curves. My perfect woman would be 5’11, 200 lbs, athletic with an hourglass shape. As a man, I…
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It’s not like a trip to the dentist! (in some cases) Deciding on when to get your hair done is a decision made patience and precision. Women have a much easier time to find someone to “do” their hair. All…
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Many people make the mistake of looking their best only for the job interview. You shouldn’t just look your best when pursuing employment. If you get hired, you must keep a spiffy appearance. If not, the boss eventually notices. Some…
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I’m no fashion guru. My style choice comes down to three things. The clothes must fit. They must be desired. They have to be cheap on the wallet. Three things can make me say “no” to a certain item or…
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