September 17, 2015 Communication
Have you ever sat there in your bedroom or living room and pondered the age old questions, “Is the truth really pure but simple?” “is there such a thing as love at first sight?” And “What is the meaning of…
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Throughout life, we women would come across men who we doted as knights in shining armor. Many of these people (including me) have put these suspect specimens on a pedestal, some times too soon. Climbing the pedestal high as they…
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The good men are not gone. They are hiding where you seldom think you will see them. They are not the ones to conform to popularity or determined to fit in with the crowd (in which they might have tried…
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The signs that your boyfriend (or ex) has a faulty specification of a borderline personality disorder is summed up in one word: Loser. A.K.A. “A has-been, a big front and a pretender”. The loser is diagnosed as the typical common…
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When is being friends with an ex EVER an option? In my case, never. However, it would depend on how the bulk of the relationship was affected-communication, intimacy, trust, love, or faithfulness. The reason I say it is impossible relates…
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April 10, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Fast forward to the engagement. Your mate wants you two to move in together, just to see how it works out in the marriage. He or she discusses what benefits it may bring as far as a marital arrangement. You,…
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April 8, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
It’s a good thing when a man loves his mother, but this is where the term “mama’s boy” can go way, way too far. Trust me on this. I recently read an article in the March 2008 issue of Essence…
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It gets my goat when any relative or friend tells me that they want to introduce me to someone who I haven’t met yet (or do not have the gumption of meeting). Sometimes, hopes may be up, thinking that this…
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December 15, 2014 Crisis Support
As I sit on the couch of the living room, next to me is my mother. We are both gazing at the television set, watching her favorite show, Walker, Texas Ranger. The scenes are racing through my very eyes, while…
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Women who are victims of sexual, emotional, mental, verbal, spiritual, or any type of abuse known from their men usually hang in that relationship or marriage, thinking that things will get better. What’s worse, some victims view their perceptions on…
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