There are several things a person should know about another person before moving in with them. One, are they orderly or are they still living like they are in college. You want to know this because this says a lot…
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Forgive me or not but this title is too much fun. “Reasons not to move in together before marriage”. I suppose you might be content to remain your parents child and not risk offending them in case you have to…
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April 21, 2015 Friends and Peers
First of all this is a subject that is tough to deal with. When one party wants to be “just friends” and the other wants a more interpersonal relationship there are several problems. One, different feelings are not a match…
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Speaking as a guy, (and most guys are clueless about being romantic) the most important thing you can cultivate is strong friendships with women who aren’t available. Married or gay women who are your friends are a wealth of information…
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March 21, 2014 Relationships and Family - Other
Put all your important stuff in storage, brace yourself for whatever they bring and drink heavily. No that’s not it at all what was I thinking. Diplomacy is remembering the great words of our founding fathers who said, “I have…
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March 21, 2014 Relationships and Family - Other
Survival, in a relationship is a two person project and moving in together is a field test. A survival guide for moving in together would simply talk about pitfalls. These are things that are perfectly normal and should be anticipated…
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March 20, 2014 Relationships and Family - Other
Finances are the first real test of a union. There isn’t a cut and fast rule but there is the reality of a verbal contract and honesty or the absence of either or both. It is not so important who…
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January 25, 2014 Relationships and Family - Other
Oh to know the magic measure of when to move in together. A lot of people will have a lot to say about this one. It is simply one of those things that all of us go through so all…
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January 25, 2014 Relationships and Family - Other
Marriage is an institution, a social right of passage critical for the financial responsibility of providing for children but of little other value. It is just another reason for the state to tax you. It will tax you to get…
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When will equal rights be applied equally? Why would we even allow any group to have “special rights” this is madness and as far away from equal as we could possibly get. Every time a group be it racial, religious,…
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