Author Archive: James Vandenburg

Listening vs Competing for Airtime in Conversations

James Vandenburg April 12, 2015 Communication

Well Duh?! Listen Up People I think I was in the first grade when I was first introduced to the sage wisdom of “Stop, Look and Listen” as spoken by a local police officer who had obviously drawn the small…
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Break up of a Long Term Relationship

James Vandenburg March 18, 2015 Dating

Break ups I sat on the sofa, working diligently at pretending to read a book while my mind went on screaming. He was sitting in the dining room but I could feel the nervous concern of his gaze, carefully scanning…
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