Author Archive: Christopher Kendalls
Christopher Kendalls
January 27, 2015
Clothes
The workplace certainly does not seem to be a place where one can dress fashionably; people are forced to wear boring, conservative styles that do not allow them to assert their individuality and they can’t dress quite the way that…
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Christopher Kendalls
January 26, 2015
Clothes
You don’t need hundreds of dollars to throw away on designer clothing to look great; in fact there are plenty of great tips you can employ to create a timeless look. Now if you’re wearing trendy clothes, you’re almost always…
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Christopher Kendalls
January 23, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Chances are your wife either isn’t into the acts that take place in these movies or you aren’t into partaking of them with her. It’s one thing to engage in sexual acts that an outsider would consider to be degrading…
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Christopher Kendalls
January 16, 2015
Clothes
I think we’ve all been here, we want that cute little number that looks great but doesn’t necessarily keep us warm. I mean, hello, who wants to wear ugly Pendleton’s and L.L. Bean in the winter when you can wear…
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Christopher Kendalls
January 10, 2015
Dating
That all depends on how it was with those after the first. For myself I had a series of firsts in different things both physical and emotional, though I consider myself lucky to have had the first time I was…
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Christopher Kendalls
January 8, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
On the big screen women are “swept off of their feet” by a man who comes into their life and saves them from the melancholy of being alone and dealing with the tragedies of single life. In real life that…
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Christopher Kendalls
January 7, 2015
Clothes
I actually enjoyed the metrosexual fashion trend while it lasted. Around the turn of the century, or the millennium rather, a simple, clean look came into vogue; gone were the plaids, prints and complex abstract designs of the nineties and…
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Christopher Kendalls
January 7, 2015
Clothes
We all want to look great, we really do. But a lot of us fall under the influence of any one of various distractions towards creating a look that is truly ours. Below are some ways that you know if…
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Christopher Kendalls
January 6, 2015
Clothes
I am completely and irrevocably outside of the fashion norm. I still wear metrosexual fashion, still dress rather conservatively, and are for the most part against many of the fashion trends. I hate what hip-hop fashion has become; it was…
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Christopher Kendalls
January 3, 2015
Friends and Peers
I would rather loose a friend because they did not like what I had to say about their unhealthy relationship than to keep a friend because I was passive and “laid down” and did not tell them what I think…
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Christopher Kendalls
December 7, 2014
Dating
MSN is still partnering with Match.com to deliver interesting articles about dating. Today’s article dealt with female players. The writer took the usual approach, and offered that while it is a major trip to date a woman playing the field,…
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Christopher Kendalls
December 1, 2014
Communication
What do you do when a girl flirts with you, how do you handle it? It seems simple enough but the answer is all in the style and way in which the flirting occurs. One thing is certain though, some…
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Christopher Kendalls
November 22, 2014
Relationships and Family - Other
I don’t believe that love is an emotion at all, but a conclusion, a decision that is arrived through from an interpretation of the frequency and intensity of other emotions that are experienced by an individual in a relationship. On…
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Christopher Kendalls
November 6, 2014
Crisis Support
When I think of tragedies like Columbine, like the infamous incident in which a gunman went on a rampage at Von Maur, an upscale shopping destination it brings back ideas of how emotional closure is dealt with in today’s society….
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Christopher Kendalls
October 29, 2014
Dating
Manliness is not obsolete, but it has evolved. Masculinity does not have to be emulate machismo, or other narrow minded ideas of what a man is supposed to be. A man is somewhat that takes care of business through leadership…
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Christopher Kendalls
October 28, 2014
Clothes
Clothing is perhaps one of the best indicators of what a person’s true personality is. But you have to look beyond what they are wearing and take into account how they are wearing, what their body language says they feel…
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Christopher Kendalls
October 28, 2014
Clothes
If you love hip-hop you have to wear baggy jeans, over-sized t-shirts and white sneakers. If you’re into emo you have to cultivate either a post-grunge look, a fifties meets the new millennium jazz beatnik look with a dark bent…
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Christopher Kendalls
August 27, 2014
Friends and Peers
It’s cool to be friends with attractive girls, for a few different reasons. For one you inevitably get to a place in life where you stop trying to be with the most attractive girl in your path and attempt to…
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Christopher Kendalls
August 22, 2014
Relationships and Family - Other
Too often you get the impression that confidence has to come from looking a certain way or wearing certain clothes. This does give a woman confidence but what men really look at for the long term is how comfortable a woman…
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Christopher Kendalls
June 26, 2014
Clothes
I hate to say this but the way that the Tommy Hilfiger site has been redesigned, is really artistic, in comparison to the way that it was, which typically mirrored other designers web sites. The links are on the bottom,…
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Christopher Kendalls
June 14, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
This is something I had never really considered because I felt that I knew everything that I needed to know about my wife’s past; I didn’t have much of a past of my own, and didn’t think that I could…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 28, 2014
Communication
Introverts have their work cut out for them these days. When you have as many tools on the Internet to conduct social networking as exists today, web 2.0 technologies, blogs, chat, and the fact that almost every static website has…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 16, 2014
Friends and Peers
I’ll never forget what I had considered to be my first real friendship. It was with a kid down the street from me, who shall remain nameless but probably knows as much if he is reading this thing. Everything was…
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Christopher Kendalls
May 9, 2014
Communication
There is a right and wrong way to go about referring to other people. In fact, when we refer to someone else we are acting off of an implied assumption about who we like to think that they are. Yet…
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Christopher Kendalls
April 30, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Perhaps that most overlooked aspect of divorce is the disillusionment and disbelief that occurs in the lives of the children of the former couple. Adults are affected as well, but saw all of the warning signs that the relationship shows…
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Christopher Kendalls
April 12, 2014
Dating
It isn’t easy to say no to sex as a teenager. If you are still a virgin as a lot of teens are, sexuality is both a source of angst and curiosity, your reasons for not having sex may have…
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Christopher Kendalls
February 28, 2014
Dating
It isn’t okay for a young woman to date older men if she can take inventory of that relationship and see that her desire for that older man reflects issues that she had with her old man growing up. Typically…
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Christopher Kendalls
February 28, 2014
Dating
My wife married a geek, I was awkward, lacking common sense in a lot of things and still am. Those few non-geek interests I did have, like fashion, I ended up taking a geek like approach to. These are my…
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Christopher Kendalls
February 10, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
Many will ask if an emotional affair is worth the hassle, and I can attest that it isn’t. However, the real question is not if the affair is worth it, because it is often not a matter of if you…
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Christopher Kendalls
December 19, 2013
Friends and Peers
It isn’t hard to be popular. There are different ways in which you can be popular but what I’ve learned over the years is that there are but a few common threads that seem to link all popular people together….
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