“What is necessary for your happiness?” That was a question asked in studies that examined the effects of satisfying close relationships, either with family, friends, or partners in romantic involvements, according to David G. Myers’ “Social Psychology” published in 2005….
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You may think you can’t get over your last relationship, but the truth is, you can. It takes time, patience, and the will to do so, but you can and will get over it. With time comes understanding, and with…
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In reality, it’s not possible to make anyone fall in love. The lyrics of the song say it all … “No, I can’t make you love me, if you don’t… you can’t make your heart feel, something it won’t…” Listen…
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A single friend was asked about his strategy for asking questions on a first date. As expected, he said it’s best to first consider what questions should NOT be asked. It’s simpler to get those out of the way before…
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Key wardrobe pieces for 2011’s winter is easy – simplicity is best. But having the basics applies to both men and women. When we say “wardrobe,” we often think only of women’s clothing and accessories. Guys have to have the…
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“Easy glamour” is what the women’s fashion catalogs are touting this winter season, with easy-to-wear, warm and cozy styles that won’t break the bank. This year, you’ll find everything from undergarments to outerwear that will save you money and keep…
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November 1, 2015 Friends and Peers
Ending a friendship is almost impossible for some people. There are some, despite numerous and varied complications in a friendship, who will never give up on it. Somewhere in this person’s psyche, there is the belief that things will get…
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October 28, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Marriages can be difficult even when everything is well-balanced and spouses have an even playing field. But when things are a little lopsided, resentment can grow and become a monster that threatens to destroy what started out to be a…
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October 24, 2015 Communication
There are topics we would sometimes rather not discuss, but when an issue must be settled once and for all, the only way is to address it is head-on. That involves skillful communication. One of the most frustrating issues we…
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It is disturbing to realize that in our modern society, many people are betting the farm on long-distance relationships. Most of these love matches are formed via the Internet and the many dating or match-up services available these days. Depending…
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October 18, 2015 Style and Beauty - Other
Is there really prejudice in the fashion industry against big, beautiful women? One may believe there is, but in truth, it is a matter of perception. If a woman wears plus sizes and generally lives life in sweat pants and…
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Having a strong attraction to another person is a common occurrence and is sometimes mistaken for falling in love. It is a natural reaction to another human being who seems to connect with us on various levels. Women sometimes find…
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Jealousy can eat you up alive. It’s been many years since I encountered that malicious beast, but I remember it well. It was like a gnawing feeling in the pit of my stomach that worked its way up to my…
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Maybe it’s a blessing in disguise. Of course, at the time it doesn’t seem that way, but breaking up could be in your best interest. The relationship has turned unpredictable, and you’ve been having heated disagreements more often lately. Nerves…
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I was surprised to find so much advice from so many different types of sources when I was researching this subject. There were pieces written by doctors, advice offered by psychics, and columns submitted by relationship experts, just to name…
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The women of earlier generations knew the secrets of natural skin care. Few of their generation used fancy cleansers, refreshers, skin refiners, or overnight creams or serums. Expensive products to take care of their skin would have been the last…
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September 27, 2015 Friends and Peers
A passive-aggressive friendship is one that is as difficult as any other kind of unhealthy relationship. Whether it is in a friendship, a working relationship, a marriage, or any of a number of other types of relationships, passive-aggressive behavior makes…
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September 23, 2015 Friends and Peers
Have you ever had a clingy friend? One who outstays their welcome and seems too needy? It starts out well enough with both people aware of boundaries and the rules of friendship etiquette that need to be observed. After a…
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September 18, 2015 Friends and Peers
Sometimes it’s good to look first at the far end of a spectrum to more clearly see the nearest end. To determine the minimum cost of friendship, looking at the maximum cost is a most effective way to start. The…
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September 18, 2015 Friends and Peers
Were we ever really friends? That’s a question asked when something goes wrong between human beings who have shared a closeness. When one starts to wonder if it was truly a friendship or a figment of the imagination, the question…
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September 17, 2015 Skin and Body
Labor Day signals the end of summer fun for most people in the U.S., although if the beginning of September is still especially warm, fun in the sun can continue for a while longer. The most damaging of the sun’s…
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September 8, 2015 Friends and Peers
The “blues” should be only a temporary condition. It hasn’t progressed to depression, but it could if symptoms are left unheeded. If you notice your friend is a bit down in the dumps, perhaps you can help them avoid a…
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How many times have you been unable to fall asleep at night, wondering what a guy meant by the strange, quirky little things he did when you saw him that day? It’s frustrating, trying to figure it out. It could…
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It may seem simplistic to say we choose a mate based on how close they live. I questioned that concept when I first read it, but learned that it is actually a primary reason to choose a mate and always…
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August 20, 2015 Friends and Peers
It may not seem this way sometimes, but there are many good people living among us today. They’re harder to distinguish, mainly because they are humble and many tend to keep a low profile. They’re not seeking adulation. It’s ironic…
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I’m an older woman. I’m also married, and that sort of eliminates me from the dating scene, but if I were single… …I’d date younger men. I’ve always been friends with younger people in general, so I can’t imagine holding…
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Dear Devastated in Denver – It sounds like you’ve just gotten out of a terrible relationship, and I understand you’re not getting past the effects of it as well as you’d hoped. Your partner’s physical, emotional, and verbal abuse were…
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A CHAPTER IN THE SAGA OF A DAUGHTER’S DATING LIFE: A VERY ODD BLIND DATE – It was 5:45 on Thursday evening, and Lester was due to arrive at her place in 15 minutes. Susie had been late getting home…
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I have a dear friend who told me the story of a first real life date with someone from the Internet. Although they had spent hours “chatting” online with no lack of things to say, the real life version of…
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My daughter is the expert on vintage jewelry. We’ve gone through my rather large jewelry collection several times, looking for signed pieces. The signature is the name stamped into the back of the piece. I had no idea I had…
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