Author Archive: Jane Allyson
Jane Allyson
November 22, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Coming to terms with the fact that your partner has a cheating heart takes guts and determination. Your heart is broken and your trust has been abused in a terrible way. Not only do you have to face the fact…
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Jane Allyson
November 19, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
When people enter into that happy state of marriage, they have a set of idealistic expectations that to an older and much wiser hand may think slightly naive. People carry all kinds of emotional baggage that they unknowingly take with…
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Jane Allyson
November 2, 2015
Skin and Body
Most of us take our feet for granted and don’t really notice them until we get dressed up and slip those beautiful shoes on. Suddenly we cast a critical eye over our “plates of meat” and realize that we are…
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Jane Allyson
October 21, 2015
Dating
No one really wants to face the fact that their girlfriend or boyfriend may be cheating on them, and even if our instincts are screaming out to us that something doesn’t feel right about a situation, many of us would…
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Jane Allyson
October 20, 2015
Dating
When your relationship has finished you are going to need a period of time to become emotionally stable again, and the last thing on your mind will be what to consider before dating again. Losing a partner, whether it is…
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Jane Allyson
October 20, 2015
Dating
A first date is in a league of its own isn’t it? You will be desperate for the date to go really well, and worry like mad about how to behave and making the best possible impression. This special person…
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Jane Allyson
October 13, 2015
Communication
It will come as a bit of a shock to find that your partner may be having an affair. Stay calm and don’t overreact about things. You may be mistaken so look at things really objectively. It may just save…
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Jane Allyson
October 13, 2015
Communication
I think you will never know anyone well enough unless you have had the chance to spend a good amount of time with them. Knowing your partner well enough means that you will properly know, or anticipate what is going…
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Jane Allyson
October 10, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Chatting online without the consent or knowledge of your partner is considered cheating. If he/she doesn’t know that you are talking to other people online and you are talking to someone on a one to one basis then you are…
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Jane Allyson
September 28, 2015
Friends and Peers
Our friends are very dear to us. They share our good times and help us get through the bad times. A friend is a person who you love and trust. They accept you for the person you are and you…
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Jane Allyson
September 27, 2015
Friends and Peers
Friendship is a state that arises from the attachment of two people that is built on mutual esteem, trust, good will, and in special cases – love. Where would we be without our friends? They support us in times of…
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Jane Allyson
September 23, 2015
Friends and Peers
People cultivate many different types of friendships during their lifetime, and each person will have their own way of interacting with that special person in their life but how do you keep your friendship on an even keel? However deep…
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Jane Allyson
September 22, 2015
Friends and Peers
How do you put your friendships to the test? Simple. You soon find out who your real friends are when you find yourself afloat in a sea of misery without a paddle. When you at most at need and you…
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Jane Allyson
September 19, 2015
Communication
Catch phrases are often used as a type of affectionate or gentle put down. They come in useful to describe someone that you want to mention in a derogatory way, but at the same time you don’t wish to appear…
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Jane Allyson
September 18, 2015
Friends and Peers
For some people, making friends can be a real ordeal. If you have a naturally outgoing personality and a readiness to chat, then you are going to gain a lot of interest from other people. This type of person can…
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Jane Allyson
September 18, 2015
Friends and Peers
The ingredients for a healthy friendship should consist of all natural and home produced elements that can be produced in ready abundance. The base component is trust. Where would you be if you couldn’t trust your friend? A good friendship…
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Jane Allyson
September 17, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
I have never had the awful job of telling a friend that her husband is cheating, but I have had a dear friend tell ME that mine was. Luckily my friend is a kind and understanding soul who already knew…
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Jane Allyson
September 16, 2015
LGBT
Your sexuality is a very personal thing and if you are over the age of puberty and having to ask the question of whether you are gay or not then you are halfway to knowing the answer anyway. The point that…
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Jane Allyson
September 13, 2015
Communication
The art of conversation is fast becoming a skill that has become undermined by the advent of text messaging, emails and social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter. By nature we have become couch conversationalists and when we get…
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Jane Allyson
September 9, 2015
Friends and Peers
Feeling a bit down every so often, can affect anyone and although you may feel that some problems are just not worth worrying about, to your friend, they may be overwhelming and difficult to cope with. If your friend has…
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Jane Allyson
September 1, 2015
Dating
In this modern age, the older generation consider themselves unburdened from the constraints of a young family. Seniors are ready to seek out new experiences in life that can help to bring back a little bit of sparkle to their life. …
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Jane Allyson
August 25, 2015
Dating
First time dates are always a nerve wracking experience. Even if you have both appeared to have thoroughly enjoyed yourselves, and made promises to get in touch, you are left on tenterhooks, wondering how it REALLY had gone and wondering…
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Jane Allyson
August 19, 2015
Friends and Peers
It is debatable whether men and women can be “just friends” In many cases a platonic friendship is only platonic because one person says it is. You invariably find that the other person is always hoping that something special may develop at a…
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Jane Allyson
August 19, 2015
Friends and Peers
The gift of friendship is one of the most special things that we can give to someone. We often need the support of our friends to help us through the darker periods of our life, and being able to support…
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Jane Allyson
August 14, 2015
Dating
Speaking as a person who has been at the receiving end of being cheated on by a husband obsessed with the world wide web I can quite categorically declare that from a personal viewpoint, discovering that your loved one has…
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Jane Allyson
August 14, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
The first thing that we expect from a relationship is the need to be close to our partner and to be able to share an emotional bond. After all, is this not the reason why we are drawn to another…
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Jane Allyson
August 11, 2015
Dating
Going on a first date is going to feel special and exiting. You are going to get loads of butterflies in the stomach and you are going to feel understandably nervous. However, don’t allow these strong emotions blur the reality…
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Jane Allyson
August 10, 2015
Crisis Support
Domestic violence is often a hidden crime, committed by current or former partners in an intimate relationship, which will occur usually in the home or a similar domestic setting. Although the word domestic abuse has come to be associated with…
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Jane Allyson
August 9, 2015
Crisis Support
What is it about bad relationships? No sooner have you just managed to extradite yourself from the last poisonous one, lo and behold you have thrown yourself into another equally harmful liaison! Are you a glutton for punishment or are…
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Jane Allyson
August 5, 2015
Dating
Breaking up is never easy and people can put off the inevitable for a number of reasons. Folk have a habit of evoking that familiar mantra drilled into them by parents and grandparents, “better the devil you know that the…
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