Author Archive: Karon Brandt
Karon Brandt
November 17, 2015
Crisis Support
Most of us (89% according to this poll) want to make the end-of-life decision for ourselves. Ultimately, the right to die with dignity – without horrible, chronic pain or personal degradation – should come down to the individual. In a…
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Karon Brandt
October 31, 2015
Skin and Body
Does height matter? Is taller, better? Overall, height appears to have advantages. Do taller people earn more money? Height correlates directly with earnings. According to an Australian study, taller people, men especially, earned $1000 more per year, per 2″ height…
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Karon Brandt
October 22, 2015
Crisis Support
Most of us (89% according to this poll) want to make the end-of-life decision for ourselves. Ultimately, the right to die with dignity – without horrible, chronic pain or personal degradation – should come down to the individual. In a…
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Karon Brandt
September 6, 2015
Skin and Body
If the tips of your nails (fingers or toes) lift off the bed, you may have onycholysis. The process may be gradual and painless, but can become painful as time goes on if it becomes chronic or if the condition…
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Karon Brandt
August 26, 2015
Dating
If you are dating someone and the relationship starts to get serious, there are some red flags to watch out for. Let me speak from a female point of view, while acknowledging that flags work both ways. 1) Signs of…
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Karon Brandt
August 11, 2015
Skin and Body
If the tips of your nails (fingers or toes) lift off the bed, you may have onycholysis. The process may be gradual and painless, but can become painful as time goes on if it becomes chronic or if the condition…
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Karon Brandt
June 6, 2015
Family
Are climate changes due to extended family breakdowns? By definition, the extended family includes parents, children and other close relatives that live in close proximity. (American Heritage Dictionary) Climate is the meteorological conditions like temperature, precipitation and wind that characteristically…
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Karon Brandt
May 15, 2015
Skin and Body
I’ve been coping with fingernail fungus for over 30 years, and I think I have found a solution. Let me tell you what didn’t work for me, along with a half dozen “solutions” that other people have tried, which worked…
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Karon Brandt
April 29, 2015
Dating
If you want to grow old together, yes. If the woman is beyond child-bearing years and the man wants a child, age matters. In general, we’ve become more accepting of May-December couples and feel that it’s their business, not ours….
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Karon Brandt
April 27, 2015
Communication
With a B.A. in psychology, the wisdom that comes with age, plus experiencing two marriages over 40 years, I think I have gained some knowledge of men. The old biblical saying is that women should “honor” their husbands and husbands…
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Karon Brandt
April 19, 2015
Dating
If you want to grow old together, yes. If the woman is beyond child-bearing years and the man wants a child, age matters. In general, we’ve become more accepting of May-December couples and feel that it’s their business, not ours….
Read more
Karon Brandt
April 16, 2015
Skin and Body
I’ve been coping with fingernail fungus for over 30 years, and I think I have found a solution. Let me tell you what didn’t work for me, along with a half dozen “solutions” that other people have tried, which worked…
Read more
Karon Brandt
March 24, 2015
Communication
No human on earth is perfect; we all need forgiveness at one time or another. That means we must excuse another for a fault or offense; we must give up our anger or resentment. As we grow into wisdom, we…
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Karon Brandt
March 21, 2015
Communication
With a B.A. in psychology, the wisdom that comes with age, plus experiencing two marriages over 40 years, I think I have gained some knowledge of men. The old biblical saying is that women should “honor” their husbands and husbands…
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Karon Brandt
March 6, 2015
Dating
What a fancy word for “list,” which we all do either consciously or subconsciously. When looking for a partner, a first date, a person to go bowling with, or a spouse, we have inner expectations and bottom lines, whether we…
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Karon Brandt
March 3, 2015
Dating
Love knows no season, but once you “fall in love,” you should experience all four seasons together before marriage. The “one year rule” is from a “seasoned” advice columnist, and it is reasonable. You might meet during a happy holiday…
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Karon Brandt
February 25, 2015
Friends and Peers
Compassion implies the deep awareness of the suffering of another with the desire to alleviate it. Showing sympathy means that one has the capacity to share in the sorrows of another. In human relationships, beyond “acquaintanceships” and “forced” surface relationships…
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Karon Brandt
February 18, 2015
Communication
Nothing is perfect. Any woman who seeks perfection in a relationship or any one person is doomed to failure from the start. You, yourself, are one half of the equation, and you are the half that you have control over….
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Karon Brandt
February 18, 2015
Communication
Jealousy is a relationship killer. Jealousy means you’re afraid of losing affection or your high position in his eyes. It means you really care in the first place, or you wouldn’t experience jealousy. If you’re looking for love, is this…
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Karon Brandt
February 18, 2015
Communication
No human on earth is perfect; we all need forgiveness at one time or another. That means we must excuse another for a fault or offense; we must give up our anger or resentment. As we grow into wisdom, we…
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Karon Brandt
February 17, 2015
Dating
What a fancy word for “list,” which we all do either consciously or subconsciously. When looking for a partner, a first date, a person to go bowling with, or a spouse, we have inner expectations and bottom lines, whether we…
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Karon Brandt
February 15, 2015
Dating
Love knows no season, but once you “fall in love,” you should experience all four seasons together before marriage. The “one year rule” is from a “seasoned” advice columnist, and it is reasonable. You might meet during a happy holiday…
Read more
Karon Brandt
February 8, 2015
Friends and Peers
Compassion implies the deep awareness of the suffering of another with the desire to alleviate it. Showing sympathy means that one has the capacity to share in the sorrows of another. In human relationships, beyond “acquaintanceships” and “forced” surface relationships…
Read more
Karon Brandt
February 5, 2015
Family
What happens when elderly parents become child-like and the parent-child roles become reversed? Could you take care of them as they once took care of you? Should you? Would the decision be a good choice for your situations? What do…
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Karon Brandt
January 8, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
An affair is based on pretense and fantasy: The couple do not have daily problems, children, boring jobs, and financial worries. They are looking at life through rose-colored glasses and the distorted lens of someone “in love.” Affairs are usually…
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Karon Brandt
December 15, 2014
Dating
Assessing standards: Let’s move beyond “the looks” part because the traits most women look for come in all kinds of “packages.” What do women look for in a good man with real husband potential? We aren’t talking about simply having…
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Karon Brandt
November 30, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
An affair is based on pretense and fantasy: The couple do not have daily problems, children, boring jobs, and financial worries. They are looking at life through rose-colored glasses and the distorted lens of someone “in love.” Affairs are usually…
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Karon Brandt
November 6, 2014
Dating
Assessing standards: Let’s move beyond “the looks” part because the traits most women look for come in all kinds of “packages.” What do women look for in a good man with real husband potential? We aren’t talking about simply having…
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Karon Brandt
September 13, 2014
Dating
Are you a little older, but a lot wiser? You know who you are and what you want from life. You’re no newcomer to dating, but you’re stepping out into a different world of partner choices. The second time around…
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Karon Brandt
October 10, 2013
Marriage and Divorce
If a couple has taken marriage vows, it would be respectful to discuss options, but to require consent goes too far. Reasons a woman might want an abortion A woman’s life is at stake in pregnancy. In the U.S., one…
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