April 22, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
This is one of the things you have to do right from the beginning. If it is very important that your husband do chores, then you may even have to ‘select’ who is so inclined. There are men that really…
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April 10, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
If you can find her birth certificate, dating your spouse is not that hard to do. If that not easy, you could look at her childhood photos, many of those have captions and dates. You could go so far as…
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Is there such a thing as Fair? What is Fair? Fair is an ideal, a fantasy, and our own measure of Utopia. Fair is our measure of what is good and attainable. Fair is something we want in our relations….
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January 20, 2015 Communication
Do you know you speak all the time? Even when you are asleep, you mind is occupied with thought. When you wake up in the morning, you are already thinking. Then you begin to speak in another kind, that is your…
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January 18, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Changing your spouses behavior also known as the project or the road to a sure divorce. Changing anyone, or wishing to change assume that you, the one who want to change the other is somehow superior. Only you wouldn’t use…
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Freezing for fashion is a rite of passage. I know because I’ve been there. I’ve had to bite the stiff upper lip as merciless jokes were lobbed my way. “Looking good! Too bad you look like a cold monkey” I…
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I recently asked a friend,” do you dye your hair?” He replied no so I asked him “why aren’t you gray as me?” “I’m grayer than you” he replied and we laughed. I find that to go gray of to…
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September 8, 2014 Communication
Why do people like to assume? That in itself is a presumptive question. People don’t necessarily like to assume, no sooner they like to breath. Assumption is a given to most people. It is just a thing we do. It…
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September 1, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
I’ve personally known two men who have gone by the route of the mail order bride. Both choose their bride from the Philippines. There stories however took two decidedly different turns. One I shall call John and the other Paul…
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August 8, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
I love to tell people what they should do because I can and it is none of my business. Good things comes in bunches. In Quebec, Canada it is illegal for a woman (or a man) to change his or…
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Understanding mother and child: A fathers’ perspective A middle-aged mother once said, “It is difficult thing to be a mother and a father.” She had raised four children, mostly on her own since the death of her husband. She like…
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