Author Archive: Holle Abee
Holle Abee
November 12, 2015
Dating
Dating is a major part of a teenager’s world. Unfortunately, the usual dating destinations are expensive. Think about it. Going out to eat, even at a cheap restaurant is going to cost over twenty bucks. And movie theaters are costly,…
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Holle Abee
November 6, 2015
Communication
I met John at a hotel bar one summer when I was visiting my mom and dad, who lived a hundred miles away from my home. We hit it off instantly, but I initially assumed our encounter would be nothing…
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Holle Abee
October 26, 2015
Dating
I never thought my life would turn out like this. I thought my husband, Gene, and I would grow very old together, into our late eighties, at least. But at the age of 58, my beloved spouse lost his battle…
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Holle Abee
October 25, 2015
Skin and Body
What would the human race do without that little orange box of baking soda? Most people are familiar with baking soda’s uses for putting out fires, relieving indigestion, and keeping refrigerators, freezers, and litter boxes smelling clean and fresh. This…
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Holle Abee
October 16, 2015
Dating
Dating is an age-old ritual designed to allow two people to get to know each other. The focus should be about quality time, not about how much you can impress your date with a big price tag. If your date…
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Holle Abee
October 7, 2015
Communication
As a retired high school English teacher, speeches were a significant part of my curriculum. I’ve judged many speeches, ranging from classroom presentations to formal public speaking competitions. In order to be completely fair and thorough and to offer valuable…
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Holle Abee
October 6, 2015
Family
I had two wonderful, loving parents who gave me the best childhood imaginable. Dad is gone now, and Mom is in an Alzheimer’s unit closeby. But while they were still at home and in their eighties, I felt it was…
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Holle Abee
August 4, 2015
Friends and Peers
Humans appear to be genetically wired to want to “fit in.” Why? Because man is essentially a “pack animal,” much like wolves, dogs, and gorillas. Instead of packs, however, ancient man referred to his collective group as “tribes.” Like the lower…
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Holle Abee
July 19, 2015
Dating
Had it with on-line dating services? Frustrated by well-meaning friends who keep fixing you up with their relatives? Tired of meeting losers in the singles bars? Get a dog! HE can be your ultimate ally in finding and keeping a…
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Holle Abee
July 14, 2015
Clothes
The Style War: Europe vs. America Style is much like beauty: it is often in the eye of the beholder. For years, American women have tried to emulate European style, especially those created in the fashion capitals of Paris, London,…
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Holle Abee
June 13, 2015
Clothes
Juggling a job, a house, and a family takes its toll on today’s moms, often placing them in a veritable fashion rut, if not an actual crevass! So how does a chic mom climb out of that deep chasm and…
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Holle Abee
April 7, 2015
Style and Beauty - Other
Entering a beauty pageant isn’t like going on a picnic – especially if you’re considering glitz pageants. In order to be competitive, contestants have to do a lot of planning and a lot of work before stepping onto the stage….
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Holle Abee
March 2, 2015
Crisis Support
As a Christian, for many years I felt that suicide was an unforgivable sin. I felt that the decision of life and death should be left up to God, who has a plan for all of us. We had no…
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Holle Abee
March 1, 2015
Dating
You thought your quest for finding love was over. You were in a committed relationship and were looking forward to the upcoming holiday season. You pictured you and your significant other spending cozy evenings by the Christmas tree, attending parties…
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Holle Abee
January 19, 2015
Skin and Body
Okay, I’ll admit it: I’m a “tan-aholic.” Just check out my pic on my “About me” page and see for yourself! If you looked at the photo, you’ll quickly realize I don’t tan to look good in a bikini. Perish…
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Holle Abee
January 14, 2015
Dating
There are so many ways to say “I love you.” I’m fortunate to be married to a thoughtful, talented man who has used various methods to convey his message to me. Of course, I know he loves me, but I…
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Holle Abee
November 6, 2014
Crisis Support
When I was a kid, I remember seeing some Vincent Price horror flick about a lady who had been mistakenly buried alive. For some reason I can’t recall, they dug her up months later and pried the wooden lid off…
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Holle Abee
October 12, 2014
Skin and Body
Moving is one of the most stressful experiences a family can endure. Many psychologists have equated moving with a divorce or even a death in the family in terms of its negative effectson those involved. There are a multitude of…
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