Author Archive: Gary Davis - 203406

The very first step in saving a troubled marriage is to accept the fact that there will be no progress unless both people admit there’s a problem. Additionally, both people must be committed to finding a solution to the problem….
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There is so much to say about books. Some people don’t believe something is worthwhile unless it is written in a book. Other people feel that books are “plastic”; life should be lived; not read about. The truth probably lies…
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Wives are always thankful. They wouldn’t hurt our feelings for the World, no matter how far from the mark we happen to fall, when getting them a gift. It isn’t so much buying a wife a gift that is the…
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When my wife and I were first married, we immediately began thinking about making it to our first anniversary. I guess when you’re young and broke, your dreams are what you have, and, our greatest dream was to be together;…
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It is a fact that couples get married because they want to be together Yet, just as soon as they return from their honeymoon, there are an incredible number of demands on them that impair their ability to spend time…
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My wife has a lot to do with how I’m feeling day to day. Her attitudes about my work; my successes or failures, means a lot to me. It is very important for me to have my wife’s respect. I…
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Years ago, when I was first married, I thought the more you spent on a gift the larger the message of love. I equated money spent with how much my wife would feel loved. Also, I said the words “I…
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To many people, the act of cheating has become more of an expected occurrence than the terrible act that it truly is. Whether or not you think having an affair is an “Oops”, or “My world is coming to an…
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Why is it hard to leave a spouse when you’re in danger? Our thinking changes when we’re in danger. We lose confidence in our ability to cope. Abusive people understand that “dependant mentality”. That is one thing that gives them…
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It is the middle of the night. You’re up; unable to sleep; fearful. You’re exhausted from dodging the bill collectors; you’re upset from having to scrape yet another meal together out of nothing; you got yelled at again; for nothing….
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The reaction to a cheating wife will not be totally unlike the reaction a husband would have to her death. When you think about it, it makes sense. The relationship, at least as it was, will never be the same;…
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