Author Archive: Elaine Sihera
Elaine Sihera
October 11, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
According to a recent survey in the UK, more than 55% of people are unfaithful to their partners. The rise of the mobile phone, Internet dating sites/chat rooms and greater work freedom for both men and women, ensure that it…
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Elaine Sihera
October 10, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
So you see the man/woman you fancy across the room at a party. You edge nervously towards him/her, wanting to make that crucial impression. You finally make the connection between you and you feel really happy. You punch the air…
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Elaine Sihera
October 9, 2015
LGBT
Yes they should be allowed this for three main reasons. 1. The term marriage is synonymous with reproduction as a definite purpose. That has been the main reason for people getting hitched and sharing a life together down the centuries….
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Elaine Sihera
October 8, 2015
Friends and Peers
6 Problem Signs to Watch For in Your Relationship * Yo-Yoing: When you talk about the same problem over and over again.Somehow you never seem to get past the same items, usually from the past. You always seem to come…
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Elaine Sihera
October 7, 2015
Dating
Q. If I found out that my spouse had been lying to me, it would really hurt a lot. Sometimes, he does keep little things from me. He doesn’t tell me about problems on his job and I wish he…
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Elaine Sihera
October 4, 2015
Dating
Should I make him remove his chain? Q. My boyfriend wears two silver chains on his wrist and never takes them off – fair enough in my eyes!The only problem is, one of them is from his ex girlfriend, the…
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Elaine Sihera
September 30, 2015
Dating
The tell-tale signs of love, whether for male or female, are not easily missed because they take over one’s life for as long as the feeling lasts. They permeate every activity, they define one’s actions and appear to take on…
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Elaine Sihera
September 30, 2015
Style and Beauty - Other
There is no secret to ageing gracefully, or disgracefully as I prefer to call it. Many younger people fear ageing, but there is nothing to fear about it. Just because someone else might have problems in old age, or look…
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Elaine Sihera
September 29, 2015
Dating
Most people entering in relationships expect to stay in love for a long time. But judging by the current divorce statistics (an average of 38% of marriages end in divorce), that is not happening, especially after the heady days of…
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Elaine Sihera
September 28, 2015
Dating
Speed dating means just that: everything will be done in a very speedy fashion! Each person in the room tries to see everyone else in a given time span, between 3 and 5 minutes each, as allowed by the organisers….
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Elaine Sihera
September 27, 2015
Dating
The main purpose of a first date is to provide the opportunity for the two people involved to get to know one another without too many distractions. For this reason, only certain activities lend themselves well to be enjoyed on…
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Elaine Sihera
September 27, 2015
Dating
When we feel comfortable on a date, or we want to avoid awkward silences, it is very tempting to talk about anything that might interest us, or further our objectives, regardless of how it goes down with the other person….
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Elaine Sihera
September 27, 2015
Dating
Thanks to technology, online dating has moved to the forefront of getting to know others. Online dating is very attractive because it is the latest way of connecting to others without too much fuss. It is the latest new and…
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Elaine Sihera
September 27, 2015
Dating
Many people who are seeking dates are limited by their fears of a lot of things in their life which they cannot affect, but are vainly trying to control. A naked fear of failure, of difference, of love, of hurt,…
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Elaine Sihera
September 19, 2015
Dating
7 FREE and simple ways to romance your wife/girlfriend Some men find it hard to be romantic because many things relating to women do not come easily to them. Many struggle with ideas for keeping their relationships alive, yet there…
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Elaine Sihera
September 19, 2015
Dating
Q. I watched “Dr. Phil” tv show and they had a very interesting topic about having an affair with an older partner. The most interesting story was of a 38 year old woman and an 18 year old boy who…
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Elaine Sihera
September 18, 2015
Dating
How Success Influences Attraction Relationships are formed from our work and social circles, rarely outside of them, and in places where we feel secure and comfortable. As we choose our friends on the basis of the qualities, beliefs and interests…
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Elaine Sihera
September 16, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
A relationship in trouble is often not addressed by the two people involved perhaps because they prefer to be in denial about it, or they might feel something is wrong but are not quite sure what it is. They might…
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Elaine Sihera
September 16, 2015
Dating
Is my friend wrong to date a man who has returned from prison? Q. I’m really worried about my best friend and her new relationship (of course, it shouldn’t be my business, but..) He returned from prison only a month…
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Elaine Sihera
September 15, 2015
Dating
Friends with benefits is likely to appeal to those who want something from someone else, mainly sex, without having to deal with the expectations or needs of that person or the morality around it. Many people who are not emotionally…
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Elaine Sihera
September 13, 2015
Dating
Q. I am 21, I love my fiance and want to be with him forever. But I need to know if it’s normal to wonder what it would be like to be single again; to have the excitement to just…
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Elaine Sihera
September 11, 2015
Dating
Yes, it can, and does work, but there are many factors which can mitigate against it. Not everyone can find the love of their life on their doorstep. Falling in love can strike us when we least expect it, anywhere…
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Elaine Sihera
September 11, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
One of my friends, Gwenllian, asked me recently whether there was any truth in Tennyson’s famous quote, “It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” I didn’t even have to think about that…
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Elaine Sihera
September 11, 2015
Dating
Sometimes relationships can get stale, especially where partners have begun to take each other for granted. Doing regular romantic things together keeps the relationship fresh and vibrant. It also shows value for one’s partner and provides variety and regular enjoyment…
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Elaine Sihera
September 9, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Q. If your boyfriend loves someone else, can you accept it? if he loves your best friend and your friend also loves him, can you ever accept it? A. I would have to accept that love or attraction. What am…
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Elaine Sihera
September 9, 2015
Friends and Peers
Can we control relationships by ‘getting to know’ someone first? You cannot ever get to really know someone before you become an ‘item’ or you sleep with them because every new relationship is an act by both parties to impress…
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Elaine Sihera
September 6, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Has marriage become a virtual prison for some people? There are over 8 million people in Britain registered on dating sites. Considering the small population compared to other countries, that’s a staggering amount of Brits using websites to find a…
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Elaine Sihera
September 2, 2015
Dating
How often do we hear the statement from single people looking for new dates: “I’m seeking friendship first” because they like to get to ‘know’ the person before delving into anything more intimate. Men in particular, who fear commitment, love…
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Elaine Sihera
September 2, 2015
Dating
Shyness is a social affliction. It is a fear of mixing with others. Shy people and unhappy people have one thing in common: they mainly focus upon themselves. But self-focus comes from insecurity and kills interaction. The greatest feelings of…
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Elaine Sihera
August 31, 2015
Dating
Online dating is a relatively new phenomenon but it is now the leading method of finding a partner because of easy access, the number of users available and the personal control one has over it. Those who do not know…
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