Author Archive: Kat Apf
Kat Apf
November 23, 2015
Family
As parents our job is to raise people who are able to go out into the world and be productive humans. Hopefully, happy ones, too. It’s our job to prepare them for all aspects of life – work, friendship, following…
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Kat Apf
October 24, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
If your spouse is ready to have a child and you aren’t ready, you should tell them exactly how you feel and why. You’ll need to express yourself clearly and calmly and state your case. You’re going to need to…
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Kat Apf
September 11, 2015
Family
All families have traditions and values. Religious families are not the only people who observe traditions and hold firm values. Traditions don’t have to be exclusive to religious traditions. There are many traditions in many families which have nothing to…
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Kat Apf
September 7, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Before you had children, as a couple, you could stay in bed until noon on a Saturday, forget to eat dinner and stay out having fun until all hours of the night. You could actually speak to each other in…
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Kat Apf
August 25, 2015
Communication
Generally, men and woman communicate in a very different manner. And sometimes, talking with your husband can be a maze of miscommunication. Understanding how men think will help determine how to communicate with them effectively. A good thing to remember…
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Kat Apf
August 9, 2015
Friends and Peers
The most important thing to do when you think you’ve been betrayed by a backstabbing friend is to ask them about it. The word confront doesn’t quite work because whatever you’re hearing may not actually be true. Your source may…
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Kat Apf
July 30, 2015
Friends and Peers
Real friendship is a give and take relationship. It’s not one-sided. Both people in the friendship have to be aware of this. So at times, you are the giver and at times, you are the taker. For a friendship to…
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Kat Apf
July 30, 2015
Skin and Body
I bought St. Ives Fresh Skin Olive Cleanser purely because it was on sale at the grocery store and my regular face wash, Noxzema, was out of stock. St. Ives products are usually expensive and I really like the St….
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Kat Apf
July 27, 2015
Family
Ideally, we’ve been taught responsibility, by our parents starting early in life. If we are lucky, we’ve been taught that every action has a consequence and that we need to do what we say we’ll do. If we are extremely…
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Kat Apf
July 24, 2015
Friends and Peers
Losing a best friend is among the top most stressful experiences a person can have. Friends are an important part of life and when you consider someone your best friend and they are no longer part of your life, it…
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Kat Apf
July 22, 2015
Friends and Peers
Drama surrounds girls, without a doubt. There’s a struggle that goes on in a group of young females which can be harsh and ugly. The power often shifts and meanders but the struggle for it is almost always present. This…
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Kat Apf
July 21, 2015
Family
Children need love and protection because the world is so big and they are so new. As parents, it’s our job to protect them because they haven’t learned to protect themselves. All humans need love but children need it more…
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Kat Apf
July 13, 2015
Dating
An important thing to remember when you’re trying to romance an Aries is, they are always looking for that thrill of a new beginning. An Aries will love the feeling of a new relationship so you’ll want to try to…
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Kat Apf
June 25, 2015
Family
Gossip is difficult with friends but it’s ten time worse with siblings. A brother or sister who feels the need to gossip within the family is beyond difficult to deal with. It’s not a pleasant experience no matter who is…
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Kat Apf
June 24, 2015
Family
When you hold your newborn in your arms for the first time, you never imagine it might be hard to love them. You can’t envision this adorable, helpless infant will grow to be a teenager from hell. But it can…
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Kat Apf
June 12, 2015
Dating
We’ve all seen an older man with a young woman and thought, “I can see why he picked her but why did she pick him?” There are many reasons why some younger women are drawn to older men. There are…
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Kat Apf
June 6, 2015
Family
As much as we’d like to cushion all the disappointments in our children’s lives, the sad truth is, we can’t. And the facts are, we wouldn’t want to. What we can do is support our children when they have a…
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Kat Apf
May 23, 2015
Clothes
I work in a grocery store. My shifts start early in the day. The things people choose to wear out of their houses just surprises me and even amazes me at times. I’m not sure why someone would choose to…
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Kat Apf
May 20, 2015
Friends and Peers
Ending a friendship is never an easy choice to make. Obviously, a friend is someone you enjoyed, at least, at first. But sometimes, our first impressions are not always correct and we end up in a position where we need…
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Kat Apf
May 11, 2015
Family
Sharing family responsibilities is a crucial part of having a happy home. The entire family benefits from making sure the everyday tasks are taken care of. If one person is responsible for everything, not only does that person suffer but…
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Kat Apf
April 28, 2015
Shoes
If you grew up on the 60s and 70s, chances are you had a pair of Frye boots or you wanted a pair. All the coolest kids had Frye boots. In New York, we had an affectionate name for them…
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Kat Apf
April 24, 2015
Friends and Peers
Finding and making friends can be difficult in our world today. People lead busy lives. Between work and family responsibilities, it can be hard to find new friends and maintain old friendships. But everyone should have friends and finding local…
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Kat Apf
April 8, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
My father left our house promptly at five-thirty every morning for his thirty minute commute into New York City. He arrived home promptly at four every afternoon. He never had to travel for work. He had weekends off. Cell phones…
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Kat Apf
April 7, 2015
Clothes
Before hitting any stores, the first place to go for a vintage wedding dress is your family. Scouring attics and closets of older relatives will probably produce something vintage. You might be surprised to find a dress that works, even…
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Kat Apf
April 7, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
The best way to make sure “I do” doesn’t turn into “I regret” is to communicate and think clearly before you get married. Sometimes, people are so in love they forget to think. Love is a wonderful thing but keep…
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Kat Apf
March 29, 2015
Friends and Peers
If you’re dealing with a friend who borrowed money from you and then, abandoned you, you might want to remember that old saying, never a borrower or a lender be. It’s absolutely true. Lending money is pretty much a surefire…
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Kat Apf
February 17, 2015
Communication
Dealing with rude telephones callers is fairly easy. There are a number of ways, depending on the nature of the call, to deal with them. How you handle a telemarketer and how you handle an annoying personal call is a…
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Kat Apf
February 8, 2015
Friends and Peers
It’s important to have good friends in your life. We all need the support and happiness a good friend brings to our table. Good friends can enrich our lives and can help smooth out the edges of daily life, which…
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Kat Apf
February 4, 2015
Shoes
If you are looking for way to keep from tracking dirt and grime into the house, the Shoe In is exactly what you need. This is a handy, clever product. It’s one of those products that makes you wonder, why…
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Kat Apf
January 16, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
People tell you things about marriage all the time. You just might be so head-over-heels-in-love, you don’t hear them. Marriage is a huge commitment. You’ve heard that before but until you’re in the thick of it, you have no idea…
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