Author Archive: L. Schaffer
L. Schaffer
August 5, 2015
Dating
Listing your interest in roleplaying games only hurts your online dating profile as much as listing your interest in any other hobby. Which is to say, being honest about your interests will attract people who share them and turn away…
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L. Schaffer
July 10, 2015
Dating
The advantage of paid dating sites is that the greater difficulty of posting a profile and finding people seems to weed out a lot of the creeps you find on free dating sites. However, paying for a dating site can…
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L. Schaffer
July 10, 2015
Clothes
Contrary to what the fashion industry would have us think, women come in all different shapes and sizes. As a result, not every piece of clothing will look great on every woman’s body. Good designers of plus-sized fashion should acknowledge…
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L. Schaffer
June 17, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Being able to communicate effectively is the foundation of a healthy relationship. It will help you maintain your relationship, address problems before they become too big to handle, and express your love and affection for one another. Here are three…
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L. Schaffer
May 14, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Couples need space so they can maintain their own hobbies and relationships other than their marriage. This keeps couples happier and well-balanced, and helps prevent them from losing their individuality. Having only one interest can consume us and make us…
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L. Schaffer
April 21, 2015
Skin and Body
Baking soda is an inexpensive and versatile substance, useful not only in baking but all around the house for cleaning, deodorizing, and as a health and beauty aid. The following health and beauty uses for baking soda can help you…
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L. Schaffer
April 4, 2015
Crisis Support
One of the most dangerous things about emotional abuse is that it can be difficult for the victim to detect until it is too late. Abusers are adept at using the “boiling frog” technique, gradually increasing the abuse so that…
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L. Schaffer
December 20, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Breakfast in bed can be a great way to show your spouse love and appreciation, whether for a special occasion like a birthday or Mothers’ Day or just to show them you care. Here are some tips for a wonderful…
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L. Schaffer
January 22, 2014
Crisis Support
Victim blaming is the act of holding a victim responsible for the crime done against her, rather than the perpetrator for his actions. Victims are made to feel that abuse and assault is a natural consequence of being a less-than-perfect…
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L. Schaffer
October 25, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
Whether or not you would divorce your spouse for not giving up smoking is a question that goes beyond the behavior of smoking itself. There are many factors: why your spouse smokes, why you want them to quit, and why…
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L. Schaffer
October 3, 2013
Crisis Support
All victims of abuse and sexual assault face difficulties finding help and support. They often deal with victim blaming, people telling them that the perpetrator’s behavior was their responsibility to control. Male victims of abuse and sexual assault face a…
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