Trust and communication are the corner stone of any relationship. Whether it be a friendship, working relationship, or a commitment made by two people to spend their lives together. With regard to a committed relationship, these are key elements. Without…
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Throughout our lives there are rules we must follow. Some are put in place to govern our actions, and breaking them results in a penalty being imposed. Then there are those referred to as unwritten rules. The only consequence of…
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The stress, the second guessing yourself and the pent up feelings. The daily struggles of caring for an elderly family member and your own children can be a very taxing time in your life. Most days are like an emotional…
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A little game of cat and mouse can add some excitement to the courting process. Playing hard to get presents the pursuer with a challenge they either readily accept or respectfully decline. Those not willing to put a little effort…
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What do drugs, alcohol, food, gambling and love have in common? You may be shocked to learn they can all become an addiction. Although reliance on an actual substance isn’t present in a love addict, the effects can be every…
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The dating game introduces us to many different personalities and people. The ones to be wary of are those vultures known as “players”. Without warning they will swoop in and prey on your weaknesses. Once they have you securely gripped…
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Driving past the car lot you spot the most beautiful, candy apple red Mustang convertible, complete with leather interior and mag tires. You can’t think of anything you’ve ever wanted more, so into the office you go, to make out…
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September 20, 2015 Communication
Although every relationship is unique, there are obvious signs that should send up red flags in a relationship. They may not all be cause to end the relationship, but further investigation should be carried out. This will let you know…
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Cruising down the highway of love exposes one to numerous signs along the way. Some may warn of upcoming hazards or urge us to slow down. Whatever the signs, they are clearly recognizable, such as the signs adorned with flashing…
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Of all the complexities in the world, the female psyche may well be the most difficult to understand. In fact I don’t think a complete understanding can ever be achieved. If you’re lucky, a basic idea is the best you…
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As the blanket of snow covering the ground begins to disappear and a subtle warm breeze can be felt in the air, the first signs of spring have begun to emerge. You know what that means, time to pack up…
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Am I raising a bad son? You tell me. I am a single mother and have been raising my son on my own since he was 13 months old. He doesn’t remember life any different. Let me tell you he…
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June 22, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
There is no doubt that fathers should have equal custody rights to their children. They were equally responsible for creating the children, so they should have equal rights in raising them. When parents divorce the children shouldn’t suffer. They deserve…
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April 21, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
When speaking about marriage a lot of topics come up in the conversation, but rarely does anyone mention longevity. Unfortunately it’s not something we tend to associate with marriage. It’s almost as though as a society we expect marriage to…
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April 21, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Long gone are the days when men spent their day hunting in the wild, in an effort to provide dinner for their family. Also gone are days of manually plowing the land, fighting off those who threaten the village and…
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To me sexy isn’t about a certain look or a great body. It’s all in the attitude and personality. There’s nothing more unattractive than a man that is so into himself that’s all he can talk about. A man could…
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February 26, 2015 Skin and Body
I spent years, taking great delight in tormenting my mother, about the ugliness of her toenails. They are yellow and about a quarter inch thick. I would joke about getting the chainsaw from the garage, to cut them. The poor…
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February 3, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
When jealousy shows it’s face in a relationship any number of masks can disguise it’s true identity. What may initially seem to be a harmless show of affection may actually be an early indication of possessive, controlling behavior. One must…
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First dates are about as awkward as trying to fit thirty gum balls into your mouth all at once. Actually, for some the gum balls might not be a bad idea, as being a ball of nerves can result in…
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The dating scene can be stressful and complicated, to say the least. A man who is dating a single mother can be presented with additional obstacles to contend with. This is not to say that the possibility of a lasting…
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November 30, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
Jumping out of the frying pan, and into the fire will only get you burned. You’d better think long and hard before making such a decision. My opinion is, never do it in a million years! You are inviting nothing…
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November 13, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
To the best of my knowledge, the Virgin Mary was the only woman ever to give birth after immaculate conception. For us mere mortals, conception can only occur with the presence of sperm. Now I’m no doctor, but unless I’m…
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In this situation, no one can give you the answer. Making such a decision, requires a lot of thought and planning ahead. This will effect everyone involved, your parents, yourself and any children you may have. It should be discussed,…
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April 27, 2014 Marriage and Divorce
The holidays are supposed to be a time of celebration with those we love, not a stress inducing yearly ordeal. As a newlywed couple you may find yourselves caught in the dilemma of whose family gathering do you attend for…
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Chatting on the internet with someone you find interesting, can be enjoyable for some. To consider this as being a real relationship would be naive. In cyber space people can be anything their imagination can dream up. A couple needs…
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January 9, 2014 Crisis Support
Healing may take a while, but you’re already on the right track. You’ve taken the most important step. Realizing the relationship is toxic, and getting out is the first phase, in the healing process. You must take some time, and…
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September 20, 2013 Communication
At the conclusion of a relationship, survival instincts kick in which allow us to lick our wounds, heal and move on. Unfortunately those same instincts resurface when beginning a new relationship, in an effort to protect ourselves from suffering any…
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