Love Relationships
Love and fear can not reside in the same house. When we live in fear we are not open to love and all the beauty it brings. There may be many things we are afraid of when it comes to…
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Author Archive: Jennifer Searle
Love Relationships
One simple answer: Insecurity. Most women have trouble letting go of what every romance novels and movies they have seen, to actually be aggressive. Most women are insecure about the way they look, or just about the person who they…
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Easy French Twist Hair Style
The French Twist hair style is a sophisticated all purpose hair-do that can been taken from the office, to the party, and even to a wedding. There are many variations on the French twist, but the basic French twist has…
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Perfect Ballerina Buns
There are several ways to create the perfect ballerina bun. Some buns are high on the top of the head, others are mid-crown level, and some are even at the nape of the neck, it all depends on the look…
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How to do your own up do
An up-do, aside from a basic ponytail or bun, for most women is an exercise in frustration and aggravation. The desire to make our hair look that those of the rich and famous trotting down the red carpet, or some…
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Tattoo Pain
October 14, 2015 Skin and Body
Dealing with the pain factor of getting a tattoo, for some people, can be a nerve racking experience. Many people will never get a tattoo thinking that the pain involved would be much too unbearable for them to handle. But,…
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How to Rebuild a Troubled Relationship
October 13, 2015 Communication
The way to rebuild a troubled relationship is to recognize why it was troubled in the first place. Most problems in a relationship stem from one or both partners trying to control the other, or one or both have low…
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Should Gays and Lesbians be Allowed Civil Unions but not Marriage – No
Who cares about what the sexual orientation of the couple is? Seriously people, when you think about the real reason we get married, it is to have sex with the same person for the rest of our lives, live with…
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Love Relationships
People assume orgasms are solely a physical creation; however, they are wrong in this assumption. An orgasm can be achieved through both physical and mental stimulation in both genders. Where as intimacy is an emotional feeling of connection between two…
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How to get your Spouse to Admit an Affair
September 20, 2015 Communication
Getting a spouse to admit to an affair will be difficult. You have two options in this case: 1. Hire a private detective to get hard evidence. 2. Confront your spouse with your suspicions. The problem with either of these…
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How to Deal with a Controlling Partner
September 20, 2015 Communication
There are a few simple things to do if you are dealing with a controlling person. The first thing you need to establish is if they are violent. If they have every hit you, your best option would be to…
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Communicating to Establish Relationship Boundaries
September 18, 2015 Communication
Boundaries are an important part of interpersonal relationships. We set boundaries in relationships to establish what behaviors we find acceptable and unacceptable in other people. Each relationship we encounter with family, lovers, and friends will have a different set of…
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Reasons People Oppose Gay Marriage
People oppose the term “Gay Marriage” more than they actually oppose the idea of two gay people living together and raising a family. It is the fear that making something legal will soon make it the norm. This idea terrifies…
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Long Distance Love can it Work – No
You can not maintain a meaningful relationship with a large amount of distance between you. Examples of this are: Two people who at one point were living in the same area, but then one or both moved away: Two people…
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Dating Dilemmas Advice
Innocent flirting has no intention behind it, thus is not cheating. Flirting with the intention of something more falls into the classification of cheating. If flirting randomly happens with let’s say the clerk at the music store, then it is…
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How to tell if your Spouse is Emotionally Abusive
The term emotional abuse is an oxymoron. No one can emotionally abuse you unless you let them. If your partner does things like name calling, belittling, accusing, degrading, or yelling it is a sign that they have poor interpersonal communication…
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How Couples can Avoid Fights
Avoiding an argument is definitely not the best way to operate in a relationship. Fighting however, should be avoided at all costs. Nothing ever constitutes having a full out fight. Here are some tips to avoid making a disagreement turn…
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Do Nice Guys really Finish last – Yes
This totally depends on what kind of “nice guy” you are talking about. If the guy in question is a genuinely nice person, then no, he doesn’t finish last, he comes out on top. But if we are talking about…
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Mr Nice Guy when he is too Nice
The problem isn’t so much with the nice part; it is with the “too” part. The “too” part is where it goes from great to phony. I hate to stereotype guys into one classification or another, but there is definitely…
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Friendship Issues Advice
July 18, 2015 Friends and Peers
Is there a difference between the two? There is no simple answer for this question. If you are a woman and are married, you know there is a difference in the relationships you have with your female friends and your…
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Friendship Issues Advice
July 18, 2015 Friends and Peers
The quality of the friendship depends solely on the qualities of the friend. We often think about the qualities we would look for in a lover, but how often do we think of qualities that make up a good friend?…
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Tips for Buying Artisan or Handcrafted Jewelry
Handcrafted artisan jewelry, in general, is always going to be better than mass produced fashion jewelry, or even retail jewelry store jewelry. There is such a wide range of jewelry artisans out there, who make simple low cost beaded necklaces,…
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Is Communication Disrupted by Stereotyping
Stereotyping is a common communication practice in many everyday conversations. We use stereotypes to make broad sweeping statements about an entire group of people usually to prove our point in a conversation. This practice can cause the speaker using the…
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You your Spouse and World of Warcraft a Semi Healthy Relationship
June 15, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Unlike the others who have written to this title, I am in a not-so-healthy relationship with the World of Warcraft. In fact, I down right hate the computer. My laptop is unable to run computer games, and even if it…
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Understanding the Female Mind
“The female mind, a mysterious place . . . dark . . . secretive . . . full of strange ideas, and it doesn’t seem to use logic in any classical sense.” This is often the thought most men have…
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At Home Hair Coloring Made Easy
Hair coloring at home can be either a scary process or an enjoyable one, depending on if you take the proper steps to ensure the hair coloring outcome is the one that you want. The following tips will help those…
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Nagging and why it is Ineffective
The definition of nagging and to nag means to repeatedly find fault, complain, and constantly annoy another person. Before the term nag became popular, people who behaved this way were called shrews. These words conjure images of shrill voiced women…
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Should the Man or the Woman Pay
Feminism has taught women that they can do anything, even become president of the United States, but for some reason paying for a date is still taboo. This is because of the unspoken rules of dating; one of them is…
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Self Piercing Advice
I have done a few at home piercings and have gauged several people’s ears (including my own.) However, ears are the only thing I would recommend piercing at home and even then ears can bleed quite a bit. If the…
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Best Family Vacations for Teens
While vacationing can be fun, it can be stressful when trying to decide what type of vacation will appeal to everyone in your family. If you have teenagers Disney World once again might not be an option. Why not try…
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